Is it suppose to hurt every time he put it in?

[Anonymous]

I’ve had two sex partners my whole life. Each time I have sex the guy has a hard time getting it in. The current guy I’m with now, we have a hard time getting it in. We’ve tried foreplay and all but it still takes time to get it in. We use so much spit and hits very painful when he put it in even just the tip hurts. He even says after sex am I okay because it looks like it hurts.

After a few minutes of going in and out just a tiny bit at a time and it gets super wet he’s finally in. I’ve watch videos not just porn but homemade sex videos and the guys just stick it in without having to struggle.

[petitedollbabee]

Are you making sure that you’re actually wet and turned on when you have sex? Spit doesn’t work very well. And even with lube it can still be painful if you’re not turned on.


Another thing to consider is seeing a gynaecologist. Make sure there’s nothing medically wrong, like PCOS, endometriosis or a strained muscle. Those things can cause painful penetration.


It could also be that he’s too big for you. All women have different shaped vaginas, internally, and not every penis will fit the way that it’s supposed to. I use to have very painful sex until I found a partner with a perfect shape and sized penis that doesn’t hurt me.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

What’s your anxiety level? I’ve been with many women and the ones that were really tight all had anxiety about meeting and having sex. The vagina has muscles inside it. If you have anxiety those muscles can tighten and squeeze. It’s one of the main reasons that virgin girls have a painful first time. Even if you are mentally prepared your body may still feel the anxiety and tighten up. It’s like when stress causes tense shoulders. My advice is to relax and be in the moment.
PM me if you would like to talk more or need more help.

[Dargil]

First. Do not use saliva. It is acidic and not a good lubricant. If you get stretched and abraded, it will hurt.. Use lotion or personal lube. Also, when he enters, ask him to use multiple tries so your vagina will relax and start to get wet on its own. Treat your vagina with the same respect as you would a baby.

[summiter]

Use some lube like KY or Astroglide it will really help. Also go slow when he is inserting it. You might try getting on top that way you can control the depth and the speed

[Danny_dan92]

Big dick was tearing your pussy apart

[PetiteMisSmooth546]

Let him eat you out dlfirst

[ashish804]

not really

[FireFox001]

No, it does not.

[Yellovv]

You need to get full wet before having sex, also he need to lick your pussy before sex to make your pussy soaking wet, after it will slide easily...

[tallblondejohm]

Only in ur butt