Guys, Is it true if a man likes you he won’t bring up sex or ask for nudes in the talking stage?

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Guys, Is it true if a man likes you he won’t bring up sex or ask for nudes in the talking stage?

Crazyced · Accepted Answer

I'd say it's not necessarily true, 'hey send nudes' not withstanding. You have to keep in mind that even if his goal is to make you his one and only, the only way it will happen is if he eventually convinces you to become intimate with him. And to do that there is usually a window of opportunity that can close rather quickly (you find him boring, you start to not see him that way, you get hooked by a man that pulled the trigger faster, etc). Men often learn that they rarely get rewarded by taking it slow.

I'd say building sexual tension early on is normal. It just has to feel fun and natural.

JamesDiaz11 · Accepted Answer

No, being forward about sex is purely personal style, and has no indication that he actually likes you or not. Girls tend to project their own behaviors onto guys. For example, some girls will sleep around/ hook up with guys they don't like, but then try to act like a conservative, good girl with a guy they like. Guys do not do this. They'll have sex with whoever they find remotely attractive, approaching it in a manner they deem appropriate (something that won't get them rejected or arrested), which comes secondary to the relationship they're trying to start.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

I think it’s reasonable to expect that he would try to not talk about sex during the talking stage if he wants to lay the foundation for a long-term relationship. Yes, however, he’s getting really aroused and you are being a little bit flirty, I wouldn’t be surprised if it slipped out. I wouldn’t worry about that if it happened.

Bricealan · Answer

Probably true. For me, it has been the best to not discuss sex until SHE decides to broach the subject.

RavVid · Answer

Well if I think that might cause you to stop talking to me then possibly.

Dargil · Answer

I wouldn't and didn't.

worldscolide · Answer

A decent respectful man won't make such requests.. Regardless of weather or not he likes you.

smilelots · Answer

no not true every one is different ,, some people dont ask the hard questions ever so you really dont know someone unless you ask or they tell.. nothing wrong with asking about things that is important to you.. why waste time with bull shit..

CreatingWonders · Answer

I won’t ask for naked pictures of anyone I’m talking to, regardless of if I like them or not, I have respect I wouldn’t like it if someone asked me so I wouldn’t do it to them.