It can be. Sexual harassment is based on consent, and it can be revoked.
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Shedzij567Xper 7
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Yes it is
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genericname85Master
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i wouldn't be jump to rape accusations right away. in the heat of the moment, things can be weird. if i was in your situation, i would adress it when you're not having sex and talk about it. like ask him if he took note of you saying stop. and ask what his thought process was in the moment.
from there maybe come up with a solution to avoid having that issue in the future. safe words are always a good idea not only in extreme sex. make a safe word that when either of you use that word, every sexual action must stop. and then try using this word and see if he acts accordingly.
if he still ingnores your wish to stop, i would honestly still not be inclined to call it "rape", cause that's a bit harsh and in my opinion is disrespectful to rape victims who didn't even want the sex at all and got severe trauma from the rape. if he still does it, it is definitely not ok tho and i'd seriously consider ending the relationship about that.
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BigWhiteWolf87
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@genericname85 - how is it not rape if someone says stop or no? That IS the definition of rape, engaging in sexual activity to which one partner does not or is not able to consent.
BigWhiteWolf87
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@genericname85 - unfortunately for you the law & police would agree, it's why spousal rape exists and why trashier men that don't respect women just see them as sex objects to get off on are rightfully tossed into jail when caught.
genericname85
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@BigWhiteWolf87 rape also includes the aspect that he must take note of and understand that she is not consenting to what he's doing right now, when consent to sex in general was previously given. i assume that you just ignored that part because you like to throw rape accusations around, which is A: misandrist and B: disrespectful to actual rape victims. i do not wish to continue the conversation with you. bye.
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BlackBeauty90
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@genericname85 - So what if you were hurting someone you were having sex with & they asked you to stop? What if someone you were having sex with asked you to stop because they were having some sort of a medical issue?
BlackBeauty90
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@genericname85 - when consent to sex in general was previously given. By law consent can be removed at any moment.
genericname85
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@BlackBeauty90 of course it's not ok to ignore when your partner is asking you to stop. but in the heat of the moment, things can be unclear. like you stop cause you think you're hurting them and they're like "wtf don't stop". or it can be vice versa... i'm trying to stay reasonable here and figure things out instead of calling everyone a rapist right away like this other girl i just blocked.
BlackBeauty90
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@genericname85 - if someone is asking you to STOP you STOP. There is no "heat of the moment" BULLSHIT. STOP means STOP. It is that simple. As I said if someone is saying STOP you could be HURTING them or they may be having a MEDICAL EMERGENCY. If someone is gonna continue in the "heat of the moment" when someone says STOP because as an extreme example they're having a heart attack they're not a rapist, but definitely trash.
genericname85
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@BlackBeauty90 you need to stop getting all emotional. it doesn't help in a rational discussion.
BlackBeauty90
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@genericname85 - ROFL. I'm hardly getting emotional, I'm using logics. You as morals & ethics is not your strong point don't care for logics.
@BlackBeauty90 so now you're starting to twist things like that other girl that i blocked did. continue that and i'll block you too. i'm trying to have a reasonable discussion. i'm not saying that the guy this question is about didn't have any rapy shit going on. but i'm assuming innosence untill guilt is proven. you apparently don't. so you don't get to lecture me on morals.
BlackBeauty90
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@genericname85 - what's your discussion? You said that if in the "heat of the moment" that stop doesn't exist. If someone says stop, it means stop. I just gave two alternative reasons for saying stop - hurting someone else & medical emergencies - and you're still going on about rape. From what you said yourself, stop doesn't exist even if you're hurting someone else or if medical emergencies due to "heat of the moment".
