Is it possible to be too wet?

my boyfriend says I get too wet and he can't get off not for a lack of trying... so does this really happen and is there anything I can do to be not as wet... he also can't get off from head doesn't know why I'll go 2 hrs and he's built up and everything but nothing comes.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • It sounds like he might have an issue separate from you. There's no such as thing as being 'too wet'. I get very wet, which my boyfriend has never complained about. He loves it, and I know that after a minute or so of sex it's no longer quite as wet so shouldn't be an issue.

    Regarding him not being able to cum from a blowjob, some guys just have an issue with that. You might have good technique, but if he got really used to the sensations from his hand when masturbating, where his grip is much tighter, your mouth alone just won't be enough. It still feels good for him, don't let the fact that you can't get him off through oral be taken personally.

    • he can't get off using his hand or a gf hand either... I think ur right it's mental or something. oh and I'm the only gf to ever give him head

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds very odd to me; usually being "non-dry" would be a good thing and most men love oral sex. I think this guy needs help. Can he get it up? Can he climax by himself/how long does it take? I've never heard of being too wet except "wet behind the ears" lol.

    • he can climax in 15 min if I don't climax. if I climax he won't climax all day no matter what we try

    • but that only through vaginal sex nothing else works

    • Maybe that wet feeling puts him off? I guess you guys just need to try to synchronise it so you climax when he's very close.

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  • Apparently these guys don't know how friction works.

    Guys need some level of friction to feel anything. Yes, there is such a thing as too much lubrication. Although I imagine you must either be unfathomably wet or he's exaggerating.

    • my exs did refer to me as a slip and slide

    • Yes this is absolutely true if you ever tried fucking in a shower its hard as hell to come man. but its like different underwater for some reason not sure why

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  • You can't be too wet, Besides that's how you are you can't change it. He may have some psychological impediments that are stopping him from finishing. You can only talk to him about it. Make sure he isn't into "extracurricular activities".

    • tried that route only think he does is work out but no steroids or drugs or even drinking he's a heath nut

  • Trade him in for another. If what you are producing is a problem for him, take the toy from him and see how he feels.

  • he's crazy

  • He has the problem, you sound perfect!

  • I guess it is possible, I love it when my woman is wet, I love feeling how wet she gets when she is turned on or has just finished. I've never thought it was possible to be too wet. As far as I am concerned the wetter the better.