Is it something wrong with me if I hate being on top during sex?

I don't know why, but I just hate having sex whenever I'm on top. For me, it doesn't feel good at all. However, I love it when he's in charge though because I like being dominated since I'm in control every other time of the day.

But is it something wrong with me if I don't enjoy being on top?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Nothing wrong with it at all. Some people can't have sex this way if both partners are way too overweight or obese as well.

    I personally love when a woman gets on top as I like a give and take sort of dynamic in sex. Sometimes dominate her, sometimes she is more assertive and takes control. I like both. It is the same how some women like it soft and slow sometimes and rough other times.

    If you simply don't get any pleasure from it, then not much you can do regardless, unless you try different positions from the top, like maybe reverse cowgirl or a seated cowgirl, or maybe try leaning back while he rubs the outer portion of your vulva (clit). If it is because you can't get pleasure unless he dominates you, well that is your preference. I'd be slightly disappointed because I have my preferences too (as mentioned before), but everyone is different.

  • No, there is nothing wrong with you for preferring one position over another. We probably all do that. But it is ok for you to take a dominant role. I love it when my partner goes for own orgasm using my body.

Most Helpful Girls

  • There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. We all have our sexual preferences. I have my own reasons for not wanting to be on top anymore. If you dont like it there isn't anything wrong with that.

  • Nothing wrong with it! Sex is about everyones personal preferences and you shouldn't feel pressured into anything. Id talk to your partner about how you feel.

  • No there's nothing wrong with you. That's just your preference. What feels good for some might not feel good for others so don't worry about it.

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  • No, it's not bad. I like being on top but i also prefer to be dominated.

  • Nothing is wrong with you everyone has different things that feel better to them in the bedroom.

  • No, it's totally okay

  • No, not at all. My best friend loves it when her boyfriend is on top like pounding into her.

  • It's just your preference, nothing "wrong" with you. Most women enjoy it, but not all.

  • Nope. You do it how you feel most comfortable.

  • Not at all just your personal preference.

  • Yeah but i won't lie cryed a little

  • Nope I don't think so... Everyones different

  • No. Its personal preferences

  • No there's nothing wrong with you.

  • How you feel on the top of the ridge?

    • You may have acrophobia

  • Everyone has prefernces

  • i don't like to be top too, but I've never taught that there's something wrong with anything

  • No..

  • Not at all, my wife love having sex but hates being on top as well...

    • I like my partner at top. It is really good to see and have sex. If i am on top, i feels like only hitting on her puzzy..

  • No lol

  • Nothing wrong with you its al anout preference x

  • You don't like to cowgirl

  • Have to find what works

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