Is it weird to enjoy being a exhibitionist, yet insecure about my own body?

Many probably got tired of telling me this already but i just want to know how others feel as the one who watch and the one who getting watch, i enjoy it from time to time, it got me excited and wanting to see the impact. Do you feel the same or its tiring?
Ps. I do it for fun not money of course, i ain't that good enough lol
Is it weird to enjoy being a exhibitionist, yet insecure about my own body?
Is it weird to enjoy being a exhibitionist, yet insecure about my own body?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • So personally If your the one on the photos then you look really pretty. Being an exhibitionist is not wrong but you have to know there is a lot of people who hate anything they can point at. Like everything else you do if you give it to people to judge many will say their opinions and you will have a bunch of doubts after watching. Of course I read comments and everyone was nice thanks God.

    Don't stay to much with what other people think, start taking care about your body and how you see it. There is always something someone wants to change about the body but don't let that back you up, you are perfect. Use caution about how you exhibit yourself and remember through out the internet their are a lot of creepy dudes and girls as they are those who just want to hurt people.

  • if you mean having sex in front of others, I don't mind, it doesn't do much for me, but if it's my girls kink, I don't mind doing it in a semi social setting. I think some feel less insecure when they exhibitionist and get good feedback type thing. For example if I took you out with your heavily recycled pics, they'd call you hot.

    Like this weekend went out with friends (couples), and they were doing somewhat sexual behavior, there was kids present so no actual sex, but probably more than most couples willing to do in front of others.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Firstly you seem to be sexy darling so better be confident about it n show as much as u want
    Being exhibitionist is something very sexy n fun i really enjoy it n so would you if you stop feeling that way about yourself

    • I agree that she seems sexy! Very! But she has already said that she enjoys it, and seems to very much, even while feeling insecure. So much fun having sexy exhibitionists like you and her in this world! :-)

    • @Red_Arrow 😊😊 yea i meant she doesn't need to be insecure

    • She definitely does not need to feel insecure. She is hot!

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  • Nothing wrong with it at all. You are anonymous to your audience and despite your own insecurities, there are many that will appreciate you for both I nocent reasons and the typical guys...

    You look lovely 😘

    • Thank you 💗

    • You're welcome 💗

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  • It doesn't matter what you like sexually (as long as it is legal) you can still have insecurities and body image problems. Also, please make sure to go to events that allow exhibitionism because if you do it outside and publicly you can get arrested for it.

  • Well that probably goes hand in hand. You feel self concious but by revealing it you are having others see you and desire you which makes you feel less self concious.

  • I don't think it's weird, since there's no conflict here. Things that turn you on sexually are an entirely different thing from your self-image and confidence level.

    People who think that they themselves are unattractive but find you attractive will likely tell you that you're being silly/stupid/ridiculous, and may get angry and/or offended at your suggestion that you don't see yourself the way that they do.

    And you do seem, from your pictures, to have a conventionally attractive body type. I'm sure you're not getting any complaints from the people who see your pictures.

  • Yes, because you know from the appreciation you receive that your body is exciting and arousing, yet you still feel insecure. Everybody has imperfections. Some have few, some have many, but there are always imperfections. But when your body is so attractive, you should not even think about so few tiny imperfections.
    As far as the exhibitionist part, you enjoy people appreciating your body and you are not ashamed to show it, except for parts you feel are not good enough (which is why your insecurity). I think that is great, and you have so many guys (and gals) from around the world telling you how much they like it. That boosts your ego and makes you feel good.
    I think your body is great and hope you learn to get over your insecurity soon. And continue to enjoy showing it, just don't get in trouble doing it in the wrong places.

  • Everyone enjoys attention as long as your careful and respectful its not a problem at all.

  • I would deff rather watch than be watched. If you like to show off feel free to show me, I'd enjoy that! LOL

  • I’m kind of the same way.

    • Would you like to show me something?

  • We just had this discussion last night and I stand by what I said... I’d absolutely enjoy watching you pleasure yourself and with that body you really have no reason to be shy lol

  • It's not weird at all @Luna1998, a lot of us have a natural exhibitionist tendency

    I would guess many are now very much enjoying looking at the pics you've posted with this question !

  • Great pictures. I think it works. Confidence will come with time. Curious- do you have any tattoos or piercings?

    • Nope

    • Cool. 👍

  • It’s not weird.
    The attention is what your enjoying and that’s just fine.

  • so how can i get in on this?

  • not weird at all... i mean im no hunk of a man but i like showing off to a willing audience

  • Maybe your exhibitionist tendencies are serving a purpose, which is to become more accepting and secure about your own body. It's certainly not the only way to become comfortable with your body (and there could be pitfalls) but maybe it's one way.
    Have you ever thought about practicing social, recreational nudity in a setting where that's permitted and safe? A lot of people have become better friends with their bodies by doing that in a safe, nonsexual setting where all bodies are accepted and there are strict rules for appropriate conduct.

    • P. S. You have a very attractive body with beautiful skin.

  • Maybe they go together. The public seeing you intimately implies their acceptance.
    One way to get over an insecurity is to confront it.
    The prehistoric G. Gordon Liddy had a fear of rats. So he cooked and ate one. That's an extreme version of you displaying your body. Seems healthy to me.

  • Not at all. To the extent that positive feedback comes in from the exhibition it’s like a boost to your self esteem.

  • I say you are without a doubt beyond sexy and turning me on I'm glad you exist love

  • I think it's your insecurity that drives your exhibitionism.

    Maybe you're insecurity drives you to seek validation in the form of attention. I don't think that any amount of "likes " will ever be enough to erase your insecurity.

    Work on your mental and you won't care what people think about your body.

  • I guess, all exhibitionists are insecure of their bodies, thats why they present it to strangers, in the hope to get a positive reaction.

  • Hot pics :) And no I don't think it's weird... it's likely a rather common thing for folks into exhibitionism... I would imagine you insecurity would likely subside with favorable responses (which I think you'd get) but you do need to be ready for mean comments because too many folks online will say very mean things (even without a basis but just to be mean). Please please please do not ever listen to anyone like that.

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