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Is it stupid to want to lose my virginity to another virgin?

I (20) am currently dating an experienced guy (20) and I respect that. he knows im inexperienced but he doesn't know I feel this way yet. he doesn't know I've always planned on losing mine to another virgin. I also think he's doubtful im telling the truth knowing I dated a guy for a long time before him, but I dont wanna worry about that now. I really like him and actually want to see where this might go but at the same time im bothered about the fact that if I do that, I'd be letting go of something I've wanted for a long time. I know this isn't a big deal to some people so if you dont understand why I want this, avoid leaving unkind comments if you can.

I dont know if I should just let go of this what seem kind of unrealistic expectation in my head or if I should wait.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your intention sounds like you want to wait until marriage, and you would like to have your fiancé/husband also be a virgin. I am reading between the lines. If this is the case then I think what you are uncomfortable about makes sense. If the only intention is to have a virgin take your virginity outside of marriage and then you move on to other partners, then that makes no sense. Only you have this information. I can respect that if you are wanting to enter into marriage as a virgin and marry a virgin, that is a free will choice. This is up to you and not up to the culture.

  • don't surrender your morals and values for anyone-you'll go for a ride if you do.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Everyone should lose it to another virgin.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I wouldn't automatically let him go over that reason, but I can understand why you'd feel that way. Maybe you could continue to let the relationship develop, until you get to a point where the relationship between you & him is more important than your expectations/preference about losing your virgin to a guy who's also a virgin. Do you think he'd be willing to wait a while?

  • Its not stupid but it is stretching into the realm of fantasy. Also, two inexperienced people in bed, SOMEONE isn't getting an orgasm.

  • It's smart, as he is unlikely to be a player, unless he is lying to you about being a virgin.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

  • I think it's most important to save yourself for someone you love or at least are really into that feels the same about you and will respect you and not think of you as a trophy.

  • No, it's not weird.

  • Makes perfect sense to me, because it would probably make you feel less tension.

  • No so its ok if it works out

  • its stupid but understandable

  • If you love him give your virginity to him.

  • That's strange, women virgins usually want experienced men

  • Not stupid

  • No it’s smart actually. That’s how I lost mine and it was totally stress free. No expectations. No fear of being used.

  • That’s a personal choice, there is no right answer.
    I was friends with a girl who choose me to be her first.
    I had experience and took my time with her.
    Using lots of foreplay, she was sexually aroused and soaking wet.
    I had her get on top, that way she controlled how deep she let me inside her, and to control any pain.
    At first she was hesitant, but got into it, and with a thrust, she was fucking me full on.
    When it was over, I asked her if there was any pain? She said there was a little but what she felt afterwards more than made up for it. We’ve stayed friends, and I’ve just heard she’s married and has a kid!
    You never forget your first!

  • I don't think so. You do what I want and don't let anyone tell you differently.

    • Wow I put in a big typo. "You do what you want" is what it was supposed to say.

  • Do it with an experienced guy is better than an inexperienced one. It will be disappointed for both of u

  • It is how it should be!

    I don't understand why they make fun of guy when he has the same value. If it is girl, they are going to praise her for being virgin and wanting another virgin.

  • I think that you should wait. I want to lose my virginity to another virgin as well.

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