Is it weird to not cum from having sex?

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Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

Are you not ejaculating at all or it is delayed ejaculation? It is almost impossible not to ejaculate having sex for man. Delayed ejaculation is when a man needs more than 30 minutes of sexual stimulation to ejaculate. By this time both are exhausted and withdraw from the game. It has multiple causes, including anxiety, depression, neuropathy, and reactions to medications. Delayed ejaculation also known as impaired ejaculation is a common medical condition. In some cases, ejaculation cannot be achieved at all. While this condition does not pose any serious medical risks, it can be a source of stress and may create problems in your sex life and personal relationships. Psychological causes of DE can occur due to a traumatic experience. Cultural or religious taboos can give sex a negative connotation. Anxiety and depression can both suppress sexual desire, which may result in DE as well. Relationship stress, poor communication, and anger can make DE worse. Disappointment in sexual realities with a partner compared to sexual fantasies can also result in DE. Often, men with this problem can ejaculate during masturbation but not during stimulation with a partner. Surgeries or trauma may also cause DE. Treatment will depend on the underlying cause. Your physician can determine if a medication is the cause. Psychological counseling can help treat depression, anxiety, and fears that trigger or perpetuate DE. Sex therapy may also be useful in finding out cause of sexual dysfunction. The most helpful thing is usually support of your partner. She can stimulate your desire for se, make you wild and ejaculate – initially in her mouth, between her boobs and ultimately in her vagina.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you can from masterbation, but not sex then I would think that you have a mental block that you need to get through to help you relax enough to release during sex.
Do you get nervous during sex, have performance anxiety, or just have a hard time relaxing or fully enjoying sex? If you don’t feel anxious or stressed during sex then you should probably see a doctor as it could be something else.

BillHe1 · Accepted Answer

I can't Ejaculate anymore at all, during intercourse or masturbation. But mine is a loss due to a couple medical prostate surgeries. I wish it wasn't this way, because I really miss it, but it's just... a fact of life for some.

But if a normal healthy male can't perform or ejaculate while having sex, then he definitely needs to have a talk with his doctor. Don't be embarrassed, but be open.

When I was a little younger, I did have performance issues, and sometimes still do. I had no sex drive at the time, and when I did I had other problems with erections. My doctor found I had extremely low Testoterone levels. After finding the right medication and adding some Viagra, I am back up... and enjoying a more active sex life...

Even without the CUM ejaculation, the sex is still fun and fulfilling.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

If it’s all the time, you need to make an appointment with doctor.

if it’s now and then, look at diet, stress, anxiety, alcohol, weight, fitness levels.

change position, try oral or hand rather than pen.

Screenwriter · Answer

If you're a MAN and you aren't having orgasms after ejaculations, you need to see your doctor. That's not normal at all.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

No, if you masturbate a lot, you may simply not have enough semen to ejaculate. (I’m basing this on the “masturbate too much, from your previous question.”)

loves2learn · Answer

Not weird. Happens sometimes. Could be performance anxiety, mastrubation, make sure you hold off on jacking for 3 days before.

Tamera952 · Answer

For a girl, not at all. For a guy, yes very much so.

slatyb · Answer

It’s not. For some guys It takes practice to relax enough to climax.

Stephbs2 · Answer

Not for me, sometimes I don't want to cum, just want the whole interaction.

Cdnowl · Answer

For a female no but a male yes most definitely. I have never experienced that. Mind you i have not had a lot of sexual practice. Lol

Hannajenky · Answer

I wish my boyfriend had that problem lol, but seriously if you can’t ever it is probably going to be a problem but if you are having trouble getting their during sex it may be because you are nervous or something