Is it submissive of a man to lick women's feet?

[marish01]

I just watched a short video on insta and it grossed me out.

A man was licking a woman's feet and sucking his toes. The caption was "what happens when a man uses our new lube"

It was an ad. Lol

Still gross but I'm glad it was her feet not her... otherwise I would feel more disgust.

[DaveJord]

I sucked my ex-wife's toes. She would giggle and squirm and she loved it. It made me happy to see her happy. But she liked to be tickled, whereas I hate to be tickled. I mean she was fresh out of the shower, and when I ran my tongue up the arch of her foot, she went crazy!!! The sex after was good and fun to. But if she was no in a sexy mood then stay away from her feet. But it made her happy.

So are you asking me if I like to make someone happy and interject a little fun into her for play, just because she likes it... then sure I guess that makes me submissive. But I doubt very much my ex-wife would call me submissive.

I have been with a dozen or so different woman, but my ex-wife was the only one I ever licked a toe with. Its honestly not my thing, but my ex-wife and I were together for 22 years... so, there was nothing gross or submissive about it to me. But I am not licking a stranger's feet.

[Anonymous]

Depends
I love kissing (not lick) on her feet passionately while sex just like every other part.. but that's just out of love and to express how much I love each part of her and not submissive

But I bet lot of submissive sissies love would love to no matter what
If man kneels to to the ground to do so, then probably that's sub

[marish01]

Does she kiss yours too?

[Opinion Owner]

Uh.. well she kind of does in a funny way while she gets on top... but I found it a bit weird and told her that politely and she stopped But she loves it when I do it , so I did'nt stop lol

[Anonymous]

Yes a lot of my toys or pets are like that better they like my feet then touch anything else!

Really a lot want to smell me or my armpits or just my used panties... Always just use fake smell on them 😂😜.

They are sick twisted pervs but pay well!

My man he massages my tired sore smelly feet but if I ask do they smell he won't sniff them and kiss them!

He hugs me and says he loves me no matter what even my smelly feet after work! Then we hop into the shower 🚿 and we'll...

[Billlewis]

Yes, most people would say that's submissive, but not nearly submissive as licking her boyfriend's feet, which I've been made to do on several occasions.

[IceCreamSandwich]

I think that could go either way (dominant or submissive), like most things could go either way. It just depends on how you do it.

[Berethor]

Yea it submissive, an erotic lactation is not necessarily submissive, but the feet is nasty. :)

[MementoMori777]

Yes it is, I believe kissing legs before giving head is different than worshipping feet or whatever

[marish01]

How is licking feet submissive but licking pussy dominant when in both cases the licker controls her pleasure?

[MementoMori777]

We've been over this Marish it's how it's done not the action itself 😆

[marish01]

So licking feet can be dominant depending on how it's done?

[MementoMori777]

That's a bit harder to make dominant, it's a good point tho but maybe in bdsm stuff, like using ropes and stuff but I don't know, personally I don't believe so, it's a good point tho lol

[marish01]

Imagine that and answer. Does he look masculine and dominant when putting her toes in his mouth?

[MementoMori777]

Well obviously not but if it's puh then yea, I never agreed the toes, although with eating out it depends on how it's done, maybe not with the toes stuff 😂

[AviatorTom]

Not when it pleasures the woman. Licking feet actually borders or dominance, keeping the woman under his control.

[MikeTheBartender]

If I'm on top of a girl. sometimes I suck her toes. No biggie. The best ones suck mine as well

[marish01]

I have seen women suck men's toes it didn't gross me out lol

[MikeTheBartender]

Everything in context. If she was just sucking my toes it would be odd but when she's taking care of my whole body it's perfect.

[MikeTheBartender]

Your question inspired a question for me:

Girls, Your man wants your tongue in his dirty spots, which do you choose? ↗

[marish01]

Good question

[marish01]

Lol no one answered

[MikeTheBartender]

But several voted ;)

[RavVid]

I agree - gross. Toe sucking is weird as a fetish. Princess Dianna had a toe sucker.

[Wonderingguyy]

It’s a fetish of some people’s

[NYCQuestions1976]

I'm not sure, but I've never understood feet being a turn-on. I mean I understand giving a foot rub/massage to your significant other can be appreciated and relaxing and lead to other things, but someone actually being attracted to feet? The concept just escapes me. To each their own.

[soe11]

I only kiss my girlfriend foot and licking her pussy.

Not others female though.

[DerekC321]

Yes but I love doing it. Also sucking her toes.

[loveslongnails]

No, it's not submissive, particularly if HE really likes it!

[marish01]

Does that apply to cuni too?

[loveslongnails]

That would apply to anything he likes to do!

[marish01]

A man who loves eating pussy while a woman sits on his face is dominant because he likes to do it but a man who doesn't like performing cuni but still does it only once a month while she blows him everyday is a submissive man?

[loveslongnails]

What? In the world are you talking about? You're the only person I've EVER spoken with, in my life, who needed to break down whether giving blow jobs or getting your pussy licked, or licking feet, or any other sexual act, is submissive or dominant! No matter who likes which to what degree, OR if they like it all, these are acts of love. IF you need to think that doing a sexual act you DON'T enjoy for your partner who definitely enjoys it, means your submissive and they're dominant, go ahead and box that up!! Anyone else I've ever known, or read about, that does this considers it to be a "loving act", neither dom or sub.

[marish01]

Those anyone elses are insignificant to me. That act shows submissiveness, lack of masculinity and subordination.

[loveslongnails]

According to you, and you're free to think what you want.

[Cubus]

It's more of a fetish.

[VforVindication]

I guess it is but when you have a fetish, you have a fetish. But i prefer small women's feet to big ones.

[AmeerX]

Well, what happens in bed should stay there 🙄

[KostasKouvalis]

It can be yes. In many cases it is. I would know. It only grossed you out 'cuz her feet were probably ugly. I would suck YOUR toes. Yours are cute

[NeverGiveUp69]

Yes, really sub thing to do

[Guanfei]

Foot fetish is part of the sub/dom stuff.

[marish01]

Is the licker the dominant one?

[Guanfei]

Nope, he's the sub.

[marish01]

Why is licking feet a submissive act when the licker controls the pleasure lol

[Guanfei]

Because he's not the one deciding when he does it, or when to stop

[marish01]

What if he is?

[Guanfei]

He isn't. And you'll see in almost every kink like that. The woman decides it, the guy do it whenever asked to. Which he agrees on, but he still doesn't decide.

[marish01]

If he loves feet but does it only when he wants, is he not dominant?

[Guanfei]

He doesn't do it when he wants, he's not deciding it.

[marish01]

If he decides...

[Kelly6]

Not at all

[marish01]

Do you lick your hubby's feet?

[Kelly6]

No , but hubby licks my feet

[marish01]

Why don't you lick his?

[Kelly6]

During sex we both lick. But at other time only he licks

[Sabretooth]

Certainly not something I would do. I have no sexual attraction to feet.