Is it True That Sex Isn't Fun for Women?

As a virgin (yes, I'm a virgin), I've heard a lot of people say that the first time isn't great - which is ok - understandable.

But I recently got told that it takes a while for women to eventually enjoy sex? Is that true? I've always felt like sex should be pleasurable for both parties.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Most Opinions cover the basic physical aspect and I'll try not to repeat.

    Another aspect no one covered is the emotional aspect.

    Have you heard of the saying "man need sex to feel loved while woman gives sex to show that she loves him"?

    While physically, the experiences girls have to go through (blood, hymen tear, lack of orgasms) could be more challenging than guys, she may experience "orgasms of the mind". And if her guy loves her in return, she will be in great ecstasy.

    Younger girls with inexperience guys may result in her having less pleasures than we hope it to be.

    But have you heard of the term "nymphomaniac"? Yes, its a term for woman, not man. Imagine a woman that craves sex because she experienced the goodness of it so much until she is close to being an addict to sex.

    Hence my conclusion is, sex to women can be more pleasurable and fun than to guys, if done right. And it usually happens after she and her guy are more experienced.

  • From what I've heard, sex hurts at the start but after a while it feels good even during the first time. It will continue to hurt for a while at the start, but still feel good after a while. Eventually there will be no pain though. My sister stopped feeling pain after the 5th time. My girlfriend never did.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It can be lots of fun for both parties. First time can be awkward because it's new and you're figuring things out that's okay. I think some women find it more difficult to orgasm, many don't orgasm from penetration alone and that's fine. It can take a little longer or a little more effort for woman and some guys aren't the most considerate in the moment. If you communicate, let the other person know what you like then everyone has a better time.

  • Sex is a wonder feeling for both men and women. Sadly for women their first experience is awful and less than satisfying. I have help numerous girls experience a wonderful first time as well as help those who have a less than satisfying sex. The first time can be painful but I’ve learned that if done correctly it can be glorious and pain-free. You are welcome to PM me if you have any other questions.

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  • Doesn't have to be true, if done correctly it shouldn't be too much discomfort and even if slight discomfort it will go away quite quickly but can probably depend on the person and the partner.

  • No it isn’t true

  • I think if you do it right it pleasurable experience for girls. Try fingering your vv and touch your body for getting a feel about it before you are ready for real thing

  • Why not just have sex and find out?

  • It all depends on the individual if they experience pain in ways or its been drilled into their head that its a wifley duty or the big reason just had never been with the right partner caring gentle loving and considerate of her needs

  • Who told you that bull shit?

  • There would be a disaster when men die for sex but women won't. That's why, women power is important.

  • It's fun if you want it to be fun.

    • That’s stupid and guys dont have the same anatomy as females. So until you try how fun anal sex is the first time, don’t be so presumptuous.

    • @Breanna_nonbinary Looks like you need some Vitamin D yourself

  • Its completely depends on your partner.

  • Nope total rubbish

  • That is a false saying. I think it is more fun for women.

  • Yes it’s true because while us men use all of our senses for sexual behavior, women don’t. Plus women have much lower sex drives than men since they produce more estrogen than testosterone, this is why men are usually the ones who initiate sex, not women. Most women don’t even find the male body to be sexually arousing in a visual manner, they only care about what a man can do with his body rather what it looks like.