Any fantasy is normal, if it is not practiced violating social and generally accepted moral norms. Sex itself is great and fantastic. Sexual fantasies are a normal part of life and it makes sex more pleasant. Some may be hot only as fantasy; others might be things you want to test out in real life. To workout them, talk to your partner, odds are he / she will have a similar sexual fantasy or two that he / she would like to try. Many girls / guys feel ashamed of their turn ons and inner erotic thoughts, but no matter what the fantasy is, it is completely normal. We are all dirty dreaming about it and always think how to act them out, if you are just more creative than most. Because of our cultural practice, I have never thought or dreamed about multi-partner sex or se outside marriage including Non-monogamy or Open relationships. Power, control, or rough sex excites millions of people. Sadism and masochism and bondage, discipline, dominance, and submission make up the popular fantasy. The idea of being in control is hot due to the taboo nature of rough sex and sense of authority. This kind of play is about radical trust because it is a vulnerable type of play and it has arousal potential. Fantasies that center on novelty or adventure or variety are common. When he is about to cum in me, I dream for an eruption of lava (of happiness) in me and lava flowing out spoiling me totally. Many times we both – I and my husband enjoy dreaming during lovemaking that we are not in our bedroom (we may not in bedroom in reality) and visiting some HOT place in Himalaya or on the bank of a river, on Moon and Venus. Any sexual relationship or act that could get us into trouble or be seen as weird or forbidden or gross in real life can be a turn on. In and out of the bedroom, we want what we cannot have is the way our brain works. Common taboos include licking feet, watching people engage sexually without their knowledge, and exhibitionism are the most common of forbidden sex. We have seen our neighbor enjoying sex through window when they forgot to curtain and lights were on. Cowgirl and lap-dance are our favourite positions where I can control movement and penetration, he last longer and can play with my boobs or suck them without much activeness. I enjoy dreaming giving him BJ doing such naughty things – that is not possible, because he is in me. Power dynamics in an erotic context create such sensorial arousal.
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having sexual fantasies is part of human nature but it might not be appropriate if you're having sex with your boyfriend and thinking about someone else. some might construe it as emotionally cheating but to each their own.
we all have sexual fantasies - we might think they're weird (just like how we find our voices to be when listening to an audio recording) but they're not! as long as they don't invlove underage kids, a fantasy remains just a fantasy!1 0 0 0You can fantasize about it being your boyfriend because anyone could be a multimillionaire. When you fantasize about another man, then it becomes a problem.
1 0 0 0It’s not that he’s another man. He doesn't even have a face, just a different built body.
Try to stop. Visualize your boyfriend. I do that all the time. If it's because your boyfriend is out of shape or something, that's just something he has to work on.
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1 16Why not include your boyfriend in role play scenarios that might be fun for both of you and bring you together rather then separate you into your own mind?
0 0 0 0Completely. Just be grateful.
0 0 0 0Normal. Most everyone has fantasies!
0 0 0 0Lol tell your boyfriend! I bet that he would be ALL for you fucking a millionaire!
0 1 0 0Haha I don’t think I would tell him
I mean maybe not to the point that you think about that when the two of you are having sex which by the way might be a sign that you aren’t enjoying it as much. But if he new that you had that fantasy and thought of it often he might be in to sharing and just giving you the freedom and possibly even assistance in getting a millionaire on the side.
Certainly not abnormal or rare, but I hope its only a now and then thing, otherwise its not fair to your boyfriend.
0 0 0 0I used to fantasize about one of my ex’s friends watching us during. I know the girl would have and I thought she was hot. That’s about it. I don’t checkout or think of someone else.
0 0 0 0I think it’s normal, specifically for girls
0 0 0 0NO, asking this Q is WeIrD!
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it is normal , everyone love money
0 0 0 0Ummmmm , No... Just turn your fantasy into reality. You’ve got the guy there!
1 0 0 0It is a fantasy. But if you face that fantasy in real world what would you do?
0 0 0 0No, many people have fantasies during sex. Women often have fantasies about money.
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0 0 0 0Lol.
No, It is normal. All men and women fantasize at one point or another during sex.
1 0 0 0Not really a shocker that a girl has a fantasy that involves a rich man or money
0 0 0 0It’s just a fantasy... don’t sweat it
0 2 0 0Normal and hot
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