Is it the tumor or did he really want to be with unattractive mom with fake boobs no teeth & history of being forward and hitting on my male friends?

[Anonymous]

I walked out of my bedroom around midnight and the guy I’ve been sleeping with a week was on the couch with my mom who had went to sleep about an hour ago. He was rubbing her neck and back, she lifted herself up with her hands like she was on her stomach l, also a position if she had been giving him a blowjob? So, it seemed he woke her up to rub her back and neck instead of coming back into the bedroom to be with me, rub on me. She said she didn’t want him to touch her when I asked her later what happened. He only touched her neck and her back. When I walked over and sat down next to him and pulled back my down comforter that was covering him waist down he was wearing his boxers only. It didn’t make sense that he had went to lay down on my couch where she was sleeping when he knew I was awake in my bedroom waiting for him to come back from the bathroom. He has a paranganglioma tumor on his jugular close to endrenaline gland that makes him have energy and he had been hallucinating that day seeing stars above him and said things were dripping on him, he hadn’t slept the night before when I slept 8 hours. He said he couldn’t sit in the room because I was snoring and he also heard my male upstairs neighbor snoring and farting who is also very noisy. He had went to the bathroom to do meth in the and it had been 20 minutes maybe before I came out of my room and saw him on my couch with my 69 year old mom who had slept with my ex boyfriend after me when I was in my 20s and her in her 40s. She says my ex seduced her back then, and she also lived with me, didn’t pay rent or bills, didn’t work and drove my car but some how still managed to afford massages. She was also recently released from jail after 20 months for trying to stab an employee that was trying to stop her from stealing a shopping cart and had meth in her system, treated for schizophrenia, bipolar and mania and recently stopped taking Respiridol weening herself off in less than a month.

[TheSpaceGnome]

You need to bail on all of that.

While you were just talking about tumors and hallucinations, it seemed like a case of him simply not knowing what he is doing, but your mom is a homewrecking whore and they are both drug addicts, just leave.

[Guy13]

I don’t understand this. Sorry.

[Asker]

I’m saying he has a rare tumor that two in a million people are diagnosed with in a year. He’s literally been bedridden since the incident. He was taking amphetamines to help him live some kind of a life before losing his voice and the tumor is swelling and it’s joy looking good for him: he might die any die now. It was making him hallucinate and have an overactive sex drive.

[Guy13]

Oh, I see. Sorry to hear of his status.

[Asker]

Still is that enough to forgive him for putting himself in the living room with my mom massaging her neck and shoulder blades at midnight with lube on the table and telling me he thought ai wanted him to do it? Plus, somewhere during the time he went in there and started to give her a massage he took off his shirt and shorts which he says he did because he was hot and I can verify that he had been running super hot, but if he’s so hot why did he pull my winter down comforter over his boxers since it’s only gonna make him hotter? Then he told me he thought we discussed his price as in we talked about him giving her a massage? If it was just a massage then why was our lube sitting next to him on the end table when it should never have left my bedroom? Did he go out there to jack off but then she woke up and he wanted to give her a massage to put her back to sleep? He didn’t say that. I’ve never known him to be a liar. If anything I’d say his twisted mind might fuck anything in his condition, maybe? I don’t know how much of it could be explained by the tumor in his jugular that affects his adrenaline gland and makes it secrete fluid making it hard to operate and may kill him if they do but he may die if they don’t and it was all diagnosed months ago, recent. My mom said she never wanted him to touch her and I told him that and he seemed surprised to hear that comment! They both say nothing happened. Still she has a history of hitting on my male friends, over a few dozen have told me that my mother hit on them over the past 22 years since she last lived with me, freeloading! She also slept with my ex boyfriend and something mentioned something sexual happened with another ex of mine but it would have happened before we were together for 18 months and she was not living with me during that time!

[Asker]

I don’t want to say this but feel it may need to be made clear that I am hotter than my mom so it has nothing to do with that, I’m a model, 25 years younger, have all my teeth, no addictions, money, and she is an recovering addict, mentally ill, has no money, no home, was homeless and was staying with me for a few weeks before this incident. I haven’t been able to be around her since because of the trigger and flash back because her and Indiscussed this several times and she knew better than to put herself in a situation like that, on the couch at midnight with his hands on her..:so let’s say she’s innocent, still she should’ve and could’ve gotten up off the couch and came to me instead of staying there and allowing me to walk out and see what looked like a situation that shouldn’t be happening or maybe as about to be a situation that I stopped from happening. And after everything I said to him why can’t you just say the obvious that you never wanted to and never would do anything sexual with my mom? And he didn’t!

[Guy13]

Oh my…