BlackBeauty90
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@genericname85 - so dicuss. I've been waiting for you to hold a valid conversation from the start.
genericname85
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@BlackBeauty90 i did not say stop doesn't exist in the heat of the moment. i did say that he might not have taken note of it or she didn't say "stop" with a serious face or whatever. I don't know what happened. i'm trying to figure it out together with the asker and everyone like you and the other girl is like "NO SHUT UP IT WAS RAPE; I DON'T NEED EVIDENCE" xD wtf
genericname85
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@BlackBeauty90 i don't know if this is shocking to you but i assume people are innocent generally speaking. i assume they are good people. untill i have proof that forces me to think otherwise. and i think doing it the other way around causes a lot of unnecessary harm to innocent people.
genericname85
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@BlackBeauty90 i don't treat people like a racist before i know 100% that they are one. I don't know why women are so easy around that.
genericname85
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BlackBeauty90
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@genericname85 - you asked to discuss and have continually blubbered about nothing I have brought up - if you are causing someone PAIN while having sex or if they are having a medical emergency - like an absolute CLOWN. It is a SIMPLE question I am asking. Comprehend? If you are HURTING SOMEONE or if someone is having a MEDICAL EMERGENCY and ASK YOU TO STOP would you STOP.
genericname85
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@BlackBeauty90 ok we're going in cyrcles now. done talking to you.
genericname85
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sick of misandristic overly emotional idiots.
NoPatienceForDBs
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@genericname85 - she's asking a logical question. There's nothing emotional about it. But it speaks extremely lowly of you that you can't answer something so easy as a guy.
genericname85
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@NoPatienceForDBs i explained my position to her. scroll further up.
genericname85
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@NoPatienceForDBs i blocked you right away too, cause you started with an ad hominem attack right out of the gate. i'm not talking to people like that.
BlondeAndGreenEyed
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@genericname85 - So what's your position on someone asking you to stop if you're causing them harm? I've read your comment multiple times and don't see any respnse.
genericname85
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@BlondeAndGreenEyed i'll reiterate my point since you're coming off as someone who's not trying to flip their neurotic shit at me :D. all these other girls (and the one guy) and also you in your question are already somehow 100% sure that he got the message that she actually genuinely wanted him to stop. i'm at the stage of trying to figure that shit out. i wasn't there. i don't know what happened exactly. reality is rarely very simple and straight foreward. i'm merely trying to take a step back, seeing if in this story we're talking about, the guy actually got that message and intentionally, maliciously ignored it with the intend to hurt her. if that was actually the case, i agree with all the other girls. but i haven't reached that conclusion yet and everyone is attacking me personally, just cause i'm carefull with making such severe judgments as calling someone a rapist... i don't throw that accusation around easily and i think doing so would be very bad.
BlondeAndGreenEyed
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@genericname85 - Oh I understand that. I'm asking where did you explain what you'd do if someone asked you to stop because you're causing them pain? That has nothing to do with the claims of rape which people have to be careful of. But it's interesting you never answered that scenario of someone asking you to stop because you're causing them pain.
genericname85
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@BlondeAndGreenEyed well if someone is getting ad hominem with me and already obviously has made their conclusion that it's rape and that i'm wrong, going straight to trying to moral high road me without any further inquiry, i'm not gonna continue having a friendly conversation with them. like you're asking me differently. you notice that right? your question comes from a genuine curiosity and a honest attempt at understanding what i mean first... that's why i'm gonna answer you and not these other people. so obviously if i was having sex with a girl and suddenly, instead of moaning, she just yells "ow" or "hey, stop please, you're hurting me", i'm, of course gonna stop. that's a no brainer. but in this situation that happens from my perspective, i already assume that i noticed she was trying to stop me cause i'm causing her pain. Granted, it's a bit hard for me to imagine a situation where i don't notice it when i'm hurting her and she's trying to tell me but i'm genuinely missing it/not noticing it. but i think shit happens. maybe she was silent. some people are really into rough stuff where saying stop would sort of normal and not a sign of lack of consent. maybe he was so into it and disctracted. I don't know. anyway that's why i said what i said in my initial comment. to rule out that there can be a missunderstanding and to be close to 100% sure that he actually took note of her being in pain and trying to stop him. and to be sure that he intentionally ignored it out of willfull ignorance or complete disregard for her wellbeing. cause if that's the case, i'd be all on board with all the other comments under my opinion, calling that rape. but since that wasn't the conclusion i have made yet, i felt all these people making that judgement were being too fast and easy about it and then they were trying to gaslight me into being an asshole, which i do not appreciate.
