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Is it true when a girl has sex will her vagina hole stretch out more if she starts having sex more often or go back to its shape?

I’m curious because I was touching myself down there and noticed my hole felt more opened and I know that’s obviously because I just had sex this past Monday and that was my second time since May of 2021 but I’m wondering will my hole stay like that if I decide to have sex a little more often or will it go back to its shape regardless or if I didn’t have sex? Sorry if i sound stupid it’s just I waited a bit longer than usual to lose my virginity till 22 and I’m still learning some of these things.
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  • No. The bigger difference is if you are ready. Inexperienced men get this wrong a lot. Some women are ready to go, some need to warm up. A good way to tell, other than moisture, is to slide your finger inside and feel for the cervix. If it is right there, and inch or less, you need arousal, if it has already shot back, you are ready. It is quite fun if you feel it shoot back.

    similarly, proper lubrication makes everything glide properly (often women need oral and nipple stimulation for that). If a woman dries up a little, but not totally, she can think his member is bigger. I have had women say that before. In general, he should not put it in until you are ready.

    for a young man, 69 first, so he calms down, then let him go down on you until you are ready (and he is hard again). Without a condom, it gets really soupy, but that all oozes out fast. In marathon sessions, get KY. Also, have him massage your breast with the key while he eats you out. Some women really, really respond well to that. The first time I did it, I was 16 and the girl got so excited she pulled me up into her. I forgot the condom. She was 13. She got pregnant, and I had to take her to get it fixed on the sly. She never spoke to me again for years, then she came back around years later. When I fell for her again, she left me again.

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  • With extensive foreplay including oral, the vagina will tent, accommodating a longer penis. How much it tents varies among women.

    Additionally, the vagina walls (muscles) will relax, accommodating a large girth penis. The maximum girth will again depend on the individual woman.

    A vagina can remain stretched for a while, how long depends on frequency of sexual activity and the individual woman.

    The above is basically what research has said.

    From my personal experience, this is true. I have a very long and large girth penis and an above average body count.

    My current SO had no problem with the length of my penis. It took a while for her to be comfortable with the girth though. We have sex very frequently which keeps her vagina stretched. When a business trip of several days occurs, she has to use a thick dildo to prevent shrinking back to normal.

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  • With normal sex, you shouldn't have any problem snapping back to normal. But for women who into the kink of being stretched with monster dildos or being fisted, I think there comes a point where the vagina will just not go back to normal.

    I was on a website once, and couples were putting on live sex shows. On one show, a husband and a few of his friends were using monster dildos on his wife. It was funny, because after awhile the guys could hear that the football game had started in the other room, so they jumped ship, and left the wife behind. But before she ended the show, she wanted to demonstrate to her fans that her pussy was still tight after that. So she stood up and took what most people would call a really big dildo, and shoved it in. (even though this dildo was really big, it was tiny compared to the ones the guys were using on her) She wanted to show her fans that she could hold the dildo in with no hands. The experiment failed, and it fell to the ground. lol

    So she just took off and went to watch the game.

  • If you stop for a while the body is designed to heal. Woman squeeze babies out and then things heal back for the next. If you went a month without sex you would definitely notice the difference.

    • That is very true because it got super super tight when I was celibate for like 9 months after spring of last year but just noticed it was my second time and it slightly hurt when he first went in then I felt more widened and the aftermath was being able to put my fingers deep inside without pain but just more opened. I got scared because I was like wth I’ve only had sex with 2 guys..

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  • Do they sell tampons in different sizes?

    After a few years of sex do tampons fall out?

    Some links

    https://medium.com/dose/can-sex-affect-the-size-of-your-vagina-d3743c722512

    https://www.teenvogue.com/story/vagina-myths

    https://medium.com/candour/sex-and-vaginal-elasticity-90fe18c4bfa

    https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/loose-vagina#vaginal-changes-over-time

  • Your looseness is mostly directly linked to how aroused you are, it doesn't really have any bearing on the amount of sex you have.

    The vagina is predominantly made up of muscle and smooth tissue which expands and contracts depending on the blood flow, blood flow depends on a lot of things including arousal. Age can also play a part in the elasticity of those muscles and tissues.

    I'd recommend you learn kegel pelvic floor exercises to help keep everything in shspe down there, they also help with urinary issues as you age.

  • It's not a balloon. It's a cavity surrounded by abdominal muscle. It doesn't stretch. The "tightness" comes from muscle strength.

  • The vagina is like a rubber band. It will go back to its initial tightness

  • Sexual relations do not affect the size of your vagina. Even a monster dildo will not.
    However...
    If you have frequent sex with someone, you will become comfortable and familiar with them and your vagina will SEEM looser than at the beginning because you anticipate them. If you stop and are abstinent for a while, your vagina will feel snug at first and relax over time.

  • If a baby can come out of there you know a vagina is stretchable you should feel it swelling down there as you play with yourself all normal enjoy :)

  • it will go back to it's shape regardless, so long as you don't have other health issues causing it to stretch out perminently.

  • The vagina is very elastic but it also depends on the specific women's body.
    Some girls who were skinny but never exercised had gaping pussies.
    Others who would at least exercise but were curvy and fluffy I could fist them and their pussies would still snug around My cock nicely.
    It all depends.
    Planks and kugle exercises are helpful.

  • No. Absolutely not. The girl I dated for years was tight as hell. The amount of sex we had was insane… she was just as tight the first time and the last time… a doctor friend we have actually said that’s not true as well.

    • The stretching out could be probably because it was only my second time then huh and maybe it was still intact from losing my virginity? That’s what I’m thinking..

    • I just noticed that&just felt anxiety but I guess I’d rather not be in pain anymore from getting my cherry popped and just enjoy sex

  • Do you stretch, like with your legs, for splits and such?

    It's like that.

    You increase the ability for that muscle/tissue to stretch longer. To accommodate the size of your partner or toys same as with lower splits.

    You will have easier time going into lower splits holds, similarly as taking larger guys/toys.

    But don't just lose the control of your legs and just keep falling into splits with every step.
    You private parts will have less natural tightness as it will be more relaxed with that size.

    Everything will tighten up/lose flexibility range if you do not "practice" for a while. To a more natural level.

    Working muscle strenght along with its stretchiness will help keep you feeling tight and also prevent injuries when getting too rough.

  • I am not a physician but from practical experience your vagina is capable of actually accepting any size cock given that the muscles inside expand and elongate accordingly with time and patience allow your boyfriend or husband to push deeper inside into your womb and ejaculate deep inside you. As you have your menstrual cycle your vaginal muscles constrict so you feel as tight as a virgin when you make love again unless you've had children then the doctor always ties what is called a husband's knot inside your vagina.

  • quality of a pussy is back to in shape after awhile.

  • Tight hole means either the girl is uncomfortable or the girl doesn't have good control over her body. With sex, she might be comfortable and hole might be relaxed. If she's unhealthy then also it might seem big as she doesn't have good control over her body.

  • No.
    The vagina is literally muscles. The ONLY thing that makes it loose is age.

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