Is it stupid for girls to think they can live the same romantic life as men?

[Anonymous]

I'm a gen xer and I find that younger girls aren't looking to settle down anymore. Instead they are acting like men, satisfied with a string of casual sex experiences.

What they don't realize is that although they are more sexually free--without being shamed or labeled--they do not have as long a shelf life as men. I other words, men can marry a 25 year old girl when they are 40. A 40 yo single woman will most likely have to settle for someone older than her or a younger guy who isn't in high demand from girls his age.

I'm 40 and in my youth, it wasn't common for girls to want casual sex experiences unless they were just doing it until they met a guy they really liked. Although things are more politically correct now, boys will be boys and boys will still prefer younger women if he remains single long enough

[Anonymous]

I find male or female, nobody is wanting to "settle down" anymore. Even us older generation. And I have to disagree with a couple of points, "men can marry a 25 yr old girl when they are 40", umm, no! lol. There might be the rare case of this, but I think very rare. Most girls don't want a guy more than a year or two older than them, generally speaking. I think the young girls that want older guys is very few overall. Most I think say "eww gross" (unless he's rich or something). And while girls may be having more casual sex these days, most still want relationships from what I hear and see. But the girls that do want that, can and do. And I think MORE successfully then men because they can ALWAYS find a guy for it. It's WAY harder for a guy to find a woman for casual sex. Even in today's world.

[Asker]

Thanks for your insight

[Opinion Owner]

Plenty of women are still very attractive at 40 and older. Often it's her insecurities that makes her think she's not.

[smash4isBetter]

Yep, its kinda sad that society came to this, Im a zoomer but its getting worse and worse for my generation, sex before marriage, having kids out of wedlock, cheating on their boyfriend/girlfriend. Its insane., i could go on but you probably get my point. As for myself i think its disgusting to see that a lot of young women with an onlyfans, like get a real job and find a good man, get married and have a beautiful family. Im no saint but I ain't no devil.

[Asker]

Yeah I guess it is as bad as I thought. Also, since so many girls have fans only pages, etc. Guys don't want a relationship because they are constantly going to chase after social media model chicks

[smash4isBetter]

Yep your absolutely right, if im gonna date a girl, she must be like me when it comes to wanting to get married, wait for sex until we are married and eventually have kids. I think both men and women can be saved but if both sexes want to live a degenerate lifestyle, you live in sin you burn in hell.

[psychoticanimallover]

Maybe they’re not too bothered about getting married and just want to have fun while they can?

[Asker]

I know, but they don't realize they are fucked once they get older

[psychoticanimallover]

Fucked in what way? Because they probably won’t be able to get an attractive husband? If a woman wants some money she can get a degree and a job. If she wants some kids she can go to a sperm Bank or adopt. If she wants an orgasm she can use a vibrator or go to the local pub. I honestly don’t understand your question. Reality is not a fairytale. Even if you’re 25 when you settle down you still likely won’t end up with the white knight who will worship you your whole life. You’ll probably just end up with a cheater who can’t even make his own dinner. It’s better just to enjoy life while you’re able to, in my opinion. Life is short.

[Asker]

A vibrator doesn't compensate for love. the happiest people are older, married ones. Casual sex is the exact reason people are cheaters like you say. It normalized that behavior

[psychoticanimallover]

You can be happy without being married. Love exists in many forms. Friendships last longer than most relationships do.