BlondeAndGreenEyed
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@genericname85 - "some people are really into rough stuff where saying stop would sort of normal and not a sign of lack of consent." No even in rough sex respectful partners have safe words so if someone is saying stop, it means stop. Not do a headstand. So when someone engaging in sex says stop, it means stop. Not think about it.
genericname85
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@BlondeAndGreenEyed why would patners have "safe words". because for certain variants of sex, stop could not mean stop. thanks for proving my point. also it's interesting that out of EVERYTHING i just explaned, you lazer focus on that tiny aspect. certain people (yes women too) love rape rollplay and these sort of fantasies. i personally don't. but either way. "stop not meaning stop" wasn't the only pont that i would have "to make sure of first" before condemning him and agreeing that he's a rapist. i hope you took notes of these other points as well and didn't just gloss over them like the other people did.
BlondeAndGreenEyed
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@genericname85 - ", stop could not mean stop" - NO where does stop not mean stop. I brought up safe words because you mentioned rough sex and you use safe words including STOP which means STOP.
BlondeAndGreenEyed
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@genericname85 - "certain people (yes women too) love rape rollplay and these sort of fantasies. " - Even in fantasies if someone is saying stop, DECENT people stop. Let me put it another way. If someone is beating you & you say stop, are they to assume you actually mean continue beating me.
genericname85
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@BlondeAndGreenEyed stop shaming people for sexual kinks they may have where they say stop when they actually want to continue cause they like the illusion of being overpowered and helpless so much... see how I'm applying morality and shame to what you just said in order to attack you personally when really i should have argued the point you're making? you have been doing well in this conversation so far. Don't start trying to gaslight me like the other people. I can play this game and I don't like it. I'm giving you this warning cause you seemed ok up untill now. I know what I'm talking about. I don't have that fetish myself but it exists and I don't care if you don't think so. Besides this possibility is not even my only argument that i mentioned that needs to be cleared up before i will agree this was rape. Don't think I'm not noticing your slow and careful attempt at morally high roading me. If you don't know that "stop" or "no" doesn't always mean that, that's ok. Don't blame me for you not knowing. But i think you do know. Cause you mentioned that safe words exist. Why do you think safe words even exist, if "stop" or "no" would always work for everyone 100% of the time? If that was the case, then "safe words" wouldn't be a thing.
genericname85
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@BlondeAndGreenEyed like I'm very much a vanilla, happy sex myself and I do not enjoy these kinds ok kinks myself. And I can tell you from my personal experience: I've been asked by girls to do things to them that are very violent or mentally accusative in my mind. Like way beyond what I'd ever be comfortable with actually doing to someone. I'm talking HARD slapping to the point of bruising, punching, strangulating, chocking verbal abuse, pissing on them... I've been asked for that. I don't like that shit. For me it's very easy to believe that some people enjoy that saying no thing but the partner still continuing... Again. Don't morally high road be it's not me who likes that. I don't even think it's normal or healthy. i just know it's a thing, cause I've been exposed to it.
BlondeAndGreenEyed
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@genericname85 - what ARE you GOING on about? I am talking about how STOP means STOP. But if I was to use YOUR logics if someone was beating the shit out of you & you said stop, they're to think about it and then believe you're saying keep beating me.
genericname85
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@BlondeAndGreenEyed i explaimed. my position very carefully. Take a step back and read again. Try to really understand that hat i said without getting triggered. May be you can do it.
