Is it weird if I am open to oral sex without condom but not vaginal sex (only after getting tested)?

[Anonymous]

I would only want to have (condomless) sex if we have both been tested. I do not think I am comfortable with having vaginal sex without condoms yet.

[FilmGuy93]

That's not weird. I know a number of women (primarily nurses), who like to physically inspect their men before hooking up. They don't mind sucking unprotected cocks, because they know what the physical signs of an STD look like, so they are more worried about getting pregnant than they are about getting an infection.

[NamerOfStars]

Not really- you can't get pregnant from oral sex, after all. And if you both know you're clean, you should be good to go.

[CharlieHes]

You do know that STIs can spread orally too right?

[Asker]

That is why we get tested beforehand

[CharlieHes]

I thought you said you were open to oral without condom

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, it isn't logical. Because people can have STDs in their mouths. You didn't know that?

[Asker]

I clearly say that I am only into it AFTER we have both been tested

[dray995]

Yes, some people just aren’t into it or don’t want to take the risk of pregnancy so they do other things instead. Nothing wrong with that.

[dray995]

No, it isn’t weird I mean.

[Cowboy6666]

Then its fine, nothing wrong with that ;)

[ND4SPD31]

And that’s ur call. 🙂

[888theGreat]

You can get STDs

[Asker]

That is why we should get tested beforehand

[ThebestIndian]

Well, That would be okay. Not too bad

[Yellovv]

Take inside your ass..

[Anonymous]

You can get an STI in your mouth / throat from unprotected oral. You're not weird, just optimistic.

[Asker]

Yes I know which is why I would get tested beforehand like I said in the additional details

[Anonymous]

Yes, you are just as likely to get an STD from oral sex as you are from vaginal sex.

[Asker]

Please look at the additional details. I will only have sex without a condom if we have both been tested. Of course I know you can get an STD from oral sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, well I wouldn't rely upon a condom that he probides if you're using it for birth control. Some guys like to poke holes in them to get girls pregnant.

[Anonymous]

It's your body so you make the rules. It's not weird.

[Anonymous]

This is really stupid...

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Both can make you catch STDs

[Asker]

Yes I know which is why people get tested beforehand and probably only have sex without a condom in a committed relationship….

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed

[Asker]

Okay so why is my opinion stupid if you agree with me? I am confused

[Opinion Owner]

I agreed with your last statement, not when you said you wanted suck dicks without using a condom lol.

[Asker]

You need to read the additional details…. I have never said that I just want to suck dick without condoms. I would only do it AFTER getting tested which is what you do in a committed relationship. There was no “last statement “ . My opinion/statement has remained the same lol

[Opinion Owner]

With someone you don't even know lol?

[Asker]

Oh wow I did not know that I did not know my boyfriend!! Thanks for clearing that up. I will tell him that we don’t know each other according to a stranger on the internet 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed, you never really know someone. Sorry to break it to you lol.

[Asker]

Ok why do you think you know everything about someone else’s relationship based off one simple question? 😂😂 Why don’t you continue with distrusting your partner? I am sure it would be great for your relationship 🍀

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you ask a question if you don't want answers? If you know everything, stop annoying people with your questions and live your life little know-it-all.

[Anonymous]

you can't get pregnant from swallowing

[Asker]

Obviously….

[Anonymous]

Nah its pretty normal, blowjobs are barely even sex nowadays

[Opinion Owner]

Thats still fine, sometimes i dont even want vaginally sex just blowjob

[Anonymous]

Not weird at all

[Anonymous]

Yeah a bit