Surely a night with a girl should cost more than a drink in a bar. Yet many girls think they need to repay the guy with an orgasm. Why some girls make themselves so cheep? What makes guys behave this way as well?
It’s not reasonable! I don’t drink, and I don’t hang out in bars or clubs. Maybe by today’s standards I sound like a boring prude, but at least I’m not out playing with women’s hearts and trying to get down their pants like a trophy. When I have sex with a girl, it’s because I truly care about her and at that point she wants sex every bit as much on her own fruition. A one night stand is not not caring about a girl. It’s just selfish.
When I take a girl out on a date and buy her dinner, I don’t expect anything in return sexually. My only hope is that if we like each other at the end of the date that she will give us a chance to get to know each other better over time, and if things work out, we both give a relationship a chance.
It's a way of getting to talk to a girl if she has sex with the guy they got on great so what?
It’s not a reasonable expectation. That’s why I refuse any offer of free drinks. Sometimes guys get pissy when you refuse but that’s not my problem. If it was just an icebreaker and a way to initiate conversation, I’d be fine with it but so many guys expect to take you home afterwards that it’s just easier to refuse and avoid those expectations. If guys were more chill and less thirsty, the whole dating thing would be so much easier.
Well said. Any thoughts about gold digger girls?
How is it a trick? Everyone knows what’s going on, you don’t have a to accept a free drink, and frankly, if you do it’s kind of scummy to lead someone on
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!One drink obligates you to a few minutes of conversation with him - that's it.
But if you take the guy for 5 drinks and appetizers, or to buy rounds for your friends, it's far more reasonable for him to expect a lot more from you. Nothing in this life is free and the more you take, the more you owe. Most people understand that and have reasonable expectations.
Don't wan to give more? Don't take more.
What is the reasonable going rate for a night of sex with a girl? I ask, because I never negotiated or bartered with a girl on this subject.
Some top class hookers charge 200$/hr. Others settle for 200$ for night and pay for the room as well. Compared to a bottle of beer these are more expensive.
So any girl who has sex with a guy just because he bought her a drink is a cheap whore.
Worse actually, as whores can actually keep the cash with themselves but the person who accepted the drink has nothing to "show" for her work.
That is NOT reasonable. Doing something nice for someone doesn’t entitle someone to sex.
I expect nothing other than useful conversation.
I call it an investment. Being expensive has no perks
I get girls on club without offering drinks...
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