Is it usual to make the guy cum in a handjob/blowjob pre sex or is it just to turn them on before?

[Anonymous]

[tinyclit]

It's not unusual at all. Please don't think that sexual intercourse is always the main event. The two of you can do many things together, none of which need to always be sexual intercourse. You can pleasure him. He can pleasure you. Think about having his nice strong tongue licking your clit, making your squirt and bringing you to orgasm. Screw sexual intercourse. Or think about sucking, licking and stroking his hard cock, having him cum into your wide open mouth, enjoying swallowing his delicious thick salty cum, then sucking and licking his cock squeaky clean. Yeah, screw sexual intercourse, I'll take oral sex every time! :)

[QueenofCups]

I usually use an hj/bj to tease my boyfriend and get him nice and horny for the main event. I've also done it in an Uber car. It's kind of like an extra thrill knowing your doing it right under the driver's nose and he doesn't suspect a thing,

[HappyDominant17]

how did you do that? without him knowing?

[QueenofCups]

@HappyDominant17 I only did it once. I threw my jacket over my boyfriend's lap. Then I just put my hand in his lap, unzipped his pants and slipped my hand inside the front of his boxers. The driver didn't say anything, so I guess he didn't notice.

[HappyDominant17]

ahh I thought you gave him a bj.. that would have been a bit of a challenge! hand job is kids stuff;)

[Silentvoices]

This woman is raising hormone levels

[joysurfer24]

I always do something like that. Sometimes I do it in the Uber home (you have to be so sneaky) and my fiance loves it because he know what's going to happen when we get to our apartment.

[Impactaura]

I like the way you think ;). wush more girls would be a bit more assertive and spontaneous like that

[joysurfer24]

@Impactaura It takes a few years, like I've been dating this guy for a bit so i know what to expect from him. If it were someone new, I don't think I'd be acting the same way.

[Impactaura]

I agree. Just seems like, from personal experience and hearing from others, that guys are always having to make to first move, from the beginning of first talking to the girl and asking her out, to further down the line making the first move to get things started. I've never been with a dominant or assertive girl who would do something spontaneous like that :p

[MysticIntent]

It's quite common in my case. Back in high school the girl I was with would mostly do handjobs because people were usually in the house and we had to be discrete. On a few occasions we'd risk it and she would give me blowjobs on the couch. But on the more rare occasions the handjobs and blowjobs were just foreplay to turn us on.

[Walrus_au]

usual? I would imagine it would depend on the couple and individuals involved. There is no right or wrong way of doing this as long as there is informed consent and no harm to others.

[linds34]

It's better not to make him cum, or else you have to wait a while before he can have sex.

[Silentvoices]

😂😂😂

[BillieJean1070]

Usually it's foreplay before intercourse but occasionally I will give it until he cums.

[KatherineJ]

If it's foreplay I stop as soon as he is hard.
If I'm just giving him pleasure I want him to cum in my mouth.

[OlderGuy965]

Either, both

[meganthemenace]

Foreplay is usually done to arouse the man and lubricate the woman's vagina.. the blowjob is so men will be fully erect, so it's easier to penetrate the walls of the vagina.

[masterkamasutra]

it can be both if you want more round make him cum before.

[GhostRook]

if it's foreplay, no. it just to turn them on

[Anonymous]

whatever you want to do is fine.. every couple is different.