Is it weird that I don’t care if my boyfriend watches porn?

I was always the jealous type who said my boyfriend can’t follow naked girls on Instagram or watch porn.

But my boyfriend asked me if I would feel upset that he watched porn or looked at naked girls online and it genuinely doesn’t bother me.

I understand that women are beautiful and I will also appreciate a good looking man. I also understand my boyfriend has a high libido.

In my head I know he doesn’t want anyone like he wants me and I’m the woman who will bring his sexual fantasies to life. And that’s all I care about.

Is that weird? I don’t know.
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  • As long as you're both happy it's not wrong

  • Not it’s interesting.

  • Your absolutely right, way you expressed and thought.
    Your liberal person.

  • No it doesn't sound weird and I think him bringing this to you was actually nice. Stuff like this can be a big problem for some couples so it's good to be open and honest.

    • he's very nice

  • Hey at least their won’t be any fighting right?

    • Sadly we still fight lol

    • Noooooooo!

  • I don't think YOU're wrong.

    But I kind of think HE's wrong.

    Because I don't see why anyone would have to look at porn if they have a girlfriend.

    ... UNLESS you're teasing him. In which case you do bear part of the blame.

    • We’re not having sex

    • @itsalyssaagain I know. What's your point?

    • You said why look at porn if you have a girlfriend. He has me but we’re not sexually active together

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  • No, it's not weird.

  • not really

  • not at all things are only weird the first time then there the norm?

  • No. Whatever you are comfortable with / works for you. My SO and I both watch independently and together.

  • not weird and its normal in fact. glad you got over it eventually

    • I feel secure with him which is why it doesn’t bother me

  • Very weird

  • A lot of people don't mind if their SO watches porn.

  • Seems normal to me. Why would you care? Makes no sense.

  • No not at all, your one of very few girlfriend who are ok with it and understand that it's ok

    • Doesn’t mean he likes me any less. I’m still his favourite girl

    • Exactly, porn is usually if you're not around and needs to get off or doesn't want to bother you with sex, it's nothing to do with liking these women. You are more understanding knowing that porn is just porn, nothing more to him

    • By the look of your pic he's lucky to have you

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  • Not weird

  • HK! I used to watch porn WITH my girlfriend!

  • No it’s not weird but normal

  • it means u are not insecure like others

  • Whats the problem

    • It’s very odd for me not to be worried about this. I was never that kind of girl. Seeing if I’m right to feel this way lol.

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