Is it smart to get castrated and get a penectomy in my situation?

[Anonymous]

So I know a LOT of girls but they never really want to have sex with me, and sadly i'm not a romantic person at all, so relationships don't work as well, then I have a small and slim dick which at first will open your mouth with shock (not 2 inches though) So, the thing is i'm a very horny person and frankly speaking girls these days dress so revealingly, most of my friends are always showing legs, stomach, lots of cleavage, and they wear see through stuff where you can see their nipples clearly. When we are hanging out at home, it's so chill that they don't even mind being naked, they're always talking about other guys, sometimes straight up stories about their sex life, and mostly I start getting thoughts about forcing myself on them because i'm horny, it's not okay for me to ask them to cover up when i'm around, besides their casual public wear turns me on so much already I don't want to lose my friends or end up in jail, so i've been thinking why not get castrated and get a penectomy and just get rid of the whole sex needs, I mean I wouldn't be needy, so there would be nothing to worry about at all, right?

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

It could be a hormonal imbalance that's causing you so much frustration. There are a lot of different treatments to help that out but it can also be diet related. I get that obviously that's not *all* that's going on but it's a good place to start. Also, the operations you mentioned have a lot of opportunity for complication, infection and huge change of life circumstances afterwards. There's support groups of different kinds but your doctor could probably make some really good recommendations in regards to this. Just be wary *don't* jump into surgical options straight away because there are a lot of cheaper, less invasive options that can still make a lot of difference.

[Asker]

I am a risk taker, always been, fear just doesn't bother me, you could say i'm practically stupid in this regard And like do you think the friends are in the wrong? or is it really unfair of me to ask them to hide their sexuality

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

I think the friends are wrong but unless you know them well it can be a very sensitive subject for lots of women, especially one who tend to dress like that. They see it as a type of freedom. A way that they can get attention & affection without anybody else telling them what to do. While I'm sure you're not afraid it's the life changes and medical complications that could change your life that I'm wanting you to be aware of. It's like cutting off your leg because of a sore toe. Yes it's important, yes it matters but try the simpler approach first. If these friends like & trust you and you bring it up in a respectful way and tell them about how much it affects you even though you don't want it to. Focus more on the emotional stress/distress than what's going on physically. But it's also important for you to be able to feel you can control yourself because if it's not these girls, it's going to be others, co-workers, friends of friends etc. Getting the help u need is the first step.

[WhiteHelmet99]

I empathize your 'feelings'.
Few questions, how are you close friends with these girls if you are straight or bi. They must think your gay. (No offense).

Tell them the truth.
To cover up (if they are at home) cause they making you feel horny. No shame in that. Tell it straight.

Good Luck. You are not alone.

[Asker]

they know i'm straight AF, and y'know with the whole feminism thing going on, women are much more challenging and strong willed these days, they're gonna get pissed if I tell them to cover up, and they are like real friends, friends who are there for me, like always

[WhiteHelmet99]

Yes! Then its better. Cause they will understand you. Tell them how you honestly feel.

[Asker]

I think they will understand my frustration, but it'll backfire and they'll say that I shouldn't be turned on because we are friends, and i'd just look creepy

[WhiteHelmet99]

You didn't know that. If they are really your best friends they care about your feelings. But honestly though, I'm not suprised they are many people like you and me who are trapped. I feel like being asexual and getting vasectomy once ( but it were stupid thoughts which doesn't make sense) Cause the media and society is promoting all this needless obscene sex. So it eventually affects people like us. Do we become jackasses and just fuck girls like how they want to be treated the way they dress? Sorry im ranting.

[WhiteHelmet99]

But luckily i do have a girlfriend now. Whom i love.

[Asker]

I get ya, I tried being in a relationship, didn't work, I'm just not emotional, and the girl saw that, so we remained friends, we did agree with benefits but that didn't happen

[WhiteHelmet99]

Haha. Then she isn't worth your time

[Asker]

To be honest, I agree, I just didn't feel anything for her

[WhiteHelmet99]

Good Luck Brother

[andypaul69]

Get into a hobby and capitalize it. Easier said than done, but at least you can try. Focus on making money and get hot escorts.

[Anonymous]

Or you could go jerk off.

[Asker]

I do that already so much, omg, but I am still just as horny