Is it seriously bad or wrong that I want a penectomy?

[Charliefretz329]

[Msputiton]

Honestly?

Yes. The reasons are not mentally healthy at all.

[Charliefretz329]

Thank you.

[Msputiton]

I just think once it is gone, because of your reasons, you will regret it. Like if it was for good reasons, i would understand and support it. But yours no. These are for really negative ones

[Charliefretz329]

I’m talking to a psychologist finally about that desire and many more. Thank you for your opinion and it’s definitely valued

[Msputiton]

I'm glad. They can help you learn more about if this is actually what you want, or a way to deal with the pain

[Charliefretz329]

I do, thanks

[Agape93]

No. It's your body and life, do what you want

[Charliefretz329]

True

[Charliefretz329]

Thank you

[Agape93]

Anytime hon. You do what you feel is best for you.

[Charliefretz329]

Thank you for your support. I know I’m indecisive and annoying about it but it’s my body and my choice and I should feel both free and certain and confident to make my choices my way. That freedom applies to each and every person and their own body freely and equally. But one should be sure they are sure they know what they truly want

[Agape93]

Very true and such trepidation over something so personal and permanent is perfectly normal. It's ok to take your time on it.

[Charliefretz329]

Again you are a very intelligent and caring person. I appreciate your input as it is thoughtful and helpful and honest.

[Agape93]

Anytime. Take care of yourself

[Charliefretz329]

You as well

[RobT312]

I don’t think it’s wrong, but you’re stuck with it!

[Charliefretz329]

Thanks! That’s helpful and completely true

[SixOfClubs]

There must be a psychological reason why you don't want a part of your body, and before you get to the root of the problem, don't let people ignorantly encourage you with "your body your choice bla bla" nonsense.

[Charliefretz329]

That’s helpful. And I am definitely pursuing that possibility. Thank you

[Agape93]

Got something you want to say to me, clubs?

[Charliefretz329]

Both of you have valid points in my opinion

[SixOfClubs]

@Agape93 I don't remember talking about you specifically, but if my opinion reminded you of yourself, okay, I'll edit it: There must be a psychological reason why you don't want a part of your body, and before you get to the root of the problem, don't let people like Agape ignorantly encourage you with "your body your choice bla bla" nonsense.

[Agape93]

It's not ignorance to support his freedom of choice and autonomy. It is his body, his choice and his right to decide. That is not ignorance, that is a fact. I speak from experience, not just willy nilly. You're welcome to your opinion, but knock off the member posts.

[Miristheiss]

Really? You are going to make me look up what the hell a penectomy is?

So, now that I've looked it up... is there some serious healthy problem in that area that this will rectify or alleviate?

If you are 100% healthy there then I'd say it is a very misguided decision to just cut off healthy parts of your body.

[Charliefretz329]

Just a mental issue I guess. No physical.

[CubaPirate]

Just get on with it

[Pete671]

No it's just a fantasy, if you were serious you would have had it sliced off by now,,,

[Charliefretz329]

I’ve come quite close…. But you may be right. Of course I haven’t had the time and money available to make the appointments that have been offered. I really really wanted to though

[Pete671]

Just knowing it's possible to have it done is hot though,

[Charliefretz329]

That’s so true

[Pete671]

I'd love to live in Groundhog Day world lol,,,

[Charliefretz329]

What a hot idea

[AngryCarl2]

It's neither normal nor healthy to want to have a healthy part of your body removed.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Sounds like you might be trans

[Charliefretz329]

Whatever that means.. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Willingly maiming yourself without a medical reason is a mental illness.

[Charliefretz329]

Define main

[Charliefretz329]

Maim

[Opinion Owner]

Severely injuring yourself and causing long-lasting damage

[Charliefretz329]

OK I can buy that but separate that from labia plasty or a boob job. And I know it probably sounds like it but I’m not actually being a smart ass

[Opinion Owner]

I think people should learn to be happy with what they have, instead of changing themselves with surgeries (unless for medical reasons) but boob jobs and labiaplasties aren't as extreme as the complete removal of someone's penis.

[Charliefretz329]

I agree.