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Is it possible to get a boner from being excited over something non-sexual?

I’m a girl so I obviously don’t understand how boners work, I mean I used to think that boners were only there when guys are attracted to someone or having sexual thoughts or turned on.. etc. but like is it possible for a guy to get a boner just by being excited about sth good (not sexual) happening in the future? Or is there something really called “emotional boners”? Like when a guy is super happy, relaxed or super sad they could a boner?

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  • You're a girl? Awww, I don''t know!! I think I'm gonna need some proof!

    I've never heard of emotional boners. We DO get morning wood, sometimes!! You wake up in the morning and your bloods pumping and it gets into your dick and you discover that you're pitching a tent because your little soldier is standing at attention!

    I THINK you can get one from being too cold.

    I can sometimes get one while riding a bike, depending on the kind of seat I'm sitting on. If it's kind of a hard seat, the blood starts getting trapped in your dick and can't get back out and eventually gets a tiny bit painful, like when you cut off the circulation from your arm. at that point, you either have to ride standing up or just stop the bike and get off for a moment to let the blood escape. I had a similar thing happen to me on stage one night! I use a pair of milk crates to sit on at my drums and, everything was going well until we got near the end of one song when I noticed the same thing was happening to my dick because of the crates I was sitting on. (First time in at least 20 years!! We finished that song and I immediately stood up for a minute. Bob was starting to count in the next song and I yelled that I wasn't ready, yet. He said, "What's wrong?" I said, "My dick fell asleep. I need to let the blood escape." (He MUST'VE known what that was like, he had a foot long!!) He started laughing and then announced to the audience that we had to wait a minute because "our drummer's dick fell asleep." I DID get a couple offers for mouth to dick resuscitation! But, we had a show to do!!

    • LOL!!

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  • We all have an energy within us and when two people connect you can get turned on any moment any second of the day all you have to do is stand by each other or looking to each other's eyes and you can feel that energy just being released all throughout your whole body if you and I were standing together and we like each other you would just have to look at me your eyes would tell me everything and I would get totally turned on or you just have to walk by me and run your hand across my back or something you could be across the room and I could feel your energy and I would get turned on we all have this capability we all can do this you just have to understand energy and connection

    • Me and my boyfriend (age 24 each) are madly in love and we were talking about when we will get married and we were discussing how when we will have our own cute daughter that there might be cute jealousy of who will be in his hug (just like some facebook videos show a cute relationship between a father and his daughter) and he kept saying that he prefers to have a daughter and that scene of who will be in his hug and who’ll be jealous (in a cute joking way) and he was all smiling and happy and I noticed he got a bit of a boner, so I noticed it and it made me feel a bit weird cause there was nothing sexual about that? So just asking if this is a possible scenario? Or what else could it be? I asked and he said he was just excited over us being in the same home, being able to start a family.. etc. I am overthinking this a bit but would love to know your opinion.. Ps: we’re both virgins and didn’t have any sex cause of our culture and will do that only when we’re married

    • Can I ask you something okay so you guys aren't having any sex until you're married right can I ask you a question you can DM me if you would like or add me but yeah I have a question I would love to ask you since you're not having sex until you're married

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  • Boners are usually either sexual, due to physical cause or random. Like I sometimes get boners gym for no reason other than working out and morning wood is usually cause you need to pee. In some situations that emotial exciting boner can happen, like the one that comes to mind was after I finished a banger meeting to 12 clients, a couple of admins and named partners at my firm. That adrenaline got it hard cause reasons XD.
    And I think that's about it, so for the most part it is sexual. But if it seems random, there's a good chance that it is random.

    • Oi I'm tired... "... get boners in the* gym..." "... after I finished presenting* a banger..."

    • @chill_thoughts I get bonner when I see a Girl's tits like this 😎

      Is it possible to get a boner from being excited over something non-sexual?

    • Understandable mate 🤣

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  • No lie I get boners if I'm too stressed, I believe it's a defense mechanism lol

  • Good question. Sure guys get boners thinking about sex. However sometimes they just happen. This occurred a lot when guys are teenagers. They are walking/talking boners. That is why all younger guys jerk off so much (but most will never admit it)

    • What have you noticed with your boyfriends?

