Is it true that guy would not consider a girl as "marriage material" if she'll sleep with him on first date itself?
And what do you guys do in meantime? Do you hook up with your ex or ONS with strangers?
There was a woman I thought was fantastic and we spent a whole night talking, then went to breakfast. The next day we went out for a day picnic with another couple. The next day I had to go back to my Navy school 700 miles away. A month later she flew down to spend some time with me and I gave her her engagement ring, and we had sex. We ended up married less than two months after meeting. We were sure enough the first night, but we spent the time getting to know each other better.
If we had had sex the first night, I still would have married her!
Thank you for MHGuy. :-)
True. Depends on your past. More than 3 dates. And you should not be having sex. Id be more likely to marry a girl who fucked me right away than one fucking someone else. Smh.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I wouldn't have sex on a first date anyway, but if a girl was prepared to have sex on a first date I might have second thoughts about if she is marriage material. It's all going to depend on the person.
No it’s not. Some couples have sex on the first date and never spend another night apart. A man who would reject a woman for having sex with him too soon is not a man you would want for a partner.
Most relationships don’t last very long, whether or not the couple has sex. You can’t trade sex for commitment. Have sex if you want to have sex.
I have never had sex on the first date.
I have never tried to initiate sex with a relative stranger.
For that to happen she would have to be initiating.
She would most likely be a loose party girl in my eyes.
No marriage.
Wait 3 months... or even until marriage.
1st, 2nd or 3rd date?
Slut.
I do sex with ex's..
And there is no things like marriage material. It's a myth & marriage is scam.
Nope. Slept with my wife the first time we met and we've been happily married for 6 years. It's all about the person.
How would he even be able to take such a position? It's completely preposterous and hypocritical. You can't judge someone for doing something with YOU!
I say its the opposite.
No I think
Yeah, probably. Why would anyone marry a woman who would give sex away right away?
Absolutely.
I wouldn’t let her have sex with me on the first date
Generally Yes
Any women that does that , a SLUT ALERT is issued
A girl who puts out loses her long term status.
Ther are still plenty of neanderthals out there, but do you need a loser like that? Some guys won't touch the woman they want to marry, but will go looking for a "slut" to fuck. It's not cheating in his pea brain because he's committed to you and after all she's just a slut. There are plenty of more enlightened men.
I think I speak for most guys when I say that I do not respect people who have casual sex, and having sex on the first date is definitely casual sex. So yeah, I probably would not see her as marriage material.
I slept with my wife on the 1st date 👍
No it's not true
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