Is it true that guys only give oral to girls they think are girlfriend material?

I was at a bar and this guy said this is that true I don't think it is, but almost every guy I hooked up with wanted to give me oral.. literally begged for it, but my friend who is gorgeous is with a guy and he won't even make out with her just sex, so why is this...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If I was hooking up with a girl the only thing holding me back from eating her out would be the fear of STDs. At least if it's sex you can use a condom. It doesn't eliminate the risk but it makes it more manageable and odds are you'll walk away unscathed. You can use dental dams but I imagine that would be a lot like a blowjob with a condom - not worth it.

    If it's a one night stand, you don't know where the other person's been and if they're being honest. At least with a girlfriend or at least a girl you know there's some history and you can trust her word. If there was no such thing as STDs or STIs, I'd probably be down there with no hesitation.

  • Title question: No. I do have to "feel love" for a girl to do that. Good looks and an hour of exciting, fun conversation can do that. If I like her, I will want to move from making out directly to giving her oral.

    A girl once told me that girls can learn more about a guy's heart from a session of oral than an hour of guarded conversation. If a girl want's it, a guy's declining to give oral before a BJ or sex should be a deal breaker.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Take it as a compliment and don't read too much into just that. Every guy has a different motivation (just like you might have different motivations for hooking up with different guys). And, it's not just about looks - ever (though they help). Perhaps you should investigate your thoughts on offering oral to the men in your life. (If you need tips on that, perhaps you should turn to Jack's Blowjob Lessons... it's a big help.)

  • I think so. I can recall several times where I've asked a male friend if he gave a one night stand oral and he looked at me like I was crazy as hell. They always say no lol I think they're afraid to lick something that's so easy to get.

  • Not at all.. If they think that way they are nothing but douchbags

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  • It just depends on the guy. She just happened to land a guy that doesn't like to eat out.

  • LOL A guy told you that at a bar... Did he try to show you how much he loves you?

    • no these guys I was messing around with just asking crazy questions !! we got to ask them questions they weren't my type at all lol

  • My only sexual interaction with women is being allowed to perform oral service for her exclusively, which is my ideal arrangement.

  • Yeah I wouldn't want to give random girls oral O. O

  • For your friend, guys that hook up a lot... only have sex, no oral and sometimes no kissing. Otherwise it gets too messy with all the girls they have been with

  • Not true. We also give oral to friends with benefits.

  • most of them do that. i think...

  • Why would you trust some dude from a bar? That's like girls who don't like giving oral for some reason.

  • I am addicted to giving oral sex. It is the hugest turn on.

    I can never fathom any guy not wanting to give

  • Cunnilingus is very intimate and always reserved for special girls.

  • I give oral to any girl