Is it rape if your partner still doing it even you asked to stop? ?

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  • Of course it is

  • Yes.

  • That is absolutely, totally rape

  • Short answer : yes

  • Yeah, that sounds like a rape

  • Yes it is

  • It can be. Sexual harassment is based on consent, and it can be revoked.

  • It is but you will have a hard time proving it.

  • i wouldn't be jump to rape accusations right away. in the heat of the moment, things can be weird. if i was in your situation, i would adress it when you're not having sex and talk about it. like ask him if he took note of you saying stop. and ask what his thought process was in the moment.

    from there maybe come up with a solution to avoid having that issue in the future. safe words are always a good idea not only in extreme sex. make a safe word that when either of you use that word, every sexual action must stop. and then try using this word and see if he acts accordingly.

    if he still ingnores your wish to stop, i would honestly still not be inclined to call it "rape", cause that's a bit harsh and in my opinion is disrespectful to rape victims who didn't even want the sex at all and got severe trauma from the rape. if he still does it, it is definitely not ok tho and i'd seriously consider ending the relationship about that.

    • @genericname85 - how is it not rape if someone says stop or no? That IS the definition of rape, engaging in sexual activity to which one partner does not or is not able to consent.

    • @genericname85 - unfortunately for you the law & police would agree, it's why spousal rape exists and why trashier men that don't respect women just see them as sex objects to get off on are rightfully tossed into jail when caught.

    • @BigWhiteWolf87 rape also includes the aspect that he must take note of and understand that she is not consenting to what he's doing right now, when consent to sex in general was previously given. i assume that you just ignored that part because you like to throw rape accusations around, which is A: misandrist and B: disrespectful to actual rape victims. i do not wish to continue the conversation with you. bye.

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  • You're 25 years old, at least, according to your anon. If you say no and your partner tries to force you to continue against your will, what do THINK it means - they suddenly went deaf? *smh*

  • Technically, but you should forgive him because often we don't wanna stop 'cuz it feels too damn good

  • If you say stop and he keeps going it is definitely rape.

  • Yes.

  • Yes unless they are into that and you have a safe word.

  • Yes, you can call thr cops too

  • yes as soon as you ask him to stop!

  • Yes. Rape is sex without consent at any point, as long as the lack if consent is indicated.

  • Yes.

  • nope, at least not in the first few minutes where his brain has to process this unbelievable shit

  • Yeah but If he hasn't even got to finish it wouldn't be nice for her to say stop let him finish

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