Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health This is something I have been living with for the past two years. Yes, it took that long before I could ever talk about it. Long story made short, I have a best friend that I have known since middle school. We were both on the dance team in high school and are very close. She has been with the same guy for 5 years and about two years ago, all three of us got really high and drunk which we normally don’t do. I asked her if I could spend the night and she was hesitant at first because she is very overprotective of her boyfriend and she said as long as I sleep on his couch then it would be fine. I couldn’t spend the night at her house because her parents don’t allow ANY SLEEPOVERS and they are to blame for what happened that night. If I was in my full senses, I wouldn’t have slept with him. Anyway, she leaves and is constantly blowing up my phone and asking if she could FaceTime me while I fell asleep. I got mad and we got into an argument because it felt like she didn’t trust me. I hung up on her and she started blowing up her boyfriends phone then he reassured her that he loved her and nothing would happen then she fell asleep because it was 4am.
Well, we had sex after she hung up. She apologized the next day to both of us and said she was just drunk and acting stupid. We accepted her apology and we kept that between ourselves. We were all very wasted and it’s something that haunts me so much. I can’t ever tell her.
Is it really a big deal if I slept with my best friend’s boyfriend but it doesn’t really count because we were too drunk and high?
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 19Fucking hell. Take some responsibility for being a terrible fucking person and friend.
It’s your friend’s parent’s fault and “they are to blame for what happened that night.”
It’s the fault of the drugs. It’s the fault of the booze. You never blame the guy, because, well, that’d be rape. Which means it was consensual between the both of you.
This means YOU (and he) are at fault.
So yes, it’s a huge, huge fucking deal and you’re a terrible person.
It counts and...