BlondeAndGreenEyed
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@genericname85 - no you never did sweetie. Try to read what you write, it's amusing how you constantly go around and around like a snake not answering questions that reveal your true nature.
genericname85
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@BlondeAndGreenEyed ok i'm gonna block you like all these gass lighting assholes before you did and i explain to you why exactly: i explained precisely how and under what circumstances a "no" or a "stop" CAN actually not be someone asking to stop. i'm not saying that everyone does it that way and i'm not even saying it's normal. in addition to that i am also saying specifically that I AM PERSONALLY NOT INTO THIS KIND OF THING and yet... instead of just disagreeing with me and saying "i don't think the sexual situation you described exists", which would have been fair enough, you are now trying to gaslight me into thinking what i said isn't true when i know it is and you're trying to shame me by making a moral argument about my character despite me saying that i'm not a part of this kink. and then you also kept ignoring the other reasons that i gave that also explain the described situation without it being rape. i gave you the warning to stop and you continued to do it, so now you're blocked. bye.
genericname85
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@BlondeAndGreenEyed besides, there was no question to answer. the only question mark in your last comment is here: "what ARE you GOING on about?" and this is not a genuine question. it's a rhetorical question i can't possibly give, cause you've made your conclusion independend of whatever i'm gonna say.
genericname85
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next person who's gonna reply to this, if you wanna get blocked by me as well, just say so. don't make me waste my time trying to have a reasonable and resprectful discussion.
loveslongnailsMaster
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You're 25 years old, at least, according to your anon. If you say no and your partner tries to force you to continue against your will, what do THINK it means - they suddenly went deaf? *smh*
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Sparkie460Guru
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If you say stop and he keeps going it is definitely rape.
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KostasKouvalisGuru
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Technically, but you should forgive him because often we don't wanna stop 'cuz it feels too damn good
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DarkLegacyExplorer
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It is but you will have a hard time proving it.
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LiamJHaydenGuru
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Yes.
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PohjolanExplorer
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Yes unless they are into that and you have a safe word.
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Brando10222Xper 7
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Yes, you can call thr cops too
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booblikerGuru
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yes as soon as you ask him to stop!
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TwalliMaster
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Yes. Rape is sex without consent at any point, as long as the lack if consent is indicated.
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TallAnonMaster
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Yes.
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notwokeXper 7
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nope, at least not in the first few minutes where his brain has to process this unbelievable shit
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chronic22Xper 1
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Yeah but If he hasn't even got to finish it wouldn't be nice for her to say stop let him finish
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18 47Yes.
That is absolutely, totally rape
Short answer : yes
Of course it is
Yeah, that sounds like a rape
It can be. Sexual harassment is based on consent, and it can be revoked.
Yes it is
i wouldn't be jump to rape accusations right away. in the heat of the moment, things can be weird. if i was in your situation, i would adress it when you're not having sex and talk about it. like ask him if he took note of you saying stop. and ask what his thought process was in the moment.
from there maybe come up with a solution to avoid having that issue in the future. safe words are always a good idea not only in extreme sex. make a safe word that when either of you use that word, every sexual action must stop. and then try using this word and see if he acts accordingly.
if he still ingnores your wish to stop, i would honestly still not be inclined to call it "rape", cause that's a bit harsh and in my opinion is disrespectful to rape victims who didn't even want the sex at all and got severe trauma from the rape. if he still does it, it is definitely not ok tho and i'd seriously consider ending the relationship about that.
@genericname85 - how is it not rape if someone says stop or no? That IS the definition of rape, engaging in sexual activity to which one partner does not or is not able to consent.
@genericname85 - unfortunately for you the law & police would agree, it's why spousal rape exists and why trashier men that don't respect women just see them as sex objects to get off on are rightfully tossed into jail when caught.
@BigWhiteWolf87 rape also includes the aspect that he must take note of and understand that she is not consenting to what he's doing right now, when consent to sex in general was previously given. i assume that you just ignored that part because you like to throw rape accusations around, which is A: misandrist and B: disrespectful to actual rape victims. i do not wish to continue the conversation with you. bye.
