Is it slutty to swallow?

Question

So i recently was talking with my girlfriends and they were all like "i only swallow when were serious" or some were just straight up like "no go". Now the thing is i swallow if im going to finish him off like that, wether he's a one night stand or not, and i never thought it was a big deal. Im hearing though that its not classy and blah blah so im just trying to get an idea of what you guys thought? A broad that swallows: is she a fuck and chuck, one night stand or is it expected, is it treat? ... Just looking for some opinions on the matter

vjreejr · Accepted Answer

Here's what you need to know: Whatever you want to do is fine.
Each person is two individuals (I find that this is especially so with women.):
1. The person we have to be in society complete with our inhibitions in place and
2. The person we are when we are in a safe place and can unload our inhibitions.
Now, when your girlfriends say "it's not classy" or that you are "slutty" for doing what you want to do, that means that they don't comprehend the above or, worse, refuse to separate their inhibited person from their uninhibited person - they are uptight all the time. The third alternative is that they are hypocrites - they are uninhibited in the bedroom and may swallow, but they wouldn't admit that even among close friends (they are keeping their uptight inhibitied society personality in place).

Now, if a woman doesn't want to swallow, that's OK for her too.

There's basically nothing wrong or slutty or uptight about whatever a woman prefers - swallowing or not - so don't let their comments persuade you that there is something wrong with you.

PsyNoodles · Accepted Answer

I let the girl (or guy!) decide what they want to do and I make no judgements. If (s) he wants to blow me and swallow then by all means I'll let them do it <3. It's kind of expected from me but if the person doesn't want to put their mouth down there or swallow, then I'm not going to get offended or anything (though I don't know a single f** who doesn't like giving head. Hell I love giving head myself lol)

To me it's just another sexual preference and nothing more. I like to eat out a girl even when heavy flow lol it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I don't think that makes me a man-slut. And I love to give head to guys but I really don't like to swallow and everyones been fine with that so far! That doesn't make me a slut either. Oral is just another part of sex so I wouldn't be bothered if people wanna hate on you for your own preference (s).

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Nylena · Accepted Answer

you could call it stupid for not using condoms with an one night stand, you could catch something but it's not slutty in my opinion. but I swallow always too...

You_know_Rie · Accepted Answer

I always swallow also if it's just a one night stand because I think it gives the guy confidence and a guy with confidence always gives the best sex

HeyHeyG · Accepted Answer

I happily swallow every time and personally I feel spitting out a mans seed is a sign of disrespect and rejection.

alexia1101 · Accepted Answer

its gross.. ask a guy if he would taste it.. no its awful and bitter.. and ugghhhhhhh

Dashingtea · Answer

If a female swallows my load; I will DEFINITELY remember her. Trust me, you are doing a good thing for that guy. If you want him to hate you, don't swallow. :)

cantsaylol · Answer

Hahah I think its a wife material if u swallow

I don't see the "if u stick a penis in ur mouth it's classy but if u swallow it is not ! " concept

I see nothing wrong with being sexual, and however u act sexually and in private does not define ur class. Want to know what sort of example is no class? A man who is verbally or physically aggressive to women in public.. Not considering how embarrassing it is for her or care about her public image to others

But heyyyy
Halla if u swalla !!

Dionysos · Answer

You define what's sultry because your opinion is the only one that matters.  Guys definitely love it when girls swallow though. It's awesome.

MarieDlovesasianmen · Answer

I actually like swallowing.. and most of the guys that I've been with have loved it. so I don't see it as slutty

TadCurious · Answer

Speaking personally, I can't imagine a guy disrespecting a girl who lets him finish in her mouth and then takes his semen into her body by swallowing. That's an amazing thing to do for a guy, and calling her "slutty" because she did that doesn't make sense to me. But then I'm not for slut-shaming in general. Girls have just as much right to be sexual beings as guys do, and as long as nobody's cheating on somebody else, and they're being responsible about birth control, I don't pass judgment on people having sex (including oral where the person swallows).

hiddenbehindascreen · Answer

It's super super sexy and pretty much every guy loves it and would want a gf who does it

Bandit74 · Answer

Generally guys like girls who are "slutty" or adventurous/dirty in the bedroom but they might not want a girl who is promiscuous.

So i wouldn't consider a girl a slut if she swallows but I would consider the act of swallowin to be "slutty" which is a good thing. However if she's has sex with a lot of people no strings attached then I would consider her undesirable for a relationship. I respect a girls right to sleep with as many people as they want but they have to respect my right to not want to date them. If a girls # of partners is in the double digits, there's plenty of guys who's # of partners is also in the double digits and I think they are perfect for each other.

Promiscuous girl +Promiscuous guy=happily ever after :)

meatballs21 · Answer

She's a good lover if she does.

TonyRyan · Answer

I think it's marvelous personally but, to each their own, lol.

JSmuve · Answer

Classy girls swallow, spitters are quitters. Girls that swallow are so hot because it shows us that you enjoyed it. If they spit, then it looks like they didn't really wanna blow us in the first place. Mood killer.

SirRichardFitswell · Answer

She gone... I'd prefer to know that a head of time before I kissed her. Yuck

Ihav2fart · Answer

Absolutely not, and I never understood why any girl would think so.

gd2001 · Answer

It's the good kind of slutty. It shows you are committed to the act.

Anonymous · Answer

I would never give a guy a bj unless i was in a relationship with him. I act real slutty in the bedroom, but only if im in a relationship

Anonymous · Answer

for a girl to swollow in my books, is sluty... but i have always been atracted to the slutier 1ns so the more u swollow, the more i'd want u, and the more i'd cum back