Is it weird I don’t when to be on top during sex unless I’m in love with the person?

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“I don’t like to be on top”
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Superb Opinion

  • It’s understandable that you would shut down or not put a maximum effort into something that you weren’t very sure was going anywhere. I don’t see it on there that you have a subjective preference everybody on earth has some differences. I’ve talked another post other places about how actually being in a relationship or even better actually being married is going to give you a much better and more fulfilling sex life. Trust is there, emotional investment is there, and partner knowledge is there. Without those, sex is mechanical and cold. A drive through (pun intended) lunch at McDonald’s when you could be having Thanksgiving dinner with someone you love and who loves you back every time.

Most Helpful Guy

  • No it's actually probably pretty common for women

    So there's nothing wrong with it do as you wish it's not strange it's not abnormal in any way and just enjoy yourself

Most Helpful Girl

  • A bit strange lol but to each his own. I don’t mind doing it, which I have done in the past with someone I was attracted to, but not in love with.

    • it's a hell of a ride. or so i hear ;)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not at all. We all have different likes & dislikes. Just do what you are comfortable with and enjoy some great orgasms!

  • It's uncommon, I wouldn't say it's weird tho

  • everyone has their preferences.

  • It's not weird. Everyone is different.

  • Kinda weird

  • No, its just what you like.

  • It is definitely weird when a girl doesn't to be in control of her vagina and womb when a person's penis or vibrator is inside her.

  • no, it's not

  • Very

  • Personal preference

    • Re: update. Has it got to do with feeling comfortable and trusting the other person?

    • Hmm probably also like in the past I’ve noticed if there’s trust issues with the person it really takes a toll on my sexual relationship with the person as well. Like I just kinda shit down honestly. Also with just hookups I find myself not putting my all into sex cause deep down I don’t know if this person is a a hole or not lol. Which 99% of the time is those situations that’s the case. Like I guess it’s not all only physical for me I don’t know if that’s weird 😅

    • Shut down not shit down hahaha

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  • It's weird to have sex with someone you're not in love with in the first place

  • This isn’t something too uncommon.