Is it right that I stopped having sex until he start using condoms?

He knows that I am allergic to birth control pills, IUD caused me health problems and contraceptive patches didn’t work. I talked to him about and not wanting to have a baby now, yet he ignores me and he wants to continue having sex without using condoms so he can enjoy. Pull out method isn’t 100% safe and i am getting sick of this conversation. Yesterday he wanted to have sex and I refused and I told him we won’t until he start using condoms.
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  • You are correct he needs to be Man and use condoms to prevent you from getting pregnant

  • You are right.

  • The dude needs to put in more effort if he wants sex. It can't be all you doing the work for preventative measures.

  • Yes 100% right

  • Yes, 100%. It's your body and you don't want to get pregnant.

  • It's your body so you make the rules. Stick with oral until he's ready to respect your rules.

  • Yes it is, if u don't want to risk pregnancy and he's refusing condoms, then yea u refuse sex. Cauee its not him who's gonna have to carry the child, or make the rlly difficult choice of keeping or not not

  • I've been having regular sex since the mid 1990's, I don't know what it feels like without one.

    He has literally no excuse and is making bad decisions.

    You really want to be with a guy who is not planning for, and making good decisions for his future?

  • Damn skippy! Your safety should supercede his enjoyment. And you're not cutting him off. You're just asking he use a condom. I don't thinks that's alor to ask.
    But i will say this in his defense. Condoms aren't 100 effective either. I can see how he'd reason it in his head that your just being difficult.
    I say stick to your guns though!

    • @yofuknutz are you ever right? I'm not from nor do i live in Chicago.

  • Your body, your rules.
    Completely understandable

  • Stick to your guns! No condom no sex.

  • No your right. Tell him bag that tool or keep it in his pants. Better yet find yourself a more considerate boyfriend.

  • Yes, it was the right thing. And if he still insists on it, break up with him.

  • Yes!!!@

  • No, just use foam spermicide

    • Why not?

    • Because you don’t need condoms for sex

    • That’s on both of us not just me. I did my part and I tried everything that harmed me instead of being useful, now it’s his part to do something about it too or he can be in a sexless relationship for as long as he want... his choice

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  • Yes stand your ground girl

  • Good for you. If he didn't respect you enough to cover up, he doesn't deserve anything from you

  • You did the right thing. If he's still insisting dump him.

  • Yes it is and you're a smart girl to tell him that.

  • break up. he deserves better.

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