Is it really OK to put a price on your vagina?

Is it really OK to put a price on your vagina?
Did the title get your attention? I hope so! Here is a serious question. Something I have been wrestling with.

As men, we have no right to tell a woman what she can and can't do with her body. We have no right to tell a woman who she can and can't give her body to. It's totally her choice. This isn't what this post is about. I am going to give you all a scenario and I want everyone to chime in on this.

Scenario:
Imagine a woman is 25 years old and she spent her 20s letting loose, having fun and dating around. She has had 4 one-night-stands. 3 situationships. 1 relationship. In total, she had sex 8 times with 8 different men. Those men did nothing to earn her body and did nothing to show her that they are worth it.

A few years down the line, the woman is now 28 years old. She wants kids, marriage and wants to settle down with a good man. She meets the man of her dreams. This man has his life together, desires marriage and kids as well, and goes above and beyond for the woman, treating her like a queen. However, the woman tells the man, "I am celibate. I am not having sex until I am married."

So, in effect... this man who is putting in all this effort can't get sex from her until marriage. However, the men who weren't worth it were able to get it from her without any effort in the past. She is making the guy who is doing everything right wait for it.

What are your thoughts on this?
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  • She might have changed. It doesn't contradict what the man wants, either.
    "This man has his life together, desires marriage and kids as well"

    I'm having trouble with the first part, though. Why did anyone have to "earn" her body in the first place?

    As for the second part, why would he treat her like a "queen"? Why not an equal? If he wants sex, he can say it and if that's not something she wants, it's fine. They don't have to be together if there's a conflict of interests (but by the above, there isn't).

    I think such extreme hypotheticals are unhealthy to consider. Such a situation doesn't just occur in a vacuum. Surely these people are able to communicate like adults. Or Maybe stupid and talking and being upfront about what I want is abnormal...

    • Or Maybe I am stupid..*

    • On second thought, if he treats her like a queen, she might also act as a queen. So it's reasonable to expect he would have to "earn" whatever his queen would let him have. It's a weird dynamic..

Most Helpful Guy

  • When it comes to relationships sex I believe that you should work for it and earn it, sex in a relationship is different from one night stands etc. That being said I will never marry a woman who insists on waiting until marriage for sex. Her past is irrelevant to me.

Most Helpful Girls

  • She changed her mind. What's wrong with that? We all do it.
    People mature as they get older and she did exactly that. If anything, I'd praise her for making such a big lifestyle change and having the perseverance to stand true to those new beliefs.
    She was sexually active in the past. She doesn't want to be sexually active now. Is that too much for folks to handle? 😒

  • I mean... a lot of women sell their virginity for a large sum of money... Not talking prostitution or anything, but there are some that will do it if they are struggling or what not. Sort of makes me regret not saving mine... but at least I still have my kidney if things get tough. xD Ah well... life goes on.

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  • changing your mind on what she wants to do sexually is no issue. same as men.
    It has nothing to do with a woman's worth. her sexual past also doesn't.

  • He get the worst of both worlds, and he is marring a slut that not worth his efforts.

  • She’s doing the right thing by not hooking up anymore and making this guy wait. If he loves her he’ll be cool with waiting and he won’t judge her for her past.

  • I wouldn't put a price on it but I have higher standards which includes him making above McDees 🤣🤣🤣

    • a bit above a big mac at least :P

    • @Still-alive 🤣🤣🤣

  • You cannot , its priceless...

  • The guy is stupid if he falls for it.

  • To each their own. I personally couldn’t/wouldn’t wait. Too much sexual tension / blue balls for me.

  • Yup, women make rules for Betas and break them for Alphas. No man should tolerate this.

  • Her body; her decision. What's NOT Kool is her LYING to him.

  • No one purchase love and virginity

  • That cold hearted

  • I have a dollar.

  • This is the typical flawed female mindset...
    They will fuck random strangers with no second thought and then make a guy with quality and dignity wait so she can fake virtue while being a valueless whore.

    Most women think this way.

  • I wouldn’t wait unless she and I were both virgins but I’m not waiting for marriage to have sex for anyone regardless of her past, I think it’s unfair for this guy in that scenario

  • She wants to fuck chads and wants to find a simp to marry. It's ridiculous and I wouldn't marry a woman with a past like that or does this kind of crap.