Is it weird he doesn't want to sext/see my nudes?

so i recently found out my guy isn't “that into” or big on nudes. sent a few, got a lackluster response, and he didn't save when i said he could. he says i shouldn't overthink or be embarrassed, but obviously im overthinking you not wanting to see my hot naked body? like why would u not want those photos? is something wrong w him or me and also, wtf am i supposed to do when he's out of town i want to sext
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Superb Opinion
  • I can't speak for him, but some possibilities maybe you haven't considered. Personally, sexting (while I've never done it), I have no desire to either, it seems pointless to me. If it's not in person it's like, "why bother?". And this kind of goes along with that, if he's away and missing you already, seeing your nudes is only going to make him miss you more. So he might be trying to avoid that, especially if it's still going to be a while before he sees you. But just ask him, he'll tell you the reasons I'm sure and then you'll know. Just say something like "I'm just curious, how come you don't want to see my nudes?" or something like that. Don't get upset about it, you don't want to start a fight, just want to get his thoughts on it. There will be a reason.

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  • First thing: never divulge your nudes or sex videos.
    You never know how things are gonna end between you and that's prime material for a nasty payback.

    Second thing: aren't you a couple?
    Just drop your pants as you enter home and he'll be considerably more happier than receiving an otherwise useless picture.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Weird. That happened to me too. It got me all worried tbh

    • Realy? I never thought Girls Care about that

    • @Seppel I love sexting just as any other form of attention from the person I like, so of course I care

    • OK interesting I thought girls hate that

  • You're probably coming on too strong. Would be my guess.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Honestly nudes don't do anything for me either. They stopped entertaining me a while back. I only enjoy face to face stuff.

  • he is either not a very sexual guy or he is acting overly virtuous incase you are testing him

  • Evidently he's quite a lot smarter than you. Oh well.

  • some dudes just aren't that into it.
    I hate sexting and nudes.
    nothing compares to being in person messing around. nothing.

  • I'm the same, I don't care about nudes, I want the real thing. So normal..

  • That is strange indeed

  • I'm kinda the same way, I like sexting but nudes don't turn me on at all.

    It's not u, he's just built different

  • No it’s not he's respecting you

    • well, he did ask me to have a threesome w his best friend and also asked me to wear schoolgirl skirts so I don't know if respect is on his mind

    • Oh wow so much for that that’s awful don’t do it

  • It is kinda weird, yes.

  • That’s quite unusual in this day and age, but maybe he’s telling the truth.

  • Not the most common but it’s not considering.

  • Yes it’s weird.

  • Is he asexual?

    • no we have sex all the time

    • Then it is weird, maybe he has a condition or a different perspective on it than yours

  • Probably he's not into virtual stuff and only real things help him

  • Oh cry a river.

  • It's normal

  • He wants u to have a threesome with his best friend (who’s likely a guy) and he doesn’t want ur nudes. He’s totally gay. It’s common.

    • I don’t know... He’s EXTREMELY into sex. Also I would think if he was closeted gay he’d go to more effort to hide it, and overcompensate by pretending he’s really into nudes

    • Men will fuck anything they have at their disposal.