Because of societal hypocrisy... as children we are trustingly promulgated our atavistic 'sinful' animism conjoined to an egotistical specie-al superiority.
As male homo sapiens, a 98% genetic 'cousin' of the Bonobo chimpanzee ( the MOST libidinous offshoot of the primate genus and the ONLY primate that copulates in 'missionary position') at a base root level, in our most virile years we are biologically driven by GMO contaminated nutrition, to respond to culturally-imprinted arousal cues,
kids from 5 and up waken to morning 'wood' (erections) and are, in most heterosexual development, find the female mystique of our species FASCINATING with their 'learned' perceptions of generational culturally-imprinted 'Glamoury' allure.
Now, at this phase of their male lives, instinctually they're biologically inclined to beg, borrow or steal every opportunity to copulate with AS MANY like-minded females to fulfill Nature's imperative to perpetuate their unique recombinant DNA, perpetuating our species. Hence all the ethnic 'hit & run' playah 'Romeos'
doing the 'Johnny Appleseed" scam of eschewing the use of condoms and the plethora unwed, unsupported single mothers with mixed emotions regarding their progeny, many of whom themselves eschew pharmacological birth control.
You see hereditarily we males are on one hand... driven to fertilize as many females as circumstance and 'salesmanship' might afford yet paradoxically society has evolved beyond troupe communities where resultant nascent progeny are parented by the community.
Disinclining fecund females who wisely keep the long view of their elective options to express their own innate libidos. However, these females CAN be tactilely persistently goaded to progressively surrender to their OWN inner libidinous 'slut' ... through competent progressive stimulation culminating in wracking convulsive spasms of multiple orgasms.
I've personally have seen the Asian brothel training videos of females as young as FIVE being motivated to surrender to overpowering nascent innate arousal responses until their hips writhe and grind, ... until their brains release highly-addictive Serotonin, Dopamine and Oxitocin flooding their physiognomy to hungrily respond in generations-old innate seductive movements FAR beyond their tender years. ~
Okay here's a little logic illustration for you: You've got a room with 100 guys in it. 50 of these guys just want sex, and they will bail if you don't have sex with them on the first date. 25 other just want sex, but they will stick around for date two. Of the remaining 25, 10 of them are gay, 5 of them aren't really interested in sex that much at all, and that leaves another 10 that do want to have sex with you, but they are also interested in other aspects of having a relationship.
Question is, if you don't have sex with any of them, how many are going to still be around in a month?
Now this isn't a really statistically accurate example, but I'm just using it to show you. I have no idea what your life or habits are like, but if you are having sex with guys, I hope it's because you want to have sex, not because you are trying to use sex to get them to commit to some other deal like a long term commitment. If what you want is a long term relationship, then you need to use...
Something like "hey I like you, would you like to be my boyfriend/partner?" or "I find you sexually attractive, but I don't want to have a short term causal fling with you. I am looking for something that lasts."
What do you want, exactly? And how are you communicating that to others?
That's a little more than you asked. But essentially, yes, many guys do just want to have sex, which feels good, but are not interested in having a relationship, which requires a lot more responsibility, effort, and time. If you are experiencing guys who are really nice to you, then change how they act after sex, I would say they are putting on an act to get sex, and if you want it to stop, you gotta change something about what you are doing. I do get it though, it can be really nice to meet someone you are attracted to, have sex with them, and just trust they are going to want the same things you want the next day. It's probably easier for me as a guy because girls tend to want to have a relationship and keep things going as long as it's nice.
You can DM me if you want to talk more about what you want and how to get it.
To generalize all men like that, you'll miss out on the good guys that aren't that way... Are there some that are like that, sure, but that doesn't mean/prove all are..
Just like women don't like when men assume/ label all women are/as the same, then women need to stop doing the same...
People need to stop judging people just by their gender, or by someone else's actions/behavior and go by the individual person/behavior...
In your age range, the guys aren't quite relationship-orientated, they are more concerned about finding their path in life, but sex is still a convenience. If you're giving off the vibe that you're an easy one night stand, then you really can't blame that on the guys. They have thoughts and feelings also, but hormones can take over! It isn't just sex though.
Thank you! Women can understand PMS but can’t quite comprehend I’m horny give me sex!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It's a myth that most men think sex is just sex. For many, sex is a very important act between two committed people. And just like most women, men find sexual intimacy to be most satisfying within a committed relationship. One reason is that long-term partners know how to please one another better than strangers do.
Some guys want only sex but some guys want more wants a loving relationship someone who can stand with you with everything and the last thing they want is sex and when they do it they will treat you better
Actually for guys like me I treat you pretty good from the start, but I do not get seriously involved with women before having sex... and after I treat them even better if I think they are deserving.
Nothing irritates a guy more than a women that he invests a lot of time and effort into and then finally have sex for the first time and its so, so or not great, but poor. Best to defuse that sexual tension from the start and see if the relationship has real legs or not.
But yes at 18 you best believe they only want sex... most guys are not looking to get serious with a girl until they are at least 25 or so. And honestly, most people do not really begin to feel comfortable with or fully grow into themselves until they are around 25 to 32. People change a lot from the age 18 to 30, so it best to get all your experimentation out the way while you're young... before you start trying to look for serious relationships.
