Is it rude to ask a girl how many guy’s she’s been with during sex?

so this guy I hooked up with; while he was (literally) inside of me he kept commenting on how “tight” I was, then proceeded to ask me how many guys i’ve been with? to be fair, before we had sex I did inform him and say that “most guys can get inside me in this position” so I assume that’s what led him to ask how many guys i’ve been with. but still is this rude?
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  • During sex? Yeah, that's rude. But I might understand the circumstances in which he asked it: you're tight but you said most guys can get in you in that position, so he asked how many guys you've been with probably because he thought it's impossible for you to have been with a lot of guys if you're that tight.

    Either way it wouldn't be something I would ask in the middle of the deed.

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  • That's none of his business. If he were your boyfriend or husband, I'd understand. But he's not. If it were me, I'd probably say "I'm sure I've been with more girls than you have" or "Enough to know what I like and what makes me squirt".

    I might a little edgy about this because... Well I'm a virgin. An elusive, private person, and a virgin. I dunno.

    It was probably dumb move on his part. It's why I'd rather lose it to a woman. Men are too dumb for this 😔

  • Asking in the middle sex seems a little rude. If he was curious then he should have asked before y'all started

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  • A gamble? Yes. Rude? That's debatable. Keep in mind that a lot of guys get super excited about the other men you've had sex with. Back when I was still allowed to fuck the women I was dating, I loved asking her about the last guy who fucked her, how long it had been, if he climaxed inside her, etc. And if she told me it was really, really good, and that she'd much rather get fucked by him than me, I'd just go crazy and come immediately... lol

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  • just tell him he's your first and freak him out

    • I should have done that! 😭😂

  • That is way weird and uncalled for. Bad timing on his part. Our past sex partners are just that and none of each others business. Did it mess up the sex for you after he said that?

    • no it didn’t mess it up I mean he fucked me like crazy after lol

  • Rude, stupid, but lack of self awareness etc.

  • Super tacky. And super dumb. That'll dry a girl us like a shamwow.

    • it definitely took me by surprise. I paused and looked at him for a good 5 seconds lmao

  • It's completely idiotic is what it is and shows he lacks experience in this arena. Look, most guys do care about this but those with experience don't ask this. Instead, they listen to what she she says, wears, activities she engaged in, friends she associates with, etc, and they use this information to give a almost guaranteed accurate result

  • He’s a weirdo and you’re a weirdo

  • It might be rude to a whore cause I'm sure they feel entitled enough to believe they don't gotta say anything even tho they might have an std so I guess it depends

    • wow you’re so edgy. i bet you get 0 girls irl lmao

    • probably can’t even get with a whore yourself 😭

    • Yep it's something called morals, I'm sure you know nothing about, why you so offended, I never called you a whore, but you must know you are, truth hurts I guess

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  • It's rude at any time.

  • Maybe a little rude. It's more just an odd thing to ask. Like... why? Why would anyone think to ask a question like that in THAT of all moments? So the dumbshit takes you out of the moment and then you have to just lay there and fuckin wonder how the retard that's humping you has the brain power to have a stiffy and breathe at the same time while your vagina dries up like a raisin.

    • actually he fucked me like crazy right after 🥺

    • Ouch. I’m guessing that probably wasn’t the best sex you’ve ever had?

    • you guys really get no girls lol

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  • Yeah lol

  • No, it's not rude, but asking it AFTER his dick is already in you is like asking if the food is contaminated after already eating it. The fact that you already hinted at your body count beforehand makes it even weirder.

    The only valid reason to ask body count is to AVOID humping someone who's had lots of sexual partners.

  • yeah that's rude, and really none of his business. as long as you are safe that is all that matters.

  • Seems a bit strange.

  • Maybe it's some new thing that I did not experience because my promiscuous phase almost seven years ago, but I have never asked a girl, nor ever been asked by one "What's your body count?" or anything similar.

  • During sex? Nah. It’s not like he’s going to stop mid-stroke if he doesn’t like the answer. Plus, you can always just claim it was the heat of passion that you said 500, for instance.

  • can't see how this benefits anyone

  • You opened the door for him to ask.

    • how so?

    • You said,” to be fair before we had sex I did inform him and say that most guys can get inside me in this position.” That kind of opens the door for him to ask how many…. What position were you in?

  • Hell yea

    • thought so lmao

  • The thought of it being rude implies that there is something to be shameful about, or high numbers. The fact that he made reference to how tight you were, is a compliment to the inquiry of the number of men. If a woman asks a man in the middle of sex how many partners he's had, because she is amazed at his size and wonders how many women could handle it, would any man take it as being rude? Fuck no!!!