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Is it true all women are bisexual?

A lot of men make this claim on GAG. And I’ve realised while talking to my friends that although we are very much into men, we will *always* admire an attractive women.

I will always catch myself “looking” and we’ve all had sex dreams with another girl. It seems to me that women are just beautiful in general so it’s hard to avoid.

But I’m always going to crave masculine energy and honestly and bluntly testosterone which is what makes me straight I guess.
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So according to a lot of you guys, I am not straight. That's fair enough - I'm not gonna deny that I am not sexually aroused by beautiful women. I don't know if I'd say I am bisexual though because emotionally I am attracted to and crave men and their energy. The purpose of this question was just to figure out if I (and some of my friends) are 'straight' or not. I guess I am not.
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  • Oh I probably had something to do with this. lol.

    I've always had a bit of a "fear" of this in the back of my mind. Like if I'm not "man enough" for her, she'll just leave and find a woman. But I hear women feel something similar towards bisexual men.

    Personally, I think relatively few people are completely one way or the other, but some variation of the middle. I've mentioned having guy crushes and being a bit bi-curious. Certainly had gay dreams. But I think the spectrum also just shows up in admiring other attractive guys, without necessarily having to have that "in-the-gut sexy" feeling. So you're probably in a similar boat to me.

    Though the range of feminine I like is pretty wide. From the most obvious girly-girl to girls with a more "tom-boyish" look. Though I personally lean more towards the latter. A few too many of my crushes have been lesbians. lol. Probably explain the "fear" I mentioned above.

    But there *is* a biological basis that would at least back of this idea from some evolutionary perspective. While we are closely related to the common Chimp, we are also related to their siblings, the Bonobos. Bonobos have a central female hierarchy, and the male's rank is determined by the rank of his mother. The female core is held together primarily with sexual activity. One example is the "bonobo handshake" where females greet each other by rubbing their vaginas together. So the females being bisexual give them the female social "core", while also mating with the males. Slightly unrelated, but bonobo females generally mate with all the males rather than sticking to a specific one, which prevents a sexual hierarchy between the males. So there's also a basis for women having wandering eyes the same as men. Again, assuming our mutual ancestors behaved similarly.

    Relatively recent DNA sequencing has suggested we are probably behaviorally more closely related to the bonobo, with chimps being outliers due to their competition with gorillas. Though it's important to stress that we are generally equally related to both. I've just always been fascinated by what parts of us may be chimp-like, and what parts are bonobo-like. The general consensus seems to be that we can be either one, depending on culture.

    But to bring it more to us, I believe many of the Greek nations used to have mostly homosexual sex, with heterosexual sex being more of a special occasion. But I don't think hunter-gatherers show this, so it could have been more of a cultural thing than a biological instinct.

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  • I wouldn’t say all but a majority of them yes, most girls have experienced it or were curious of it but to really know for sure if she did or not leaves a question mark , Me personally thought I would be fine with it in a relationship with a girl to realize I wasn’t, to me it’s still considered cheating and disrespectful if you are in a relationship doing
    It behind your partners back to me is cheating. My girlfriend now put some question marks on my head thinking maybe she is bisexual , she became. Friends with a girl not to long again that seems a little weird to me , they act like they are best friends after meeting each other 1 day and it’s like they make sure they make time for each other and the girl calls my girl every day , I know Girl’s like to talk on the phone but this friendship has raised some questions of concern, To the point I asked my girlfriend if she is bisexual and she got completely pissed off at me for even saying that , I told her why it crossed my mind cuz of the way her Friend looks at her is a little weird to me as well. They are planning weekend gateway together at a couples spa which I am not to happy about but I know I can’t force her not to go. So I am just praying my girlfriend doesn’t do anything stupid , I am just emotionally exhausted getting played by girls and I don’t know what else to do, the whole things sucks

    • Although I’m sexually attracted to women I would never cheat on a partner and I’ve also been very close and friendly with girls but I had no attraction towards them whatsoever. Genuinely just loved them as a sister.

    • Thank you for this answer , I know every relationship goes through ups and downs and everyone has insecurities whether they say they do or not , when things don’t align like they were in relationships we tend to think the worse case possible , we as humans tend to get selfish at times and don’t really hear what are partners are trying to tell us and we take it to a whole new level , that they don’t trust us or they must be cheating on us etc, so my thing is communication is key , if someone can’t wear my shoes like I wear theirs then it’s best to just walk away , we can love someone so much and care about that person but we can not force someone to stand by our side , all we can do is pray that they share the same love we give to them. And pray that they don’t turn our backs on us and vice versa , We are all imperfect people and we all experienced ups and downs in relationships , no matter how much it hurts inside it’s best to fight for them to just let them go

    • Absolutely. Communication is extremely important.