You say things like you speaking for all guys. All you can speak for is you. Girls, this is not true for all dudes. First. I’ve never really had lame sex. It’s all been good. Different, but good. The great sex was purely because something about her really attracted me to her. She had my perfect eyes, ass, or something … whatever it was that she had it drove me crazy with lust. I would think it’s just as important to guys as it is girls. Not the same, but important. It takes different levels for a guy to want sex, like say the wind blows, lol.
I can only speak for me but definitely not the only thing I want. It took me Awhile to realize it and probably longer to admit it, but I like / want to be taken care of by a women. I’m old fashion and believe the man should provide but having a woman makes me feel more secure. It’s not easy all the time. I’m lucky to have a woman who probably wants sex more then I do and she’s not scared to let me know. And I love having a woman I can just randomly take at times. But it’s not the only thing I want or need.
@expdude well if you reread my original post I literally started off by saying "for guys like me". So I was not speaking for all guys, and I made that clear so back off spazz man. Secondly, just because the sex was good for you every time you where with a women, doesn't mean it was good for her. So its total man thing to say or think, and contributes to my over all point. Which is as you said guys want sex for almost any reason "like when the wind blows." Just because it was good for you does not mean it was for her. My only point that for "guys like me" I usually treat them better after sex. But as far a relationships goes a lot of it does depend on the quality of the sex, not just for me, but also for her.
I enjoy being in relationships. There no thrill in sampling a bunch of different women just once.
Aside from unbridled sex, it's nice to have a best friend to go places, do things, and hang out with. I like women. They are charming, cute, and fun to be with and talk to.
At your age, you may be selecting guys whose interest is purely sexual. Your sample of the male population is extremely small and not representative. Most of us really like sex but most of us want more than just sex in a relationship.
No, we want more than that. Me thinks you are just another woman who ONLY choose Chads and then complains when the top 5% of men who can have any woman they want, don't treat YOU with special attention, so you then complain on the internet and blame all men for YOUR own actions of only choosing the most desirable men in society. ... Or am I wrong?
I don't know. I like to think not. I need a guy who cares about intellectual conversation and mind and soul way, way before body.
Girl that is why there is a diff between need and getting one :)
We'll have to give you this answer just because of the way that you asked it.
And the answer is yes and no
Guys you're a joy to have one thing on their brain and that's to get into any girls pants they don't care how they do it they don't care who they do they don't even care if it's any good or not they just want to be able to tell their friends if they just got done fucking this person and they think that they are a stud. So guys your age that's all they care about you're just another notch in the belt buckle guys my age we went a little bit more with some it's still a yes but then there's guys like me want more
I like haveing a best friend someone to share life with and adventure as well to support.
But there are different maturities and personalities to males. The hormones drive them and they don’t necessarily understand themselves… what they want not understand the consequences and responsibilities at that age.
I think not... then some wanna prove me wrong.
@darine123 Just an observation: In your caption picture, the legs and night gowns look like 2 girls.
@darine123 I agree, it does look like 2 girls.
If you present yourself as easy meat, you'll get eaten by wolves.
You want more, save yourself for someone with a passion in life not related to sex. He will try to convert you to the cause; but you can reach a compromise. You'll be a team; and sex will be only a minor background detail.
I agree with most of what you say. But sex has NEVER been a minor background detail for me - at any stage of life.
I pick option C) it depends on the situation.
Yes there are times guys just want sex but there are just as many guys who want a relationship.
One thing to remember what you are seeing a a loss of interest after sex can be put down to how the hormone levels are in the male body. Or hormone levels drop off a cliff after we cum some guys have to make an active effort to be able to hug and kiss after because all there body is saying is roll over and fall asleep.
Of course I'm talking straight after sex if your meaning the days after sex then some guys have had there urges attended to and are not looking for any emotional ties, they will be hitting tinder again just as soon as they get the urge again.
These guys are really missing out on the benefits of getting tied up in the emotional bits.
"Guys" is about 4 billion people.
You met less than 0.00001% of that in your lifetime. So you don't know what "guys" want.
No one does because it's a single truth for all guys.
If all guys you met just want sex and you're not down with that then change your standards, change where you meet guys, explore potential candidates that you wouldn't normally give the time of day.
Not saying go for the fat ugly dude with no future. But maybe if you're only meeting guys at a club try meeting one at a library.
So to answer the question no. It's not true.
No some probably but for most of us sex is just a way to bond. At the moment many guys don´t know what they want or they unpeprepared for a relationship.
If you really want to find a relationship try to do it offline because the obstacles of talking about sexual stuff is offline higher than online.
Online it´s way easier due to anonymity and other reasons to be more direct about sex.
No that's not true at all, we also want food and sleep!
Umm well...
@girlwithglasses01 Sorry that was my poor attempt at humour!
no wtf?
Guys want way more then sex don’t try and make your pussy seem more valuable than it is lmao. We want money, power, more pussy!
But let’s be honest for a minute. If you had something to offer and we’re better at picking men you wouldn’t be crying “where have all the men gone” right now.
Good luck with your hoe phase!
Some do, yeah. I think that you will find more of them are like this when they are in their teens/ early twenties though. Same with females. But once the novelty wears off people start to want love and companionship as well as sex.
True. Nothing to add.
Evidently you're attracting the wrong type of guy. Now I'm not blaming you. There are guys out there that want to have real relationships. Don't give me wrong, sex is part of that
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