Is it true that sometimes a woman will not date a muscular man because she feels insecure?

[AlexTheQuestionAsker]

[_Maya_]

Huh? I don't even understand what muscles have to do with whether I would date someone or feel insecure. If he has muscles great. If he doesn't... great. I don't really care and it doesn't factor into whether I will date someone or not. I have no clue why someone would feel insecure because the dude she is dating has muscles. That makes no sense to me.

[CoolCatMar1]

Preach

[_Maya_]

@CoolCatMar1 Right? I don't get this question...

[AlexTheQuestionAsker]

Perhaps I wrote my question badly, apologizes!

[_Maya_]

No problem! I was just a bit confused. My bad.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s true sometimes, but about handsome men. I sometimes reject very good looking guys, because I feel insecure and feel like in the end they will leave. So why start at all?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s not true about muscular men. Muscles do nothing to me. Especially your profile picture is a bit too much for me.

[AlexTheQuestionAsker]

Thank you for sharing your opinion, also my profile picture is not a real person

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I know it’s not. Would be very weird if he was.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Hopefully you’re not aspiring to look anywhere similar to that. As it’s unattractive.

[AlexTheQuestionAsker]

Too much for me aswell

[Wonderingguyy]

I haven’t heard that in relation to muscle. I’ve heard girls and guys say they won’t date someone that they think is too good looking for them/out of their league. I’m not sure muscles are cared about that much.

[AlexTheQuestionAsker]

You're the only one that replied to me without being mad thank you

[Wonderingguyy]

All good :)

[AlexTheQuestionAsker]

I don't know why they mad for I just asked a question😭

[Wonderingguyy]

I don’t know man, some people can just be a bit weird on here!

[Katie1964]

I don't understand your question.

If I was insecure; so I would think a muscular man would not want me or that a muscular man would hurt me?

[AlexTheQuestionAsker]

I know I didn't write it properly, what I meant is sometimes people feel insecure to be less attractive than their partner.

[Katie1964]

OK now I understand. Thanks. I could see some women feeling that way. We tend to have more insecurities than me and tend to over play them in our heads, I think.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Not my type.

They look like the underside of a cockroach.

[inhua]

only if he has a bad face

[CoolCatMar1]

Νot true and muscles aren't that important on a dude anyway

[Wallythewalrus]

I know a ton of women that aren't attracted to an overly muscular guy. Not because they are insecure but they just don't like how it looks. The only girl that felt a little insecure, was a cousin of mine. She had a crush on my friend that was muscular and she was like, "he's a body builder. They like girls that are like a size zero". My cousin was absolutely gorgeous! I told her she must be on Crack to even think that... they ended up getting married.

[CoolCatMar1]

@Wallythewalrus ok that makes sense

[CoolCatMar1]

@Wallythewalrus my boyfriend is fit and works out he got 15 kg of muscles after i met him he said he works out to look good for me and because he likes it

[CoolCatMar1]

@Wallythewalrus i like muscles but not too much

[Wallythewalrus]

From what I have heard from women, most are like you. They think being overly muscular just doesn't look good or natural. I'm the same when it comes to women. I like a fit looking woman that takes care of her body but I don't want a girl that can beat me at arm wrestling.

[CoolCatMar1]

@Wallythewalrus my boyfriend is perfect in the body department. Don't need Schwarzenegger

[gothbxtch]

sometimes a woman is not attracted to muscular men

[Wise4myage]

Very arousing.

[Anonymous]

Heck no I'd not date him cause those guys are jerks let them have the gym bunnies!

Yes we get insecure but we don't date muscle heads! We date rich guys who treat us right and we show off!