Is it weird if I tell him I'm not ready to see his dick?

[Anonymous]

Lmao I'm a virgin in a long term relationship but please be honest!

[Berethor]

You virgin so it make sense, but he is not going to stay for long if you are not liking his dick.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/I%27m_a_Man,_I_Can%27t_Help_It

[ohsheeT]

So do you mean just that not willing to see it or not willing to touch it play with it I mean because you can still have foreplay without looking at it I guess

So I take it that he's trying to get you to have some kind of sexual play without having sex right is that what you're talking about

[Rosa2008]

It is your decision, noone can complain about it. If u not feel ready then tell him, if he will not accept it u will know that he is not boyfriend material anymore. That is my way of my life - Respect or leave.

[Anonymous]

why would that be weird?

also, this is a long term relationship? meaning you've been together for a few years? why aren't you comfortable with him? that's concerning.

[Asker]

I am very comfortable with him! It's the sexual part that I'm not ready for yet😊

[ushagomez]

It’s not weird. It is your choice.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s not weird if you are being honest & if you are not ready to see his dick don’t be surprised if he shows it to someone else.

[ta-ra]

Not weird. Your choice and your comfort always. If he loves you he will respect it and wait.

[WhitneySnow]

Not weird at all

[Asker]

Okay thank you!

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome!

[MementoMori777]

If he is a good boyfriend he will be understanding of it and won't be pushy about it

[Asker]

Okay thank you!

[LiamSawyer]

It's not weird if you're not ready for sex, it's always best to be honest.

[dreamstar72]

No not really because you are not ready for a sexual relationship. Which you should be proud of your commitment for being able to say no. Use humor say like, “I love you honey, but for now I see you as dickless. When the timing is right for you can show me you super dick”. Or something like that

[exitseven]

Maybe a little but it is okay.

[stratford]

It might be a little weird if you just blurted it out, but if he's asking you if you want to see it, and you say you're not ready, that's cool.

[tfan1]

No and definitely not weird. It’s your decision 👍🙂

[Mansearching]

Not weird at all.

[Asker]

Okay thank you!

[Mansearching]

Curious. Is it because your nervous or scared OR is it because you'd rather wait until wedding night to see first penis? There has to be a reason.

[Asker]

Yes! Lol

[Mansearching]

All of those?

[Cubus]

Don't worry, it's normal

[Staximus]

If you're in a long term relationship and you're an adult, but still not ready to see this duck them you might be a lesbian

[Sitaraxx]

I don't think that's correct. She could have some sexual trauma also some girls are simply not into the appearance of a dick. After all, they're not the prettiest things in the world. her not wanting to see his dick doesn't then mean she's sexually attracted to girls

[Wise4myage]

That's very normal.

[KostasKouvalis]

He should understand

[EyesOfGod]

If you ain't ready u ain't ready. His hand will be the sexual partner till you are (hopefully)

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

If you're not ready, then you're not ready. He should respect that, especially given that you're a virgin.

[Pete671]

Not weird,

[shortster]

Yes, you should just say you aren't ready for intimacy.

[Charliefretz329]

Honestly is the most important thing