Is it wrong that I’m sleeping with my best friend behind my boyfriend’s back?

[Anonymous]

My best friend is a female and we have sex. He suspects it because sometimes he makes comments or asks me suspicious questions. I remember once he said if I kiss another woman, he will slap me so hard but didn’t say anything about ending it. What do you think?

[Karin_Anna]

To ask the question in the first place... you know the answer and are seeking justification for it.

Cheating is cheating regardless. If he knew about your relationship with her and was okay with it, that would be a different story.

[Sabretooth]

or trolling. either way-this validates the distrust of bi people.

[Karin_Anna]

I am Bi too, my partner is the ONLY man for me, I play with women too because I can and he is ok with it. There are some things men cannot do...

[Sabretooth]

furthering my point.

[Karin_Anna]

Well if he had issue, I wouldn't. Real life isn't so black and white, there is a lot in between.

[Sabretooth]

i don't mean to be a jerk or to assume, but is he REALLY ok with it? most would say ''yes'' out of fear and few would be okay with it... and this is coming from a guy who likes harem stories and sex games. that might be true in some cases-doesn't seem to be so, here.

[Karin_Anna]

He is welcome to join in but chooses not to, I respect that. He respects that I need to play with women too. if I was u able to provide everything for him, would I allow him to play with other women, he has been invited to join in, so I assume I am good for him.

[Sabretooth]

that tells me that he may not really be okay with it. i see no reason why he'd turn it down-i doubt it's for moral reasons because even though most wouldn't be happy in this situation-those that would wouldn't likely to turn the offer down. i ain't trying to sow doubt or put you down-but i think it's worth thinking about-. the guy in this question is clearly not happy-not that i'm justifying threats of abuse.

[Sabretooth]

not that i condone threesomes... not in the real world, anyway, but that's me.

[Karin_Anna]

In my case, there is no issue whatsoever 🙂 As for the OP, those are definitely alarm bells.

[potatoiswhoiam]

Are you asking if cheating is wrong? I think almost all people agree that it is.

[Anonymous]

So he's not at least getting a double blowjob every now and then? How rude. You should arrange a situation where you can bring her into the mix. You're all missing out on some great fun

[slatyb]

I think you should tell your boyfriend and if the relationship ends that's probably fine. If you want a boyfriend and girlfriend, find a guy who is comfortable with that.

[MrNameless]

You're doing it behind his back. It's wrong and cheating

[boggboss]

Your a cheater and your asking if it's bad meh

[sensible27]

Females orobably wouldn't be as comfortable with it as guys her lol...

[humanearth]

You know it is

[dudeinohio]

Yes it is wrong. Cheating is cheating.

[Twalli]

You don't seem to care.

[In_Trance]

How would you feel if your boyfriend was plowing your best friend behind your back?

[andy530]

If that’s what you need you might want to try to tell him and see if he’s open to helping you get your needs met

[REDHOTLINE]

He is so stupid and dump... brainless boy

[Asker]

He’s not. How dare u

[REDHOTLINE]

And hoe dare he slap you if you kiss a woman ?

[Asker]

He didn’t slap me. He says that he will when he finds out

[REDHOTLINE]

I know he didn't but he said that. How dare he told this?

[Veryhornyjerk2girls]

Not a good idea did you get tuned on by him slapping you?

[Asker]

He didn’t slap me

[Veryhornyjerk2girls]

Oops i read wrong😅

[billluc69]

why not sleep with both, like a threesome

[Anonymous]

If he was fucking someone else would you be ok with it?

[Anonymous]

If he thinks it's wrong, it's wrong.