Is it rude to ask a guy how big his dick is?

[Anonymous]

Guys, has a girl ever asked you how big you are? Girls, have you ever asked a guy about his size? My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 months and we haven't had sex yet. We do some sexual talk over text a lot. Would it be rude if i asked him how big his dick is? Also, do i ask how big it is when erect or how big it is when its normal?

[NJ_Casanova]

Why don't you make out on the couch to get him hard and just slide your hand down on to it. This is the easiest way if you are shy.

Flaccid size is only important for when you first get naked and it's not erect... some uneducated girls will think that is how big it is or that it won't be big when erect. (Flaccid length doesn't always indicate how big it will get.)

I only increase about 40% in length, while other guys I've talked to double in length.

You can tell him that you want to watch him jerk-off... most guys will find that hot/sexy.. especially if you say you will play with yourself or show your breast. Guys, especially young ones are easily bribed.

[Marcoftheking]

Well I don't know about asking him his size. But if you decide to, id say just ask "how big is it?" Simply that way he can have the choice but he'll probably go with erect size

[MissMonstaz]

Just ask him lol don't be afraid. He is your boyfriend anyways. Or ask to see it or a pic 😜

[niomi04]

Haha so cool

[Goodwifie]

men and penis measurements they tend to get a little distorted when it comes to inches.

[Shaft50]

If I say it in millimetres, I'm huge!

[Goodwifie]

that's right buddy.

[Shaft50]

In inches, it's like... oh, that's all... :-(

[Goodwifie]

the infatuation with size has me puzzled. I had a boyfriend that was well hung but didn't know how to use it, talk about a waste. think my husband is a little above average but he knows what he is doing. i will never forget the first time that I said yes to him, I didn't know that it could be that good.

[Shaft50]

Not knowing what to do with it... yeah, there was a question on that just recent, about a gold standard, like that's all guys need to please... yeah, length and girth, bingo! Technique and methodology is so important!

[Goodwifie]

honestly he blew my mind.

[0112358]

Seriously. It's not that difficult. You get a measuring tape, and go from your asshole to the tip... right?

[Shaft50]

@0112358 Yeah, from your asshole, over your head, to the tip... look, mine is 79-inches!

[BlueCoyote]

I don't see why you'd have to ask. Just wait and you'll find out first-hand.

[bulldog1]

No, because he is most likely going to lie about it anyways.

Want to be sure, tell him to make like prison and drop the pants.

[Xavixk]

Well if he thinks he is too small, then that will hurt him... Because you asking implies that size matter to you.

[T80Brady]

I would honestly wait till you have sexual intercourse. Asking could hurt his self esteem or leave you unattracted. Just let it be a surprise

[Teyes7]

"creepy" and "pervy"

[Bandit74]

Is it rude to ask a girl how tight her pussy is?

[weilejosh]

As how big it is when erect, and make sure to tell him you won't care how big it is. Some guys are very cautious about saying how big it is cause they don't want to disappoint you. I have that problem because I don't know if I'm average or under avarage. But really, there is no problem in asking.

[AmtgardJean]

Not rude imho. Just be ready for a fib.

[Nik1hil]

instead how hard can it get

[cosanostrakosa]

Yes it is.
It kinda makes him feel insecure.

[chubbycrow]

generally nah. j ask lol, i hear other people saying stuff like see how hard he is, but if you want a response j ask, don't grab him or anything. if you like him though and want to fuck and he's fine with it than measuring could work

[heimdallr]

How big is your vagina? Put this female condom on and when you don't get me off don't worry I won't go looking for someone who can... promise.

[Agent]

I don't think anyone gets offended by that question.

[TheUglyMonk]

Meet the G@agers

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Only if you don't know each other.

[naraku]

It's natural curiousity. So I wouldn't be bothered.

[Mothon77]

No it is not rude if you ask him about his dick, since you are his girlfriend. Also both of you sex talk with each other so it doesn't matter

[Juxtapose]

About as rude as asking for your cup size or asking about your vagina.

[Blake0048]

I think it is. Sure he might be huge and can use it as an opportunity to brag. But if he's average or worse he's going to wonder if you are asking that because size is very important to you.

[Decentguy]

its more creepy and pervy than rude

[Jimbob995]

You won't get a proper answer. It will be like " how about u measure it" or exaggerated

[YHL6965]

Kind of, better judge by yourself honestly.

[disgustingweebtrash]

It's like asking your bra size or about your vagina, would you be comfortable someone asking about them?

[cancan73]

If you ask he'll probably show you

[DanielKaluuya]

It's probably not big. A guy with a big dick is excited to showcase it.

[Longshot1965]

No at all. Just tell him something such as "Show me what you're working with".

[TotallyAlmost]

I get asked quite often. It's never bothered me at all. I actually think it's kinda hot.

[nudeNhorny]

I don't mind answering such a question

[GrayWhi2]

Just ask him. It's fine as long as you are not gonna mock him if he turns out to be below average.

[viju123]

its not rude but take it freindly

[Amur8711]

If you want to know ask him and just ask it, and if you want to know both just say and when it's flaccid.

[masterkamasutra]

no its just checking out.

[mullahstan]

no it's not.

[weaverman]

As long as u dont mind if he asks u to suck it

[Zythaphile]

No more rude than him asking how long your clit is.

[MrNameless]

people don't care about the size of clits though. Asking how big someone's dick is is comparable to asking the size of a woman's boobs

[Jardin]

Long

[Anonymous]

Size erect is the constant, there's no fixed 'normal' it changes based on temperature and other stuff.

It would be simpler to ask for a pic, or give him a hj and discover the answer.

[Anonymous]

Not really

[Anonymous]

Ask him how big it is when erect

[Anonymous]

just check it yourself

[Anonymous]

Just ask