Is it possible to turn gay from being bored of women?

From hooking up at college parties to easy access to porn I have found myself bored and desensitized to womens bodies and I don't get excited about it anymore. I don't consider myself gay but I find myself drawn to males just from boredom. at least it's something new and exciting. Is it possible to be gay just because you stopped finding the other sex exciting?
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  • I suppose it is. Why wouldn't it be.

    That said your case sounds more like a down the rabbit hole problem. That is, you are always after the next fix that makes you react. Once something becomes normal, expected or even feasible it also starts to lose its appeal. This is the typical explanation as to how people end up only liking crossdressing midget vs santaclause porn. Or any other very niche thing.

    I don't think you exploring dudes is neccesarily wrong but if you are just looking to return to normal it, assuming previous guess is correct, is typically done like a detox. Avoid anything sexual for a few weeks and interests shoulf begin to shift back.
    Or not. Who knows. You might be playing for a different team now.

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  • I am not exactly bored of women but as I've gotten older they have become more inaccessible, mostly down to the fact that older women seem to be less inclined for sexual liasons or they are married. Now I wouldn't say I have turned gay but I have started to seek the company of other guys for sexual gratification and have had a few pleasurable encounters.

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  • there’s no such thing as turning gay for any gender.. maybe you were so booked up with women the beginning of your life you didn’t notice men that way until now. nothing wrong with it dude. you said you were in college, guess it’s time to experiment and if u don’t like it life goes on…

  • You don't turn gay you either are into the same sex or you're not

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  • It’s pretty possible to turn bored of women from being gay. Sexuality is fluid, of course, but your story sounds very non-straight. Give your inner bisexual a chance.

  • Maybe. But most likely you just need some diversity in your sex life. Try some different things like positions, role playing, outdoor sex etc. Do you think of girls or guys when you jerk off... that might be a sign?

  • I don't think that is the case? !!!

  • No you were born gay

  • Maybe, but perhaps you're bisexual? Or maybe you just want to experiment and are just curious. Whatever, good luck.

  • Definitely not. But you may consider celibacy.

  • Lol no. You go gay because you think dicks are delicious

  • Well i think so.. i support everyone:D

  • Possibly. All you can do is bring a guy home and find out. Make sure you have condoms and lube. Good luck.

  • Well I’m offended 🤦🏼‍♀️🥺