Is it selfish that the boyfriend asks me to suck his dick when I’m about to cum?

I sometimes really wonder whether I’m being unreasonable or whether he really IS selfish. Well last night we had sex and I was riding him and I’m about to cum and he asks me to suck my juices off his dick? Wtf? I’m trying to get off and he is selfishly asking me to suck his dick when I get no pleasure from it. Is he being selfish?
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The annoying part is that I had already sucked it before we had sex
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  • Not enough information.

    If he didn't know, he didn't know.

    If he knew but was trying to edge you, it's not selfish. It may not have been what you wanted, but trying to edge someone isn't selfish.

    If you directly asked him to keep going and he didn't, i'd say he was being selfish, unless he was unable to.

    If he just didn't care and didn't bother about your pleasure overall and making you get off, then yes.

    • We don’t do that edging thing. I had sucked him off and then we proceeded to have sex. Then, after some time he asks me to suck my juices off. It has nothing to do with edging or him knowing or not knowing how close I am. He isn’t letting me get off, before he asks for me to suck him off round two. It’s wrong.

  • I would go ahead and cum and then suck his cock. Tough shit if he doesn’t like it.

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  • I for one think so either that or he doesn't care about you or your orgasm I live to please a woman there's nothing I'd like doing more than to make a woman Trimble in ecstasy to give her such pleasure enhances my own pleasure ten times if not more I can't imagine leaving a woman unsatisfied if I did get off before her I will still make sure she is well taken care of but I am a dieing breed I always think of others before I think of myself

  • He's not only being totally selfish but he clearly has an arrogant sense of self-entitlement

  • He's playing denial games 😂👏

    • Fuck him

    • Id honestly bail if a girl was doing that to me, unless she specifically said she wants to play edging at the beginning. This sounds like he's quite sadistic. He enjoys making you feel shitty. Has he tried to emotionally abuse you any other way?

    • No he’s normally so good to me

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  • Some guy don't really understand women pleasure so it's good to tell them that you're about to cum and ask him to continue. If he's not a dickhead and he's not doing that cause he can't take it anymore and needs a little break he will like the thing that he can make you cum. Otherwise maybe he's not the best sexual partner you can have

    • He didn’t need a break because we had started then

    • Sometimes even if just starting some man is about to cum and use some strange way to not just cum. Maybe he thinks that is sexier to do that than saying please wait a moment, understand what's the reason and help him change what you find to be a bad behaviour

  • Welp that sucks you need to cum first then you can go ahead and suck the juices off his dick... also you need to remember there are plenty of women that like to be teased and edged meaning stopping right before they cum so just talk to him communication is everything in a relationship

  • One word: absolutely.

  • Tell him to shut up because you are about to cum.

  • Maybe he likes you to clean him and to have you swallow his seeds or something.
    Also, ask him for few more quicks & while you cum suck him good 😋

    • What?

  • It most certainly is, and he is clueless too.

  • Well yeah you should get off first then maybe suck off again. He doesn't make sense to me.

  • Yes he is a dick head

  • Maybe he thinks you already came

    • He knew I had not yet

    • H ou w do you know?

    • Because he knew

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  • If he knew you were about to cum and interrupted it, that is selfish as hell.

  • Absolutely... you should cum and then decide.

  • I think he's just fucking with you

    • Huh?

  • Yeah, he’s being pretty selfish... be careful (this may be a red flag to a more general selfishness in his personality)

    • He has some other selfish traits

    • Uh oh... time to bail (?)

    • I tried that

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  • That is a dick move. You should find someone who will make you cum, before requesting a bj.

    • So he gets two blowjobs and you don't get off? This guy is terrible.

  • Very selfish; tell him you can't lick your juices off his dick until you cum.

    • Love your response