Is it wrong that I prefer to date/be sexually involved with straight heterosexual men?

I’m a straight heterosexual woman but I have been cussed out and called every insult simply because I don’t want to date a guy who is sexually attracted to other men.

I’ve been called a homophobe and transphobic. I don’t believe I am because I have respect for members of the LGBTQ+ community. I just that I only want to be sexually involved with straight men.

I’m allowed to have a preference. I mean, hell, I’m black and I understand that not everyone is going to want to date me because I’m black and that’s ok. The only time I have an issue with that is when people like that are constantly bashing black women every chance they get. If you are NOT doing that, and you simply just aren’t attracted to black women, then that’s ok. I don’t ever bash anyone from the LGBTQ+ Community, but I just don’t want to date anyone from that group. Everyone has the right to choose what they want.
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  • Of course you're allowed to have your preference. I too am straight and don't care who other people love. Sorry you've been abused. Godspeed finding some one who is a fit.

  • No, it is not wrong to have a dating preference. It sounds like Mr Bisexual is just upset that you turned him down. Move on. Nothing to see here.

    • It’s difficult when it seems like I only attract bisexual guys. I’ve never attracted a 100% heterosexual guy.

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  • It's wrong that anyone should judge you for wanting a normal and healthy relationship

  • Look there are many retards in the world the moment you start to allow these people to bully you into living how they want you too is the moment you give up your happiness

  • Just like how they're allowed to have a choice in who they can be with, you're allowed to express that choice too. Bisexual men are their own category of sexual preference and not being attracted to that category is completely fine. Anyone who says anything against that should look up the meaning about what they're advocating in the first place

  • Like the way a guy wouldn't date a transgender woman regardless of what they look like because the knowledge that they were born men bothers them. If you're not sexually attracted to black women, then that's fine, but if you refuse to date one or be sexual with a black woman simply because they are black, that's racism.

  • ignore those fucktards

  • You are normal to be like that

  • LGBTQ+ isn’t a race/ethnicity. It’s an opinion.
    Everyone is allowed their own opinion. Disagreeing with them shouldn’t be treated like being racist, or at least if you disagree respectfully. (As I do)
    Date who you feel is right for you.

  • No, it's not wrong

  • Gays are all for equality until they get it.
    Then they have to put other people down if they don't adopt or totally support their lifestyle.
    Don't worry about it.

  • Dont let anyone pressure you into something that you don't want. People today are bullied and shamed and quilted into everything from dating to sex. I think its a form of rape to manipulate someone into it.

    Whether its dating a different race, religion, gender, or sexuality nobody should be manipulating you. Kick them in their balls (if they have any)

  • I just dont see why a homosexual guy would want to date you. He prefers guys why would he date a girl. Whoever told you otherwise is not all there in the head.

  • Very

  • Nope, in this day in age is the smartest thing to do.

  • You're my kind of woman.
    I don't want a woman that gets sexual with other women.
    Others may choose what is unnatural, but it's wrong and not the way I want my lady.

  • Not wrong at all