Is it really wrong to identify myself as a Feminist and still choose to give BJ to guy I am dating?

I have seen so many tweets and post on reddit calling it out. They say girls who are feminist should never perform that act because it's "derogatory".

I do believe in equality and work for it but sexually I am extremely submissive, to the point where I have even been on leash and literally walked on my fours.

Am I the one wrong here to be sexually submissive?

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  • I think it's anti-feminist to prescribe what other women can and can't do. If it's something you want to do, and you can certainly engage in this in a dominant way if you want, then that's the most feminist thing you can do, live your life undefined by others!

  • lol, why would you listen to anything a reddit feminist has to say?

  • No. Feminist aren't described as being against all men.

  • Many girls on here have told me that they really enjoy giving blowjobs because it makes them feel very womanly. So I would have to say if you feel like a woman then that is being feminist. Just read some of my questions and girls answers. Almost all are the subject of blowjobs from girls.

  • That's not a problem. Some of the most dominant women in the world are completely submissive in the bedroom.

  • it's ok if you're ok with it

  • As a feminist you vowed to the Sacred Order of the UN New World Order that you would make men’s lives hell. Did you break that oath?

    Did you?

  • Lol.

  • Well tbh it would even make it more fun for a guy to be sucked by some boss girl who claims to be a feminist

  • Thank you for pointing out yet another example of the absurdity of modern feminism.

    There is nothing wring with you doing whatever makes you and your man happy in the bedroom.

    The world would be a better place if everyone just ignored these stupid feminists.

  • Blowjobs aren't derogatory; they are good fun for all.

  • No one can tell you what’s right or wrong for you. If you don’t consider oral sex “derogatory” then don’t worry about it. Personally, I love receiving oral sex so it’s only fair that I give it also. I see it as a quid pro quo situation and not anything demeaning. You can be a feminist and champion women’s rights in all areas of society and still enjoy your sex life the way you choose to. What you do in your bedroom is private and should remain that way.

  • Feminism and sexual submissiveness do not go together. Drop the feminazi bull shit find yourself a man and completely submit to him uphill be much happier.

    • Thanks for advice!