Is it weird that I don't like my girlfriend getting a dildo?

[Anonymous]

So some context
Me and my girlfriend are kinda virgins and we're gonna do it together when we can
We're currently long distance because of covid

She has some trouble getting an orgasm so she might get a dildo to help her
I don't have trouble with that I just maybe feel don't really right about it?
It's not about her getting a dildo but more like I'm afraid that I won't be able to give her an orgasm but the dildo will?
That she might prefer it over me cuz we're both virgins?
she's not a bad girl or anything she's the best person ever but yeah there's that

[Dargil]

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[Asker]

Bruh you here for advice or advertising?

[Dargil]

I'm not your "Bruh". Why do you ask?

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

ok check this out go to the dollar store and buy a battery powered toothbrush it's stronger than a lot of the toys at the adult toy store and it only cost 7 bucks when you do get together pull out the toothbrush when you're between her legs giving her head eating her out and put it slightly above her clit at first and turn it on there's no dildo going to do better than the vibrations from a toothbrush oh don't take my word for it check it out your self... girls love vibrations even if they don't know it yet

[PhilEvans]

She won't prefer it, don't worry. While a dildo doesn't get tired, is always hard when you want it, ultimately it's just masturbation. Being with a partner is a level above that.

But don't even think about telling her not to get one, because that's not your place to comment.

[Berethor]

Many guys would not like it in your place, if she a virgin then she should save her first time for you and not waste it on a dildo, also you better not let have a dildo that is bigger than what you have.

[wondering_guy]

Your just scared you work messure up to the dildo in comparison as it might be bigger or longer than you which is understandable but this is just to help with her while separated from you, no matter what size you are even if you don't get her off she would just be happen when she get to see you and be in each others arm

[Iron_Man]

No I completely understand

[okeydoke]

The insecurity is worth putting away. I felt the same way at 18 and was very misguided.

[jahaims]

As long as you never turn her down then that is fair

[Twalli]

I don't know about dildis, but I do have a fleshlight. While it feels good and I can cum more quickly with it than my girlfriend, sex still feels better. I don't know of any girl that would choose a dild over an actual penis when both are available

[Dave31989]

no, it's not

[Nayyr]

Real dick feels better than silicone

[Nayyr]

Not to mention, she has an emotional connection with you

[Asker]

Yeah that's actually true thank you

[Nayyr]

I see where you're coming from tho. Maybe you can try and convince her to buy a vibrator

[Asker]

Thanks I might try that

[Nayyr]

Best case scenario, if y'all ever meet up and have sex. You can use the vibrator while you're having sex. She'll have a crazy orgasm

[Asker]

Alright thanks man

[ManMale]

no, it is not weird but think of the alternative, she may go look for the real thing when you're not around.

[Cryptic-Game]

It isn't that weird.

[Asker]

Do you think I should be okay with it?

[Joe1956]

As you mature... you'll grow to enjoy watching... believe me.

[Anonymous]

Let her have dildo. She needs sexual satisfaction while remaining virgin, therefore dildo is the best choice. Don't afraid of her reaction when you will be her sex partner. I have very nice experience. A few months back I gifted a dildo to my virgin fiancee (she is not virgin now). She has been using it and expressing openly her feelings. Now while having sex, I have encouraged her to use toy simultaneously with cock, that she enjoys double penetration. You can do it also which will make her wild and extremely happy.

[Anonymous]

Not weird to feel that way