  • Boners can be completely random for men

  • Sure, Eddie Murphy says it best in "48 Hours".

    "I've been in prison 3 years. My dick gets hard when the wind blows."

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7msu2ugXGW8

  • It is normal to get an erection when wrestling and younger men or boys might get an erection for no reason at all, no doubt there are other examples.

    Having an erection does not mean a man is turned on, this requires the engagement of his mind, though it is not required for sex, only for good sex.

    • Me and my boyfriend were talking about when we will get married and we were discussing how when we will have our own cute daughter that there might be cute jealousy of who will be in his hug (just like some facebook videos show a cute relationship between a father and his daughter) and he kept saying that he prefers to have a daughter and that scene of who will be in his hug and who’ll be jealous (in a cute joking way) and he was all smiling and happy and I noticed he got a bit of a boner, so I noticed it and it made me feel a bit weird cause there was nothing sexual about that? So just asking if this is a possible scenario? Or what else could it be? I asked and he said he was just excited over us being in the same home, being able to start a family.. etc. I am overthinking this a bit but would love to know your opinion.. Ps: we’re both virgins and didn’t have any sex cause of our culture and will do that only when we’re married

    • Look, the long and the short of it is that an erection can happen at any time for any or even no reason, so trying to read something into it and interpret meaning is a recipe for disaster, you are trying to build a house with a swamp as a foundation. An analogy for a penis or an erection could perhaps be something like talking a dog for a walk, if you even touch the dogs leash it will imediately start doing cartwheels and bouncing off the walls because it thinks it is going out for a run, when in reality you are touching the leash because it fell off its hook and you are putting back in its place. Or think of it like a worker who isn't paying any attention to his job at all and doesn't know when he is required so you are just having a normal conversation and something vaguely sexual comes up and suddenly this dude arrives with all this heavy mining equipment expecting to start excavating. Dude, wtf are you doing here? Well, i heard someone say something about a hole, so I brought all the equipment so we could get started.. Yeah, I was talking about golf, we don't need you yet. I have told you I don't know how many times, I will call you when it's go time.

    • Okay, so just to rest assured do you have any idea if there’s a way to make sure he’s no a pedophile? Please help me out.. I’m desperate as I also have anxiety and overthink everything too much..

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  • The answer is yes, It seems I popped one every time I had to give a book report.. I am sure it resulted from an increased Blood pressure. I did not enjoy being in front of the class. (Something I got over.) If you have ever wondered why the regulations for a proper hanging required a significant drop. It was so the cervical vertebra would snap the neck and bring about a quick death. The change occurred because short drops and strangulations cause the brain to become ischemic and signal from the central nervous system caused the blood pressure it skyrocket. Women would attend hangings to watch the resulting boners. Later Coke and popcorn became available.

    While working at the medical examiners in Ocala, Florida, we autopsied a previously embalmed male who was wielding a significant sword. It puzzled me and I was told that some funeral home provided a last look for the widow. True or False I don't know but embalming pumps develop significant pressure.

    • Me and my boyfriend were talking about when we will get married and we were discussing how when we will have our own cute daughter that there might be cute jealousy of who will be in his hug (just like some facebook videos show a cute relationship between a father and his daughter) and he kept saying that he prefers to have a daughter and that scene of who will be in his hug and who’ll be jealous (in a cute joking way) and he was all smiling and happy and I noticed he got a bit of a boner, so I noticed it and it made me feel a bit weird cause there was nothing sexual about that? So just asking if this is a possible scenario? Or what else could it be? I asked and he said he was just excited over us being in the same home, being able to start a family.. etc. I am overthinking this a bit but would love to know your opinion..

    • At this point I think you are overthinking this. Does the thought of sexual activity produce the boner or does the boner produce sexual activity.. Certainly stimulation in various forms will produce erections. Sights, smells, sensatiions, old memories. It seems our creator or creatrix wanted us to copulate to populate. So the male psyche is programmed that way. Few women are excited by a limp member but few can ignore a hard one.

    • When I asked him why does he have a boner? When we’re not talking about sth sexual? he said what might have caused the boner is the fact that he’s super happy and excited about our future together (starting a family.. etc.) and that maybe what have caused the boner, but sb here told me that he’s a pedophile? And I’m honestly freaking out.. help?

