Is it possible to know your turn ons as a virgin?

Did you know your turn ons before you became sexually active or is that something you discover once you start having sex?
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Superb Opinion

  • yes, i believe that you already have a good idea of your turn on's before your become sexually active, however they refine as you become sexually active and continually change due to experiences and exposure to different things.

    but i believe that its the finding your self aroused that starts off the wanting sex feeling and to do that you must be attracted to something e. g. something is turning you on, be that a person, how they look what they wear etc etc etc

Most Helpful Guy

  • Just the kind of lingerie or skimpy outfits I liked for women. As I only liked solo modeling type photos. At the time. The kinds you'd find in Playboy.

    I didn't like any porn with toys, hardcore or really even video of any sort. So, I didn't develop much in the way of kinks I wanted to try. As I wasn't aware of them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, it's possible and very likely. I knew what I liked as a virgin and I did those things hundreds of times in mind before I did anything for real. I think people who lost their virginity at an easy age have this doubt.

    • Lol thank you for letting me know this. I am glad to know that it’s perfectly normal.

  • definitely, I was a virgin until I was 21 and I had a pretty good idea of what would turn me on. My desires changed as I got more experience but I woudn't say it changed drastically.

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  • I know what turns me on but I'll probably learn more when I have sex

  • Absolutely through masturbation

  • I think most women know exactly what they want before they even do anything sexual you have an idea in your mind exactly what you want

    • Ok thanks lol. Just wanted to make sure I wasn’t crazy haha. I haven’t experienced anything yet but I feel like I know exactly what my turn ons are & what I want.

    • I hope so and hopefully they’re not crazy wild ones

    • Lol why you say that? What’s wrong with that?

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  • It's possible to know what you "think" your turns are, because your brain is your biggest sex organ. Then when, and if, it happens, you'll know if your body reacted the way your brain imagined it would.

  • Yes, I believe it is possible.

  • Yes. It's very possible. It's not hard to figure these things out.

  • Watching pretty girls in the hall at school all the time and you learn pretty quickly what your turn-ons are.

  • Sure, if you've masturbated a lot and know what feels good.

    • Ok thanks lol. Just wanted to make sure I wasn’t crazy haha. I haven’t experienced anything yet but I feel like I know exactly what my turn ons are & what I want.

    • You're welcome. In my opinion, it really helps.

  • It depends. Like me, I always have a lot of sexual fantasies and turn-ons, but I always control them whenever I'm doing a task.

  • I already knew most of mine

  • yes it is possible

  • no it isn't

  • Yea it is possible. You have thoughts and fantasies that turn you on, or you look at porn that turns you on those things you’ll likely be into and more when you start having sex

  • Yes it is possible.

    • Ok thanks lol. Just wanted to make sure I wasn’t crazy haha. I haven’t experienced anything yet but I feel like I know exactly what my turn ons are & what I want.

    • You're very welcome. And not crazy at all.

    • In fact it's a good thing to know things like that.

  • ye as a woman u get when when u get turned on as a guy u get a hard on so its what ever triggers that

  • Yes guys get a stiffy and girls get drippy

  • Of course

  • Maybe through masturbating.

  • Some for sure but probably not all I think you have to sexually discover yourself

  • Definitely. I was 6 or 7 when I discovered I had a sexual interest in bondage. I didn’t know it was sexual at the time.

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