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  • No. They are not. The idea that they are is mostly based in fetishism of lesbianism through lesbian porn. There are some women who happen to be bisexual. There are some women who happen to be straight. There are women who hapen to be lesbians. There are women who happen to be asexual… and so on and so forth. Women are not all the same. People are not all the same. We shouldn't try to file people under labels. Also, there's a troll, who makes new account all the time and asks the same question, so you shouldn't pay attention to these questions lol

  • I don't think it is, I was never interested in women, growing up. Never fantasied about it, in fact a little grossed out by it but then when I had that little couldn't touch men issue for a few years, learned it wasn't so bad. Even though it never felt natural or right.

    • Per your updates, I consider myself heteroflexible, I am totally into men but if the right woman comes along, I could be attracted to her. Maybe that is what you are too.

    • Probably! That’s helpful actually

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  • No, certainly not all or even close to most. This is simply a troll that likes to antagonize and otherwise start arguments.

    The second I see him, I remove the content. He either has a weird obsession or some mental health issues.

  • No, that's not true.

    It IS true that the percentage of women who ARE bisexual to at least some extent is fairly high, at around 33%, or 1 in 3. And if you are talking to a group of party girls, it's very likely that those party girls have come primary from the bi-sexual pool, so the party girl ratio might be 80% or more. The girls who stay home or don't do the bar/club scene (maybe they're at school or work or whatever) are more likely to be straight. The point is that it's easy to go to a bar or club and get a skewed sample that might make it seem like nearly all women are bi, but those are very unscientific samples. The 33% figure is actually the average of 3 different, scientifically-conducted polls, one in the US, one in the UK, and one in Sweden, all of which were within 2% of each other.

    This means that the majority of women are straight and have no sexual attraction to other women, even if they admire their beauty, fashion, fitness, or makeup.

    • I guess if I am bisexual, I am the more rare type who spends most time at home/working/gym.

    • The homy women are more likely to be straight, but they also are more likely to believe they are straight, and know nothing of their sexual B-side.

  • "Wouldn't that be nice" :) ... lol

    Is it true all women are bisexual?

    • Well damn lol

    • Love the pic. 😻

    • @StephanieGirl75 Thank you Ms Stephanie... I love the intimate moments of doing what's in the picture with my close girlfriend :)

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  • No. It's not "a lot of men on GAG", it's one very persistent spammer with a bunch of different accounts, and possibly some other guys. Are there bisexual women out there? Sure. Are a majority of women bisexual? Only in the Freudian sense that absolute homosexuality is rare. Does our society relentlessly pushing the idea of female beauty encourage bi-curiosity in women? Natch. But the big thing is: do women expressing homosexual feelings or desires receive less backlash than men doing it? ABSOLUTELY.

    At worst, they tend to get a shrug and an "oh, okay". More common is "I can relate" or "That's so hot". Whereas with guys... well, I think a telling example is that my high school had to had exclude straight people from it's Gay and Lesbian club (that's what they called it at the time; no doubt it'd be seen as objectionable now)- not out of any objection to them being straight, but hearing EVERY PERSON who speaks before you open with "I'm not gay, but..." was doing a number on the still-closeted guys.

  • No. I've never had any feelings beyond platonic for a woman in my life.

  • 24 years old, female and you ask that question?


    Haha nice try 40 year old man on a troll account.

    • Im literally 24 look at my update

    • A fake profile can be any age you tell it to be. This question is asked by old indian men on an almost daily basis and always receives the same response.

    • So why are you having a go at me? Honestly I’m so sick of people like you

  • No that is not true at all..
    Just because you see guys on GAG say that- never trust an internet platform for accurate truth and you have friends that may be,- that doesn't represent all the women in the world...
    I've known women that were lesbians, I've also known women that were bisexual. That never made me think/believe all women are that way. I know I'm certainly not nor are a lot of women I know..
    That's like saying just because there's some guys that are gay/bisexual, all men are and that's definitely not true either.. There's a gay guy at my job that for some reason laughed on to me as his work buddy lol does that mean all the guys at my job are gay? Wouldn't that be ridiculous reasoning?
    This is another fine example why you can't stereotype people by their gender. Not all men/women have the same thoughts, feelings, sexual inclinations as everyone else in their gender..

    • *latched not laughed🤦🏼‍♀️

  • I have had the occasional girl/woman, but I prefer men mostly,

  • If I get mad at my boss and fantasize about killing him or causing him some huge problem, that doesn’t make me a murderer or whatever. It’s a way to visualize doing something, experiences some of the feelings that would ensue, and I don’t want to kill him.

    • And if i fantasize about kissing men it doesn't make me gay

    • @randomguy1030 Does that fantasy make you want to do that IRL?

    • Dude no but if i did fantasize about men i would do it IRL. Just because i wouldn't do it IRL due to stigma or self hate doesn't change the fact i would be gay

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  • No it's not true and only idiots think otherwise.

    • Okay. You get how dumb you're sounding right? You sexuality is about what SEXUALLY turns you in. So both like you said. What you pursue as a relationship is irrelevant.