  • Boners happen at random times, we don't have much control over them. But I've ever had a boner when I was sad. Just about all of us wake up with a boner in the morning. No real reason. Some people call it a piss boner because a lot of times if you go take a piss it goes away.

  • They claim it is random sometimes, but I don't know. I have my suspicions

  • Absolutely especially in your teens. A vibration from car bike machine, Showering or swimming, being non sexually excited like a roller coaster,

  • It's very possible, and it happens constantly. Boners literally happen all the time for no apparent reason.

    • Me and my boyfriend were talking about when we will get married and we were discussing how when we will have our own cute daughter that there might be cute jealousy of who will be in his hug (just like some facebook videos show a cute relationship between a father and his daughter) and he kept saying that he prefers to have a daughter and that scene of who will be in his hug and who’ll be jealous (in a cute joking way) and he was all smiling and happy and I noticed he got a bit of a boner, so I noticed it and it made me feel a bit weird cause there was nothing sexual about that? So just asking if this is a possible scenario? Or what else could it be? I asked and he said he was just excited over us being in the same home, being able to start a family.. etc. I am overthinking this a bit but would love to know your opinion..

    • As I said above; erections happen all the time for no apparent reason

    • But sb here said that he’s a pedophile for that? Please help me I’m freaking out..

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  • Boners can happen from pressure, moving around, being very relaxed, or sleeping, or even diet.

    Dicks are very sensative, and anything that lets more blood in that area is going to cause a boner.

    • Me and my boyfriend were talking about when we will get married and we were discussing how when we will have our own cute daughter that there might be cute jealousy of who will be in his hug (just like some facebook videos show a cute relationship between a father and his daughter) and he kept saying that he prefers to have a daughter and that scene of who will be in his hug and who’ll be jealous (in a cute joking way) and he was all smiling and happy and I noticed he got a bit of a boner, so I noticed it and it made me feel a bit weird cause there was nothing sexual about that? So just asking if this is a possible scenario? Or what else could it be? I asked and he said he was just excited over us being in the same home, being able to start a family.. etc. I am overthinking this a bit but would love to know your opinion..

    • I wouldn't read to much into it. Thoughts are like links. He could be think of hugging his daughter, then immediately after it makes him think of hugging you because thats also a hug, then he could immediately after think of hugging you naked, then what you look like naked, then sex with you, and there ya go, instant boner. That thought chain can happen in seconds, but the only part of that that was verbal was about his future daughter, so you or anyone else is going to get a weird impression. Alternatively, he could have really creepy kinks, but the prior reasoning is more likely.

    • too*

  • errections occur from anything and everything. this used to be common knowledge.

  • Yes though its not as common.

    • Me and my boyfriend were talking about when we will get married and we were discussing how when we will have our own cute daughter that there might be cute jealousy of who will be in his hug (just like some facebook videos show a cute relationship between a father and his daughter) and he kept saying that he prefers to have a daughter and that scene of who will be in his hug and who’ll be jealous (in a cute joking way) and he was all smiling and happy and I noticed he got a bit of a boner, so I noticed it and it made me feel a bit weird cause there was nothing sexual about that? So just asking if this is a possible scenario? Or what else could it be? I asked and he said he was just excited over us being in the same home, being able to start a family.. etc. I am overthinking this a bit but would love to know your opinion.. Ps we’re both virgins

    • So, the biology behind boners is pretty simple. All it is is muscles relaxing allowing blood to flow into that area. So anything that would increase heart rate and overall blood flow could potentially cause a boner. That includes being excited over non-sexual things

  • I think so.

  • Boners cans randomly happen but usually only happen when we’re turned on or have morning wood.

  • Well to answer your question I've got it erection from being excited but I can't exactly remember what it was that I was excited about but if I'm excited about getting laid I'm always excited about that oh it was making money I was making money and my dick got hard

  • Hmm. No; I don't think so.

  • Yeah chocolate mudcake makes me get boners.

  • We are very hypersensitive as far as sexual arousal goes. Just the vibrations in the floor of the city bus is enough to trigger a boner. Which why some of us guys try to find relief in the form of sex, or masturbation.

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