Is it wrong for me to make this a deal breaker?

[Anonymous]

is it wrong for me to make boob size preference a deal breaker? I posted a question and I had some time to think. there's this guy that really likes me but he prefers bigger boobs and will look at them when he sees them. He treats me very well, but he makes me feel insecure. I have small boobs so go find someone with big boobs and leave me the fuck alone, I don’t care if I make you happy because while I make you happy , you make me feel insecure. I decided that when a guy wants to talk to me im going to make sure to ask what his boob size preference is before we start really talking so I can cut him off if he likes big boobs. Even if my personality and looks and ass are sexy to him , he’s still settling for my small boobs and I don’t want to be settled for. I want a man to WANT my small soft pirky boobs. I feel like I deserve to be wanted in EVERY single aspect about me. I want them to find my body 100% sexy not 90% because he would prefer my boobs bigger. Is this fair of me or am I just pyscho and way too insecure lol

[Danzigdawson]

Boobs size isn't THAT important... and guys often look at boobs without even noticing that they're doing it and they're not necessarily drooling, mentally undressing or wishing they were in bed with the girl as they're doing it.

For instance, i'm ashamed to admit that one time I realized that I was looking down the cleavage of my therapist a whole lot... and I didn't even realize I was doing it until I started to notice that she was always rearranging her shirt. She didn't have big, noticeable breasts and there wasn't anything sexual about it from my point of view. I wasn't really attracted to her and I didn't lust for her breasts.

Personnally, i like boobs, no matter the size. I don't really like huge boobs bigger than C or D cups. Bigger boobs do not add anything to a girl's attractiveness in my eyes.

Also, a lot of guys like asses better. There's a lot more things to women than their boobs. Their hair, their voice, their personnality, their friendliness, their minds, their smile, their eyes, their small stature, the softness of their skin, their silhouettes, their curves, their look, their interests, their hips, their nape, and of course the stuff down south.

You seem to be insecure about the size of your breasts, but no decent dude will leave you because you have small breasts, unless he's a total douche unworthy of any self-respecting women. However, he may leave you if you are insecure and always concerned that every other woman around you is sexier than you are. When you're insecure (no matter the reason why) you may become jealous, nervous, anxious, clingy, confrontational. And that's the real turn-off.

Anyway, no matter who you are, guy or girl, no matter how handsome or pretty and sexy or successful you think you are, there will always be someone more attractive than you for whatever reason (smarter, taller, more skinny, sexier, richer, manlier, prettier, etc.). In the end, the only winning strategy is to accept yourself just as you are and to appreciate your worth as a person and as a lover.

Also, please note that there's nothing worst than big fake boobs.

[nextdoorguy]

It is actually depend on the guy if he find boobs attractive. I don't find boobs attractive. I find legs and ass attractive. I actually don't like a huge boobs flabby as they will slap my face lol

[In_Trance]

this is fkn retarded. but, you do you

[BloodCursedDeviant]

Whaaat? He’s missing out. Small boobs are amazing.