@genericname85 - So what if you were hurting someone you were having sex with & they asked you to stop? What if someone you were having sex with asked you to stop because they were having some sort of a medical issue?
@genericname85 - when consent to sex in general was previously given. By law consent can be removed at any moment.
@BlackBeauty90 of course it's not ok to ignore when your partner is asking you to stop. but in the heat of the moment, things can be unclear. like you stop cause you think you're hurting them and they're like "wtf don't stop". or it can be vice versa... i'm trying to stay reasonable here and figure things out instead of calling everyone a rapist right away like this other girl i just blocked.
@genericname85 - if someone is asking you to STOP you STOP. There is no "heat of the moment" BULLSHIT. STOP means STOP. It is that simple. As I said if someone is saying STOP you could be HURTING them or they may be having a MEDICAL EMERGENCY. If someone is gonna continue in the "heat of the moment" when someone says STOP because as an extreme example they're having a heart attack they're not a rapist, but definitely trash.
@BlackBeauty90 you need to stop getting all emotional. it doesn't help in a rational discussion.
@genericname85 - ROFL. I'm hardly getting emotional, I'm using logics. You as morals & ethics is not your strong point don't care for logics.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZ3QHTpMZgQ no doesn't mean no. stop doesn't mean stop. you need to stop acting as if it was clear cut always.
@BlackBeauty90 so now you're starting to twist things like that other girl that i blocked did. continue that and i'll block you too. i'm trying to have a reasonable discussion. i'm not saying that the guy this question is about didn't have any rapy shit going on. but i'm assuming innosence untill guilt is proven. you apparently don't. so you don't get to lecture me on morals.
@genericname85 - what's your discussion? You said that if in the "heat of the moment" that stop doesn't exist. If someone says stop, it means stop. I just gave two alternative reasons for saying stop - hurting someone else & medical emergencies - and you're still going on about rape. From what you said yourself, stop doesn't exist even if you're hurting someone else or if medical emergencies due to "heat of the moment".
@genericname85 - so dicuss. I've been waiting for you to hold a valid conversation from the start.
@BlackBeauty90 i did not say stop doesn't exist in the heat of the moment. i did say that he might not have taken note of it or she didn't say "stop" with a serious face or whatever. I don't know what happened. i'm trying to figure it out together with the asker and everyone like you and the other girl is like "NO SHUT UP IT WAS RAPE; I DON'T NEED EVIDENCE" xD wtf
@BlackBeauty90 i don't know if this is shocking to you but i assume people are innocent generally speaking. i assume they are good people. untill i have proof that forces me to think otherwise. and i think doing it the other way around causes a lot of unnecessary harm to innocent people.
@BlackBeauty90 i don't treat people like a racist before i know 100% that they are one. I don't know why women are so easy around that.
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@genericname85 - you asked to discuss and have continually blubbered about nothing I have brought up - if you are causing someone PAIN while having sex or if they are having a medical emergency - like an absolute CLOWN. It is a SIMPLE question I am asking. Comprehend? If you are HURTING SOMEONE or if someone is having a MEDICAL EMERGENCY and ASK YOU TO STOP would you STOP.
@BlackBeauty90 ok we're going in cyrcles now. done talking to you.
sick of misandristic overly emotional idiots.
@genericname85 - she's asking a logical question. There's nothing emotional about it. But it speaks extremely lowly of you that you can't answer something so easy as a guy.
@NoPatienceForDBs i explained my position to her. scroll further up.
@NoPatienceForDBs i blocked you right away too, cause you started with an ad hominem attack right out of the gate. i'm not talking to people like that.
@genericname85 - So what's your position on someone asking you to stop if you're causing them harm? I've read your comment multiple times and don't see any respnse.
