Is it understandable/okay that a man expects sexual favors from a woman after spending time and money on her?

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  • Look watch a few nature documentaries and observe the mating rituals of birds or certain animals. There are birds where the male brings the females gifts and then She decides if He is a fit mate or not based on what He brings. People do the exact same thing and its not like the man does it expecting to get laid its just His way of trying to say hey its me and I want You which is no different than the birds. Does gifts automatically mean sex no but He is still going through a natural courtship ritual. I'll also say with My EX I enjoyed buying Her gifts because it made Her happy and I really loved to see Her smile and the appreciation sex I got afterwards was the best.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Eeeeh yes and know.
    No cause if he does it souly to get laid, that's kind of manipulative, disrespectful and basiclly soliciting prostestution.

    A gift is just suppose to be a gift, not leverage for a favor, and certainly not that specific favor, if she gets you a nice candle in return you can't really complain she didn't blow you.

    But also kind of yes cause that is basiclly how this song and dance called dating goes. We proof we care and dont just see you as a piece of meat and then ironically you 2 paw at each other like pieces of meat. The dating game can be pretty stupid and frustrating at times.

Most Helpful Girls

  • absolutely not. if they wanted sexual favors in exchange for time and money, they should get a prostitute. you are NEVER obligated to have sex with someone. men who make you feel otherwise are complete fucking garbage

  • No, if he wants to get sex for monetary value he can go to a prostitute.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No its not understandable, no man should expect anything other than the pleasure of her company

  • No. It's not okay.

  • No, absolutely not.

  • Eh... Men should really not be trying to buy sex from women, but then again, who's fault is it they feel that way in the first place?

    If I saw more cases of women buying their boyfriend's affection then I'd give em more slack, until then; ladies, you'd better show your appreciation on your knees otherwise he should just spend his money on himself or his homies and kick you to the curb.

  • A.5 It is understandable that he would want that, perhaps even that he has earned it but not reasonable to expect it. That implies some prior agreement.

  • If he’s spending time and money on a consistent basis he’s showing her that he takes the growing relationship seriously and her going along with it implies she’s at least open to that side developing.

    she doesn’t owe him sex for accepting this stuff, but she’s operating in bad faith if she continues to accept it while knowing she has no interest in him. If you have no interest in someone letting them woo you is shitty behaviour.

  • You're not obligated to fuck him but it's understandable that he'd feel frustrated especially if you knew he was hoping for sex/relationship but continued to lead him on.

  • I voted no but I usually have separate bills on a date unless they are a student or something similar then I might offer to pay

  • For all the girls who vote "no"
    We expect that, because we will not give money and time for nothing in exchange

  • Expects? No.
    Wants, and is disappointed if he doesn't get? Yes. Has the right to no longer be interested in talking to her or seeing her if he doesn't get? Yes.

    So basically, I mean I guess that's sort of the same thing, but whatever.

  • Understandable? Maybe

    Okay? Hell no.

  • No, Gold diggers hold everything back till they get all your money and then they run. But definitely not expect a girl to do sexual favors like ever.

  • Understandable, not okay

  • Yes and no. I mean if she's a virgin waiting for marriage than no. If she's a slut then sure but if she doesn't, then simply STOP putting money and effort on her and dont be a whiny bitch.

  • I think so

  • I spend time and money on a girl because i want a relationship that hopefully leads to sex, because i like them

  • Probably not but in there mind it could be

  • You’re damn right.
    Women expect us to put a ring on her finger or we are “wasting her time”...
    put out or get out.