Is it slutty to swallow?

So i recently was talking with my girlfriends and they were all like "i only swallow when were serious" or some were just straight up like "no go". Now the thing is i swallow if im going to finish him off like that, wether he's a one night stand or not, and i never thought it was a big deal. Im hearing though that its not classy and blah blah so im just trying to get an idea of what you guys thought? A broad that swallows: is she a fuck and chuck, one night stand or is it expected, is it treat? ... Just looking for some opinions on the matter
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  • Here's what you need to know: Whatever you want to do is fine.
    Each person is two individuals (I find that this is especially so with women.):
    1. The person we have to be in society complete with our inhibitions in place and
    2. The person we are when we are in a safe place and can unload our inhibitions.
    Now, when your girlfriends say "it's not classy" or that you are "slutty" for doing what you want to do, that means that they don't comprehend the above or, worse, refuse to separate their inhibited person from their uninhibited person - they are uptight all the time. The third alternative is that they are hypocrites - they are uninhibited in the bedroom and may swallow, but they wouldn't admit that even among close friends (they are keeping their uptight inhibitied society personality in place).

    Now, if a woman doesn't want to swallow, that's OK for her too.

    There's basically nothing wrong or slutty or uptight about whatever a woman prefers - swallowing or not - so don't let their comments persuade you that there is something wrong with you.

    • Personally, I have the sad duty to report that I have never had quality head to even have an orgasm. For me, if I came in a woman's mouth, if she swallows, that is fine. If she spits that is fine. In either case, I am personally uptight though that I wouldn't want to French kiss her until she rinsed her mouth out - I don't want to taste my own wad.

  • I let the girl (or guy!) decide what they want to do and I make no judgements. If (s) he wants to blow me and swallow then by all means I'll let them do it <3. It's kind of expected from me but if the person doesn't want to put their mouth down there or swallow, then I'm not going to get offended or anything (though I don't know a single f** who doesn't like giving head. Hell I love giving head myself lol)

    To me it's just another sexual preference and nothing more. I like to eat out a girl even when heavy flow lol it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I don't think that makes me a man-slut. And I love to give head to guys but I really don't like to swallow and everyones been fine with that so far! That doesn't make me a slut either. Oral is just another part of sex so I wouldn't be bothered if people wanna hate on you for your own preference (s).

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  • you could call it stupid for not using condoms with an one night stand, you could catch something but it's not slutty in my opinion. but I swallow always too...

  • I always swallow also if it's just a one night stand because I think it gives the guy confidence and a guy with confidence always gives the best sex

  • I happily swallow every time and personally I feel spitting out a mans seed is a sign of disrespect and rejection.

  • its gross.. ask a guy if he would taste it.. no its awful and bitter.. and ugghhhhhhh

    • ofcourse ud thumb me down.. swallow ur own load, then thumb me down, at least then i'll respect u.. to the asker.. never do something u dont want to do.. because people will be able to sense it.. i tried it with my bf.. i hated it and didn't pretend to like it, and he liked me more after i expressed my discussed because i was being real... to thine own self be true.. if ur attributing a lot of weight and meaning to ur relationship on this decision, its really not one worth being in

    • He probably "pretended" to like you more; in reality he hated you and wished for a better GF... sorry, but it's the truth :)

    • thats why we've been dating for three years. the problem is ur taking it personal.. like a lot of people below the intelligence belt do. i dont like it because his cum is gross.. come is gross period.. mmm light me have big glass of cum like chocolate milk meant no girl ever. its a fact that it tastes gross... and our basis and sexual chemistry go far beyond unsustaining desires of those who missed the boat past neanderthals

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  • If a female swallows my load; I will DEFINITELY remember her.

    Trust me, you are doing a good thing for that guy. If you want him to hate you, don't swallow. :)

  • Hahah I think its a wife material if u swallow

    I don't see the "if u stick a penis in ur mouth it's classy but if u swallow it is not ! " concept

    I see nothing wrong with being sexual, and however u act sexually and in private does not define ur class. Want to know what sort of example is no class? A man who is verbally or physically aggressive to women in public.. Not considering how embarrassing it is for her or care about her public image to others

    But heyyyy
    Halla if u swalla !!

  • You define what's sultry because your opinion is the only one that matters.

    Guys definitely love it when girls swallow though. It's awesome.

    • Slutty, not sultry. Autocorrect...

  • I actually like swallowing.. and most of the guys that I've been with have loved it. so I don't see it as slutty

  • Speaking personally, I can't imagine a guy disrespecting a girl who lets him finish in her mouth and then takes his semen into her body by swallowing. That's an amazing thing to do for a guy, and calling her "slutty" because she did that doesn't make sense to me. But then I'm not for slut-shaming in general. Girls have just as much right to be sexual beings as guys do, and as long as nobody's cheating on somebody else, and they're being responsible about birth control, I don't pass judgment on people having sex (including oral where the person swallows).

  • It's super super sexy and pretty much every guy loves it and would want a gf who does it

  • Generally guys like girls who are "slutty" or adventurous/dirty in the bedroom but they might not want a girl who is promiscuous.

    So i wouldn't consider a girl a slut if she swallows but I would consider the act of swallowin to be "slutty" which is a good thing. However if she's has sex with a lot of people no strings attached then I would consider her undesirable for a relationship. I respect a girls right to sleep with as many people as they want but they have to respect my right to not want to date them. If a girls # of partners is in the double digits, there's plenty of guys who's # of partners is also in the double digits and I think they are perfect for each other.

    Promiscuous girl +Promiscuous guy=happily ever after :)

  • She's a good lover if she does.

  • I think it's marvelous personally but, to each their own, lol.

  • Classy girls swallow, spitters are quitters. Girls that swallow are so hot because it shows us that you enjoyed it. If they spit, then it looks like they didn't really wanna blow us in the first place. Mood killer.

  • She gone... I'd prefer to know that a head of time before I kissed her. Yuck

    • It's different in a long term relationship but to do that shit with a one night stand. Call the clinic.

  • Absolutely not, and I never understood why any girl would think so.

  • It's the good kind of slutty. It shows you are committed to the act.

  • I would never give a guy a bj unless i was in a relationship with him. I act real slutty in the bedroom, but only if im in a relationship

  • for a girl to swollow in my books, is sluty... but i have always been atracted to the slutier 1ns so the more u swollow, the more i'd want u, and the more i'd cum back

  • Nahh swallowing is awesome not slutty

  • Lol you're already sucking it so why not swallow? And who said bjs are classy haha

  • I don't mind other way it's nice if she dose but each to her own. It's not slutty to do it

  • Nope, sexy as hell, I wish u were mine