Is it weird that I’m a giver sexually?

All I care about is if a guy is feeling good and tending to his sexual needs. That turns me on so much 😂 Im not picky with a guy’s looks all I care about is if he’s getting the pleasure he needs 😂
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I think women are wired this way more than men 😆
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I get off on his satisfaction. that’s my fetish. so yes i orgasm when he looks like he’s really enjoying it
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  • I am 100 % you lol. I'm a giver of self because I feel through you or them every thing I do to a girl I feel back through her and the more turned on I can get her the more turned on I become there is a peek that is my goal that is so beautiful I think I do this because then I can control how long I last. And I like to last a very long time I'm not lazy that's forsure I also thing I do this because I think I've only been turned on by a girl one time,, well I don't mean it like because I have been what I mean turned on all the way through ,, I've always wanted to meet a girl who was like me just to see what it felt like

    • you get me lol

    • Oh yes there is something so beautiful about doing it that way and also everything you do comes from with in so the person your with light up with every touch

    • Thank you we should chat some time

  • It's fine... BUT you need to make sure you know how to avoid the kinds of men who would just take unfair and unreasonable (even abusive) advantage of that. As long as you have that covered, then you do what you enjoy, and you're fine.

    • Yes i’ve taken that into account because i know the types of guys i can attract if i talk openly about this (i went anon for that reason too). I don’t normally say this to people. Thanks!

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  • It's not remotely weird. A LOT of women are sexual submissives like you. Do you enjoy it when he hurts you sexually?

    • No. wtf

    • Some subbies have a masochistic streak as some Doms have a little sadist in their sexuality. Not your thing. I get it. Just asking. You just get off on him getting off, right?

    • Oh i see what you mean sorry. Yes i get off on him getting off! it’s really hot! but i do enjoy it when we act like he’s just using me for sex kind of role play. it makes me orgasm more intensely

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  • The fact that you enjoy it and orgasm when he looks like he’s really enjoying it is awesome. I have no criticism whatsoever. In fact, you rock.

  • You’re a good girl,

    • i am

    • You can orgasm from just pleasing him without touching yourself?

    • of course i have to touch myself lol

  • While you are generous and I'm sure your bfs have enjoyed some great orgasms from you, remember that you deserve some good orgasms also!

    • i get off from that

  • No it is not weird. I wish that there were way more girls like you.

  • I have gone down girls and gotten so turned on that i got myself off eating it. One girlfriend used to make sure i would not be "spent" before the main event.

    To each their own, but you need to get some pleasure yourself. I knew a girl in college that just loved to give oral to guys and ingest semen. She did other things to but was quite happy just to go that.

  • Both lovers should want to give

  • I don't think it's weird but I'd be kind of annoyed if my girlfriend only focused on my pleasure because I always want to make her cum multiple times before I do

    • that’s hot too

  • Nope and i would say every guy wants that lmao

  • I'm a submissive, it's completely natural to me to put aside my own physical pleasure to focus on my partner's. I get off mentally to the point that it's as satisfying as getting off physically. I found the reasons for this, as a dominant taught and trained me, but it's long and complex and takes time to understand. It's a great place to be :)

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