Is it possible to be too wet?

my boyfriend says I get too wet and he can't get off not for a lack of trying... so does this really happen and is there anything I can do to be not as wet... he also can't get off from head doesn't know why I'll go 2 hrs and he's built up and everything but nothing comes.
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  • It sounds like he might have an issue separate from you. There's no such as thing as being 'too wet'. I get very wet, which my boyfriend has never complained about. He loves it, and I know that after a minute or so of sex it's no longer quite as wet so shouldn't be an issue.

    Regarding him not being able to cum from a blowjob, some guys just have an issue with that. You might have good technique, but if he got really used to the sensations from his hand when masturbating, where his grip is much tighter, your mouth alone just won't be enough. It still feels good for him, don't let the fact that you can't get him off through oral be taken personally.

    • he can't get off using his hand or a gf hand either... I think ur right it's mental or something. oh and I'm the only gf to ever give him head

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  • Sounds very odd to me; usually being "non-dry" would be a good thing and most men love oral sex. I think this guy needs help. Can he get it up? Can he climax by himself/how long does it take? I've never heard of being too wet except "wet behind the ears" lol.

    • he can climax in 15 min if I don't climax. if I climax he won't climax all day no matter what we try

    • but that only through vaginal sex nothing else works

    • Maybe that wet feeling puts him off? I guess you guys just need to try to synchronise it so you climax when he's very close.

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  • Apparently these guys don't know how friction works.

    Guys need some level of friction to feel anything. Yes, there is such a thing as too much lubrication. Although I imagine you must either be unfathomably wet or he's exaggerating.

    • my exs did refer to me as a slip and slide

    • Yes this is absolutely true if you ever tried fucking in a shower its hard as hell to come man. but its like different underwater for some reason not sure why

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  • You can't be too wet, Besides that's how you are you can't change it. He may have some psychological impediments that are stopping him from finishing. You can only talk to him about it. Make sure he isn't into "extracurricular activities".

    • tried that route only think he does is work out but no steroids or drugs or even drinking he's a heath nut

  • Trade him in for another. If what you are producing is a problem for him, take the toy from him and see how he feels.

  • he's crazy

  • He has the problem, you sound perfect!

  • I guess it is possible, I love it when my woman is wet, I love feeling how wet she gets when she is turned on or has just finished. I've never thought it was possible to be too wet. As far as I am concerned the wetter the better.

  • He may have a small wiener. I haven't come across too wet.

    • he's possibly the largest I've had 8-9 inches

    • So he's really 6.5 lol. But I think this is his own idiosyncrasy.

    • Hahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!

  • If your wetness is a problem, just tell him to grab a towel and wipe himself off when he feels the need to. Problem solved.

  • we just had a question not too long ago about a girl not getting as wet.. its not possible to be too wet he should be more then excited at you being extra gushy and not drying up

    • that's what I had thought cause every ex LOVED how wet I got called it a slip and slide... but this guy's never had a gf who actively participates until me so maybe he got used to fucking girls with no interest in sex so therefore they were dry? and he doesn't know the difference between barely wet and how it should be?

  • When the hypothermia kicks in, yes.

  • When she is very wet, that's great.

  • Weird. Lots of wet is hot.

  • i think he masturbates and get off alone , so he is already dry when with you, it happens to me , when i masturbate daily , i will go hours without getting off when with gf

    • he claims he can't get off by masturbation

  • being very wet is great!!! nothing wrong with you there's something wrong with him.. lol 😏

  • No such thing. Your bf is either not that into you, has some sexual dysfunction or doesn't know to eat up half the wetness before going back to work.

  • Yes, if you're really wet and/or he's on the smaller side, there not be enough friction to finish. The fact that he can't get off from a bj makes me thinks that he masturbates a lot. If a guy does it a lot it can desensitize the penis and it can be hard to get off from intercourse because the vagina is not as tight as the grip of his hand. Tell me to lay off for a while and see how it goes. If I hold out for a while, I have much more intense orgasms.

  • Then your wetness isn't the problem. I think his wiener is just broken and not sensitive enough. If he can't cum from head then that should tell you right there that he has a problem. It's definitely not your genitalia art fault... it's his.

  • Hell no, id rather have a girl dripping wet then not wet at all!