Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't think it's weird, I think it means you aren't ready for it yet. Some people are ready for it in their teens, some people aren't ready for a variety of reasons even in their late 20's. Not knowing anything about your trauma history or socialization or other parts of your life story its not possible for us to u derstand why, but that doesn't matter because it's your body and your life.

    • Thanks for MHO

  • Not weird but understandable. It probably more scary for a girl because your allowing someone put themselves in you and your vulnerable. It also might hurt the first time. Also there might be some guys that might want to do something that you never done.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope. If you're scared of sex, it just means you aren't ready to have it yet. I learned that from my mom when I was 15 when I told her I was scared of sex. But on the other note sex does hold a lot of intense emotions, so this is also why.

  • Sex is scary. Having someone put something inside your body. But to be honest to me it’s a huge complement and honor when a woman allows me and trusts me enough to have sex with her.

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  • You virgin? anyway sex is evil trope, what you worried about most girl, getting an STDs?

  • Not at all, I am sure there are lots of people out there, that have a similar mindset.

    • That compromises my relationships

  • It's not weird. You will likely get comfortable with it over time.

  • What kind of sex? Any particular position?

  • No, u need to ease into it. Avoiding isn't the solution

  • Its the fact that you are going to have something put inside you that you may not seen before not how to react when you see it...🤷‍♂️

  • Not really I don’t think

  • Not at all. Sex can be intimidating which is why you have to do it with someone you're really comfortable with. If you're comfortable enough with someone then anything sexual just comes real easy and natural.

  • Once upon a time☝️👀 there was a dk that wanted to talk to a pussy, the pussy said what do you want mister

    Dk said come here want to whisper something to you

    pussy came closer..

    pussy was never seen again till this day💀

    • 🤣🤣🤣

  • Absolutely not. In sex, you just have to trust your partner. Your fear is justified, as men can promise you the world, but treat you like dirt.

  • speaks to lack of experience

  • Not if you are inexperienced natural

  • 😂😂😂 I used to fell that way when I was in my teens

  • u take ur time and dont worry,,, its scary sometimes out of marriage so u het married before

  • No it’s not weird at all some people think the same too

  • no not weird at all

  • No, it's a very intimate thing.