Is it rude for your boyfriend to say that he wouldn't have sex with you if you were bald?

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  • let me guess. you pulled the "would you still love me if..." card out and are now upset with the results. honestly, pulling these types of questions out, to me, is playing silly mind games, childishness, and grounds for immediate termination of relationships. even if you know yourself very well, once the emotional component is made a part of things (love in this case) then no matter what is said, the answer is only truly knowable if said "what if" situation occurs but most women (probably 90% plus) take this as set in stone and an absolute outcome. its mildly aform pf fortune telling and less reliable than a modern day politician telling only the truth. it is also abit of trying to rush life instead of actually just living life as it comes like trying to read a by rushing to the ending of said book and reading the prologue and expecting to comprehend the whole book off that only.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Can you blame him tho if he is sexually attracted to you with your hair and then you shave your head and make yourself look completely different, a lot of guys don't like masculine features on women and short hear is a masculine modification to a feminine body, shortening to a short length like shoulder or a bit higher is still feminine but going bald, unless it's a medical condition can you really blame him?

    • I can understand that I think it's just the way he said it, "If you go bald I'm not fucking you."

    • Yea that's not the proper way to say it either, I can definitely understand your frustration, he did fuck up on that, sounds like that came out of frustration too tho considering he must love the way you look now and seeing that you are getting the idea of something, normally when a chick gets an idea they go with it so he must have cracked out of frustration, he said it wrong for sure but you should definitely communicate with him about this and speak your feelings and how that comment made you feel, then listen to him and see what he is feeling about it cause I'm sure this is just a big understanding and this was the coldest way he could have said he didn't like the idea so it's why I believe it's all a misunderstanding, just cause he stops fucking you doesn't mean he stops loving you but he might be trying to say that he will lose sexual attraction towards you.

    • Misunderstanding*

Most Helpful Girl

  • Very insensitive. I would’ve told him I wouldn’t have sex with him either if he goes bald.

    • I got mad yea.. lol

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  • I somewhat doubt it is entirely serious.

    But well, while it sounds rude I understand the sentiment. Physical attraction is a big deal of the whole wanting to duck someone. People just tend to not acknowledge that because it breeds insecurities and as individuals we are all very fragile.

  • Well. He might just be using you for sex if that’s all you do

  • Why would he say that?

  • Bald in what way? A bald head or a bald pussy?

    • Bald head

    • I'd still have sex with you. I don't thing it is rude of a boyfriend to state his preferences though. There is a difference being bald by choice - ie shaving and being bald because you are doing chemo.

  • Probably not rude, but it is a needlessly dismissive thing to say.

    It would be rude if he knew that you were about to start chemo, or something.

  • He is can think what he wants. But he is dumb enough to say it our loud. He's not rude, he's just really dumb

  • Yes it is. A real catch, that one.

    Just out of curiosity, did you decide to date him based on his appearance in any way too? Because I figure if you did, then you got what you bargained for.

  • Depends on context. Most guys are not dumb enough to drop that bombshell unsolicited. If he was dumb enough to do that then, yes he is rude. If you asked him, then no it was within the scope of the conversation / justified.

    Be glad your boyfriend is not a people pleaser.

  • is he talking about your head or pussy?

  • If you believe the truth is rude

  • No. It’s a preference

  • No its not

  • No not at all... it's a preference

  • tell him you won't fuck until he is huge.