Is it wrong that I want a submissive girl to be my significant other?

[CraigV]

I'm not just talking submissive as in sex related. I mean it also as for lack of better terms, serving me.

[The_Maphio]

Good luck finding one in the era of "Grrl PowEr".
If anything, you're more likely to find a brainlet who asserts that you should be their serf.
Jokes apart, there are quite a few like that, but it's not something that they'll tell you openly during your first date. Good luck finding one, you'll definitely need it.

[CraigV]

Yea they're practically unicorns. It's not that big of a deal. I'm fine staying single and investing in myself.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes because that’s not how it works

there is nothing about respect in your sentence nor anything about trust.

So for you yes it’s wrong

[CraigV]

I'm not gonna write the whole spill on how the relationship works. I'll be the provider, she will be the home caretaker. If I'm gonna be stressed from work. I better not get even more stress from home.

[ChrisMaster69]

I have had a few collard subs, what you are on about is simply abusive. That is nothing to do with submission. That is servitude completely different thing

[CraigV]

I think you're taking the words I'm saying at face value and not thinking more about what I'm trying to say.

[ChrisMaster69]

That’s the thing with words, what you write is what you say. Other than that it’s reading more in to it. You also totally miss what submissive is. My ex was submissive, she was also a kickboxing instructor and well I did not fuck with her if she was in a temper.

[rxm_bxl]

Wrong, probably not, but it could possibly say a lot about you. Why do you require your partner to be submissive?

[CraigV]

Because I don't need a go getter type of person. Ambition and hard work is already something I'll provide to the relationship. I'd prefer someone who could complement that. A supporter, caretaker, home manager.

[rxm_bxl]

Then you mean to say you want a stay at home partner, not a submissive person per say.

[BarryLiverstone]

If you also want to serve her, it’s fine

[Anonymous]

I see nothing wrong, my guess is that you lost your virginity in your teens

[Anonymous]

Not exactly but you probably won’t find her in the USA, maybe in other countries like China

[CraigV]

Oh I know. Partly why I don't think I even want marriage anymore.