Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I feel so wrong asking this, and I admit from the get-go that it is a sensitive topic. But I am just being honest. I would never say that a Black woman is ugly just from being Black alone -- I can recognize beauty even when it does not personally attract me -- but personally I have NEVER felt attracted toward Black women.
More than that, I do not even feel like it is possible for me. To me the notion of being attracted to a Black woman is akin to being attracted to another man. He could be a bodybuilder for all I care, yet I would feel no attracted toward him since I am not gay.
Similarly, I could encounter the most beautiful Black woman in the world and I would not feel attracted to her. She could have an amazingly fit body, super light skin, and a beautiful face, yet I would not feel attracted toward her at all.
My penis will literally not even get erect.
She could be wearing super revealing clothing, a thong bikini, even totally naked, vagina and all, yet I would feel nothing.
Is there something wrong with me? Am I racist?
I also *admit* that as wrong and racist as this sounds, a lot of this has to do with the negative stereotypes surrounding their race which I know is racist. Even if I do not believe them, they are still engrained in my psych on the subconscious level.
When I think of Black women, I will always think of oversized butts, dirty anal sex, children from multiple fathers, HIV/AIDS, promiscuity, and a ghetto attitude.
Yet, I know that these stereotypes are completely false and racist. I admit that they are wrong. But they still influence me whether I like it or not.
Are humans inherently tribal?
Or am I just trying to justify what I know is wrong?
If I could choose between monogamy with a non-Black girl and polygamy with my own harem of Black girls, I would pick the former because the latter would literally not attract me at all.
It would be like asking me to find men attractive.
Am I racist?
Is it Racist to Not be Attracted to Black Women?
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18 25i've never felt sexually attracted to white, black, latin, arabian, etc men. i look at them and feel nothing. it's always been like this. i don't think it's racism because i think they're fine as fellow human beings.
Wow that's special to be you.
No, is not, for example.. Well I don´t discriminate, the thing is that as long as you don´t feel superior tan someone from an specific race you are not a racist. That´s what makes a racista a racist, the idea that his race is better tan all races or another race. Remember, preference is not racism.
Who cares? I mean, are you worried about thought police? If someone wants to give you flak for not dating black women tell them to jump off a cliff.
I don't know , although if you ever been with one , I'll bet you'll never go back to what you had before that. !!
No you're not racist. Im the same but just with black guys I don't find attractive and would never marry/have sex with one
Can I ask what race are you attracted to? I assume just white and Latino?
@Unique_Asian_dude im attracted to what I find cute
I'm not black. But curiously, Do you mean blacks can't look cute to you?
@Unique_Asian_dude lol I know your not black it says you're Asian in your username. And I just don't find them attractive its simple end of conversation bye
Not at all, we all have our turn on's and are attracted to different types of people. Most, probably just about everyone, likely is attracted to a very small and specific group/type of woman/man. So, not at all bro, you are way over thinking this here. The world is way too racially sensitive nowadays.
Well, I am Asian and I'm not attracted to Asian women, so go figure.
I admit I don't find black women attractive in general.
But I've found a few really cute mixed black girls. I can never understand why you don't find a whole race like billions of people unattractive.
Attractive*
Yeah, you should be a bigot to turn down big booties
lololol
Some people say you are but you aren't. Don't worry too much.
Oh, fuck up & wise up you stupid racist prick, if my fiancé was here, he'd come n smack the bollocks outta you!
- Black, Azorean & Danish Gyal, engaged to an Northern Irish Man, he taught me how to speak like that 😂
It's not racist it's called preference just like i don't like german women and prefer russian ones.
the preference isn't racist, but your ignorant stereotypes sure are
Exactly !!
No I'm not attracted to black people or Arabs either. It's just preference
It's not rascist man! I know what you mean. It's kinda the same for me.
These idiots hating on him probably never lived in a ghetto or even visited one. I've seen what black women did in the ghetto I lived in; that's why I have preferences
@Loadedgamer Exactly!! Same here! I had friends and family in the ghetto also. And I'm not a fan of what I saw.
I have black friends who lived in another ghetto that say they can't deal with black women from what they've seen. It's sad but true. However they're nice black women too, but it's not where I live. That's for damn sure lol. Probably city black women
@Loadedgamer
Yeah something like this is preferred lol
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But yeah!! Couple of my buddies date them and I instantly know, I want no part of what they offer. Not all are like you said. But they ghetto ones are just too much.
That women actually looks stunning.
@Loadedgamer Leslie Ann-Brandt She is very stunning!!!
@Loadedgamer I live in California and have worked in Oakland for a lot of years. I think that speaks for itself. Hence why these stereotypes do ring true for me, at least in some instances. I know that not *all* Black women are like this, but subconsciously it is always on my mind.
No. Not racist. Just personal preference in women.
Of course not.
I swear, there's a question like this almost every three days. You like what you like. There is nothing to suggest you or obligated to like certain people.