Is it strange or wrong to daydream about being raped in the back of someone's car at night up on the hill by the elementary school? ?

I get so turned on when I think about someone blindfolding, gagging, and raping me. Maybe they wouldn't use a condom, maybe they'd take my underwear. The thought drives me wild.

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  • Yeah, the thought.
    But most likely you would be traumatized if it happens for real, because in your fantasies you're fantasizing about traits of dominance and of being taken off from any responsibility to initiate sex, but in the fantasy you don't add the real details that would be packed with a real rape happening on the street: the guy is unattractive, creepy and not charming, who has probably other problems related to crime for assaulting people and this makes him dangerous, who is ready to give you any STDs and shaming around to trap you under guilt and shame. Nonetheless, the most common types of rapes happen through a known context (family, job etc), not randomly on the hills.
    So you're definitely not desiring to be raped, you desire to be dominated in a roleplay situation, but you picture it through a rape scenario.
    For more insights: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201508/why-do-women-have-rape-fantasies

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  • I have fantasies like this. I don't know what the elementary school has to do with it. Boys did a lot of sexual things to me in middle school but the school isn't part of what I remember about it when I do.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If it was by the high school, it would be strange and wrong. By the elementary school however, is fine. Perfectly normal. Nothing strange about it.

  • Romanticized abuse trope, feminists would be proud of you girl. :)

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  • It is strange too me.

  • Nothing wrong with fantasizing. I think your fantasy is hot as fuck

  • No, it fun to think about.

  • I have similar thought too but ofc I dw it to happen irl..

  • Domination. It’s fine I think about about dominating. ;)

  • Maybe you replace the word "rape" with "rough sex without mercy"

  • If you want it, it's not rape tho.

  • you're not dreaming of being raped
    You want rough sex. Which often gets associated with rape, unfortunately

    If you were dreaming of being raped, we'd see more rape cases in the world, go unsolved

  • Surprisingly a lot of women have fantasies like that. But of course don't actually want it to really happen, but have someone they trust to role play it.

  • That is very offensive if you have been raped in real life.