  • Nope not at all, there are a huge number of girls who are straight.

    I’ve dated girls who are bisexual, my sister is bisexual and I have friend who are bisexual, gay, lesbian.

    There are however girls I know that are very much straight and do not even have a curiosity about it.

    Pretty much same with guys and being straight, bi or gay.

    • @alyssa_11 ref your update, you can be bi curious. Something you don’t really know until you move past the curious bit. For me though, why label yourself, just be how you want to be.

    • I like that. Be who you want to be.

  • Not all women are gay; just most. Probably like 60-70% nowadays.

    I don't want have anything to do with the lesbians you speak of. If you've had "sex dreams" about another woman, then yeah, you are queer (gay). No self-respecting man wants to be a Will Smith to another woman.

    If you want to f*ck, or even touch, another person of the same gender like that, you gay. End of story. Nothing else to say. And like I said, that's a giant turn-off/colossal dealbreaker for me. Who I look like, Will Smith?

    I only want a woman who has eyes for ME! Not other lesbian like herself. But yeah, weekend lesbians are gross and disgusting and I strongly dislike them. Only heterosexual/straight women for me. The cucks and simps can be cucked and simped by the lesbians of the world who want to f*ck other women while still pretending they respect you, or men in general, when they clearly don't.

    Only one who agrees with me on here is @dizzydesii. She wouldn't want a flaming homosexual man trying to "hit on" her and act all macho and tough when he takes up the rear. Lesbians are the exact same thing to self-respecting men. But, you know... Cuckolds exist.

    • Hmmm... I’ve had sex dreams about other women and so have some of my other friends. I wouldn’t say that makes me gay though. I don’t see how that would affect a relationship with a man either.

    • Like I said: "If you want to f*ck, or even touch, another person of the same gender like that, you gay. End of story. Nothing else to say."

    • It's a shame so many women are gay nowadays. It's like, legitimately sad. Either because they hate men, or there's something in the water turning the ladies gay, like Alex Jones implied. But it's just sad. So much man hate. I mean, nothing against actual, fully committed lesbians. But reading so many women nowadays being gay just makes me think the human race is going to go extinct. How many boys out there are going to grow up and die virgins because there's no straight women left. No women left that actually like men. But hey, good luck to all your lesbians out there.

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  • No abolustely not

  • I wouldn't make any claim that "ALL" women are XYZ, because then women can play the same game with men. But I have to point out that if you're *sexually attracted* to beautiful women as YOU claim, then you might just be bisexual yourself.

    You can still be bisexual with a preference for men. But that all depends on whether or not you can comfortably picture yourself having a *wife* in the future. Hahaha. If you cringe at that thought, then I'm probably wrong about you.

    I have to admit, though, it is nice to know men have something to offer women. I used to be one of those people that believed women could easily "change" their sexuality when things don't go so well with guys... and that kind of thinking messed me up a little when I was younger.

  • Nope not all

  • I don't think most women are bisexual. I think, because it is socially promoted, and because we can all agree women are the prettier sex, more women are claiming bisexuality... Despite no actual plan to have sex/ get into a relationship with a woman. This is just the culmination of Leftist propaganda: everyone wants to feel unique; so, they're claiming nonsensical pronouns, or some deviant sexuality to fit in.
    Example, Girl: I'm only interested in guys, but I like girls too (never done anything with girl). Pronouns: She/ her/ They.
    Ok... they used to call that heterosexual like three years ago, and nobody is going to abide by your stupid desire to be referred to as 'they.'

  • I don't know if that makes you straight I think you would make you happy happy happy LOL but I hear what you're saying and I believe in what you're saying to be true so now that I said that just remember when you find a guy and he looks at a girl remember what you just said because he's going to feel the same way when you see something beautiful you have to look it means nothing else since just a look what are the best parts about being in a relationship is when you're walking down tomorrow and you kind of glanced over here looking at your partner can you see her looking at some guy and if she turns her head really quick see what you're doing and you're catching her look at a guy I mean come on all you can do is smile it's part of human nature and that's a very good moment to say you're busted LOL but yeah I think you're right. Very good questions and answers you have there

    • I agree with you. If my husband looks at a beautiful woman I see where he's coming from. It's hard not to look. I'd be mad if he's disrespectful about it though.

    • Yeah I don't think he would be disrespectful yes I understand too is that when a guy looks at a girl it usually is not a sexual look it's something like damn look at that dress that is hot or look at the way she has her hair done that is cool our look at those boots you know just because you're looking at the girl there's more to it than that. And if a guy is going to be disrespectful I think he would know that before you started dating him and you probably wouldn't be dating that guy anyway but I hear you I know exactly what you mean

    • Exactly

  • Sure. All women are. ;)

  • Ridiculous, never even heard of this until GaG.

  • No. This select male fantasy is false.

    • Most women are the ones liking it

    • @Sperminator Again, it’s a male fantasy.

    • If you say so 😉

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