@BlondeAndGreenEyed i'll reiterate my point since you're coming off as someone who's not trying to flip their neurotic shit at me :D. all these other girls (and the one guy) and also you in your question are already somehow 100% sure that he got the message that she actually genuinely wanted him to stop. i'm at the stage of trying to figure that shit out. i wasn't there. i don't know what happened exactly. reality is rarely very simple and straight foreward. i'm merely trying to take a step back, seeing if in this story we're talking about, the guy actually got that message and intentionally, maliciously ignored it with the intend to hurt her. if that was actually the case, i agree with all the other girls. but i haven't reached that conclusion yet and everyone is attacking me personally, just cause i'm carefull with making such severe judgments as calling someone a rapist... i don't throw that accusation around easily and i think doing so would be very bad.
@genericname85 - Oh I understand that. I'm asking where did you explain what you'd do if someone asked you to stop because you're causing them pain? That has nothing to do with the claims of rape which people have to be careful of. But it's interesting you never answered that scenario of someone asking you to stop because you're causing them pain.
@BlondeAndGreenEyed well if someone is getting ad hominem with me and already obviously has made their conclusion that it's rape and that i'm wrong, going straight to trying to moral high road me without any further inquiry, i'm not gonna continue having a friendly conversation with them. like you're asking me differently. you notice that right? your question comes from a genuine curiosity and a honest attempt at understanding what i mean first... that's why i'm gonna answer you and not these other people. so obviously if i was having sex with a girl and suddenly, instead of moaning, she just yells "ow" or "hey, stop please, you're hurting me", i'm, of course gonna stop. that's a no brainer. but in this situation that happens from my perspective, i already assume that i noticed she was trying to stop me cause i'm causing her pain. Granted, it's a bit hard for me to imagine a situation where i don't notice it when i'm hurting her and she's trying to tell me but i'm genuinely missing it/not noticing it. but i think shit happens. maybe she was silent. some people are really into rough stuff where saying stop would sort of normal and not a sign of lack of consent. maybe he was so into it and disctracted. I don't know. anyway that's why i said what i said in my initial comment. to rule out that there can be a missunderstanding and to be close to 100% sure that he actually took note of her being in pain and trying to stop him. and to be sure that he intentionally ignored it out of willfull ignorance or complete disregard for her wellbeing. cause if that's the case, i'd be all on board with all the other comments under my opinion, calling that rape. but since that wasn't the conclusion i have made yet, i felt all these people making that judgement were being too fast and easy about it and then they were trying to gaslight me into being an asshole, which i do not appreciate.
@genericname85 - "some people are really into rough stuff where saying stop would sort of normal and not a sign of lack of consent." No even in rough sex respectful partners have safe words so if someone is saying stop, it means stop. Not do a headstand. So when someone engaging in sex says stop, it means stop. Not think about it.
@BlondeAndGreenEyed why would patners have "safe words". because for certain variants of sex, stop could not mean stop. thanks for proving my point. also it's interesting that out of EVERYTHING i just explaned, you lazer focus on that tiny aspect. certain people (yes women too) love rape rollplay and these sort of fantasies. i personally don't. but either way. "stop not meaning stop" wasn't the only pont that i would have "to make sure of first" before condemning him and agreeing that he's a rapist. i hope you took notes of these other points as well and didn't just gloss over them like the other people did.
@genericname85 - ", stop could not mean stop" - NO where does stop not mean stop. I brought up safe words because you mentioned rough sex and you use safe words including STOP which means STOP.
@genericname85 - "certain people (yes women too) love rape rollplay and these sort of fantasies. " - Even in fantasies if someone is saying stop, DECENT people stop. Let me put it another way. If someone is beating you & you say stop, are they to assume you actually mean continue beating me.
@BlondeAndGreenEyed stop shaming people for sexual kinks they may have where they say stop when they actually want to continue cause they like the illusion of being overpowered and helpless so much... see how I'm applying morality and shame to what you just said in order to attack you personally when really i should have argued the point you're making? you have been doing well in this conversation so far. Don't start trying to gaslight me like the other people. I can play this game and I don't like it. I'm giving you this warning cause you seemed ok up untill now. I know what I'm talking about. I don't have that fetish myself but it exists and I don't care if you don't think so. Besides this possibility is not even my only argument that i mentioned that needs to be cleared up before i will agree this was rape. Don't think I'm not noticing your slow and careful attempt at morally high roading me. If you don't know that "stop" or "no" doesn't always mean that, that's ok. Don't blame me for you not knowing. But i think you do know. Cause you mentioned that safe words exist. Why do you think safe words even exist, if "stop" or "no" would always work for everyone 100% of the time? If that was the case, then "safe words" wouldn't be a thing.
@BlondeAndGreenEyed like I'm very much a vanilla, happy sex myself and I do not enjoy these kinds ok kinks myself. And I can tell you from my personal experience: I've been asked by girls to do things to them that are very violent or mentally accusative in my mind. Like way beyond what I'd ever be comfortable with actually doing to someone. I'm talking HARD slapping to the point of bruising, punching, strangulating, chocking verbal abuse, pissing on them... I've been asked for that. I don't like that shit. For me it's very easy to believe that some people enjoy that saying no thing but the partner still continuing... Again. Don't morally high road be it's not me who likes that. I don't even think it's normal or healthy. i just know it's a thing, cause I've been exposed to it.
@genericname85 - what ARE you GOING on about? I am talking about how STOP means STOP. But if I was to use YOUR logics if someone was beating the shit out of you & you said stop, they're to think about it and then believe you're saying keep beating me.
@BlondeAndGreenEyed i explaimed. my position very carefully. Take a step back and read again. Try to really understand that hat i said without getting triggered. May be you can do it.
@genericname85 - no you never did sweetie. Try to read what you write, it's amusing how you constantly go around and around like a snake not answering questions that reveal your true nature.
@BlondeAndGreenEyed ok i'm gonna block you like all these gass lighting assholes before you did and i explain to you why exactly: i explained precisely how and under what circumstances a "no" or a "stop" CAN actually not be someone asking to stop. i'm not saying that everyone does it that way and i'm not even saying it's normal. in addition to that i am also saying specifically that I AM PERSONALLY NOT INTO THIS KIND OF THING and yet... instead of just disagreeing with me and saying "i don't think the sexual situation you described exists", which would have been fair enough, you are now trying to gaslight me into thinking what i said isn't true when i know it is and you're trying to shame me by making a moral argument about my character despite me saying that i'm not a part of this kink. and then you also kept ignoring the other reasons that i gave that also explain the described situation without it being rape. i gave you the warning to stop and you continued to do it, so now you're blocked. bye.
@BlondeAndGreenEyed besides, there was no question to answer. the only question mark in your last comment is here: "what ARE you GOING on about?" and this is not a genuine question. it's a rhetorical question i can't possibly give, cause you've made your conclusion independend of whatever i'm gonna say.
next person who's gonna reply to this, if you wanna get blocked by me as well, just say so. don't make me waste my time trying to have a reasonable and resprectful discussion.
You're 25 years old, at least, according to your anon. If you say no and your partner tries to force you to continue against your will, what do THINK it means - they suddenly went deaf? *smh*
If you say stop and he keeps going it is definitely rape.
Technically, but you should forgive him because often we don't wanna stop 'cuz it feels too damn good
It is but you will have a hard time proving it.
Yes.
Yes unless they are into that and you have a safe word.
Yes, you can call thr cops too
yes as soon as you ask him to stop!
Yes. Rape is sex without consent at any point, as long as the lack if consent is indicated.
Yes.
nope, at least not in the first few minutes where his brain has to process this unbelievable shit
Yeah but If he hasn't even got to finish it wouldn't be nice for her to say stop let him finish